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*isstasteme
writes:Okay my man and I have been together for almost 5 years and we had a threesome a couple of times. It was nice after a while but I got tired of sharing my man to my best friend. Now my man and I have an open relationship and have had it since day 1 and he told me my friend has a tight pussy and I asked him was my pussy tight and he said no. From time to time I think he thinks about her when fucking me, what should I do?
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reader, confusedinkent  +, writes (13 January 2009):
 if you want to have an open relationship then i think you need to be made of really stern stuff!. Its much more beneficial for men than it is for women. hes having hes cake and eating it!. if you want to continue this relationship you need to do one of two things. A: carry on having the open relationship but dont speak of the other people you have sex with or, B: become exclusive to each other and put the past behind you.
From what you have written it seems that the damage is already done. so it really is up to you whether you carry on this relationship or call it a day.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): I think this is the analog to the MFM where the other guy is larger, and she REALLY enjoys the new sensations. Regular partner is now asking, with anxiety, "Is he better than I am?!?... :-(".
And she answers, "No, honey :-), he was *different*, not better; yes I enjoyed his largerness, but I LOVE you, and that makes up for ANY differences between you. Your asking me if I choose him over you - NO NO NO!, I don't. Not now, not ever."
He may fantasize *occaisionally* - but that's a mental excercise, not a desire to replace you. He's still with you, and I assume he's still happy with you or he would leave, yes? I do think you two need to have a conversation about your anxiousness about his comments, you need his reassurances just as that guy in my example above would need his partner's. I believe if he's still seriously with you, he'll be understanding, more than a little embarrased to have been misunderstood, and MORE than willing to give you those assurances.
My best to both of you, and have that talk soon, I believe you'll feel better afterwards :-).
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reader, sheribaby38 +, writes (13 January 2009):
 Well not to be mean but that is what you get for sharing your man. Threesomes rarely work out. Someone usually gets jealous and left out, that's why I don't let my boyfriends talk me into them. No way I'm not sharing my man and if he wants that then he can find another chick who gets down like that. In the future if I were you because this has happened I would stay far away from threesomes especially with your girlfriends! If you want to treat a guy for his birthday or something get a girl far away to join you so you don't have to worry about her coming back for more! This is probably terrible advice but it's what I would suggest to do if someones man really wanted a threesome!
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