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writes:HelloI have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, we get along really well, and he is wonderfull with me, however, I am a very outgoing person, and I really like to go to dancing, it is something that I really enjoy, and it is something that is part of my culture, I am from the Caribean region, but my boyfriend is very very shy, and he really is not a person of go to clubs and things like that. But he is so nice with me that he tells me that if I want to go by myself with other friends to dance, I can do it, and he doesn't have any problem with that, but last weekend I went with a friend, and we danced with a couple of guys there, but I was getting a lot of attention from many guys and even when I would always tell them that I have a boyfriend, I couldn't avoid to feel bad, I felt like I was cheating, but at the same time I didn't thing that I did something wrong, i even told my boyfriend that I went to dance that day, but I can't avoid keep feeling myself like crap, I am someone extremelly faithfull, I don't know why I feel like this, can someone give me some opinion?
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reader, TheRabbit +, writes (15 January 2009):
 The best thing you can do is talk to you boyfriend about your feelings. Tell him that you are faithful to him and that when you go out you feel uncomfortable afterward despite your good intentions and best efforts. He will probably tell you how much he trusts you and not to have these feelings, or maybe this will motivate him to try to venture out with you a little more often. Try taking him out to some more toned down clubs, lounges or bars or out with mutual friends. Take some baby steps with him so that he can feel a little more comfortable in you environment.
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reader, sheribaby38 +, writes (15 January 2009):
 well in my opinion your not cheating. your having fun doing your thing. you realy enjoy dancing and you should continue to do that. if your boyfriend is not upset realx then. when it comes to him being jelouce then he should join you out dancing. but dont ever stop doing what you love to be with a man. it will not hurt him to get out and dance with you to make you happy. have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): first of all where in the Caribbean are you from ? what i think you should do is explain this incident to your boyfriend. tell him how u felt and if he is as great as how u say he is then he will help you get over your guilt.
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