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writes: I've met this girl but she says she looks for a certain qualities in guys. i match all the qualities accept 1, i am inexperienced. the thing is, im one of those guys that want to have sex for all the right reasons, not jus for fun. I would like to lose my virginty to this girl because she is very special to me but i think she will not do anything with me because i am inexperienced and i am worried that if we do get somewhere, i will muck things up and be really bad. any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaptainPicard +, writes (10 August 2006):
 Focus on the good points: if she has some heart she will appreciate that you waited for her, plus she can have a lot of fun teaching you.
And ey! you don't have any STDs! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2006): thanx for ur advice, but i'm still worried that if i tell her it will sound too sensitive and she still wont do anything with me. but cheers anyway
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reader, xcherryx  +, writes (9 August 2006):
 first of all if this girl likes you enough shel wait for you til u feel comfortable . if u are inexperienced then dont worry its a good fing.the fact that u wan to loose ur virginity to someone special is good and the girl u like should take that as a compliment. if u fink she will not doing anything with you because of this seems to be very unlikely. i am sure you wil not " muck things up" or be really bad as long as you take your time and get to know this girl. good luck. x
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reader, Minxy +, writes (9 August 2006):
 STOP PANICKING RIGHT NOW!If this girl loves and cares about you, she will listen to you, understand your fears and worries and will reassure you. Fear and anxiety is the worse thing to be afflicted with and once it takes hold seems to lead a life of its own, blowing everything out of proportion! When you actually tell your girl what's bothering you, her reaction will probably make you exhale a huge sigh of relief and you'll kick yourself for getting so worked up! So before it gets more out of hand and you become a nervous wreck, TELL HER! I know that's easier said than done, choose a moment where she's receptive and you're becoming intimate, just be honest and tell her you're nervous, which will leave the way open to tell her why. She will probably be so flattered and glad you told her, and will probably relish the opportunity to be more intimate with you, because she will know it is special and your feelings are sincere. Women appreciate honesty, esp in emotional matters. We dont all want big strong rock hard he men. We want real guys with real fears and feelings, who are able to tell us what's wrong! I'm afraid there's many guys out there who will string women along and say anything to get into thier beds. Its such a relief when a woman meets a man who is sincere. Be brave and go for it! If you cant tell her to her face, you could always write her a letter?Good luck mate x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2006): Forget her. She'd probably never stopsearching "someone more experienced".
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reader, sexylinz +, writes (9 August 2006):
 try talking to her about this.ask her if she would like to teach you what she likes etc. this is her perfect chance to have the best sex life ever as she will be able to teach you what she likes and how she likes it.good luck
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