How one person changed my life
Q. I've been an aunt on this site now for quite a while, at first I started as an anonymous, until I finally took the step to make an account and dare to be identified somewhat. As I've gotten to know a few people on here, albeit still strangers ...
A. 22 July 2010: That Was a really moving article...thanks for posting it...its really touching...and if ure having problems with your emotions,just let em out and if no ones there well we're here arent we!
Take Care.
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She hurts me so much and I don't know what to do!
Q. I've been with my girlfirend for about 8months now. When we started dating she was a sweetheart and was so nice. After the third month she began to fight with me with for just about anything small or big. She would start the fight, get me heated and ...
A. 5 July 2010: The best thing for you to do would be to try to calm her down fr just a bit and then tell her very nicely how strongly u feel about her and how it hurts you when she ignores you...ask her if uve done anything that may have hurt her feelings...tell ... (read in full...)
What do these incestual feelings mean?
Q. Hello. I'm only after hitting puberty, I'm a girl and I've recently been turned on by incest - I read it but I wouldn't act it out. Then I noticed i felt weird feelings towards my dad but I shrugged them off. Now they are back and I don't know wha...
A. 23 June 2010: Well since ure hust hittin puberty..its gonna be difficult but still try watchin normal porn..that could help...dont think about it too much that doesnt help...try and busy urself with hobbies...try playin sports n stuff...that'll help...n i don't ... (read in full...)
How do I make my husband want to have sex?
Q. Hey every one ........... Need a lil advice on how to make my husband want to have sex with me. its bin 2 months now that i try to make the moves on him and he rejects them ive gone as far as going oral and he brushes me away by saying oo babe c...
A. 21 June 2010: Try tellimg him about this...don't hesitate...speaking out will help u a lot...ask him about what he wants and in what way...but not before u've told him about ur worries k...tell him u think about him all the time when u masturbate...that should ... (read in full...)
I feel like a sinner and I don't know what to do!
Q. I feel so so dirty! A man on here helped me with one of my problems and we got chatting and he said he'd help me with any other problems. Anyway he started talking sexually and I did too cos I was so unbelievably horny but now I feel so dirty and ...
A. 21 April 2009: well its completely natural at this age...but i would recommend that u don't do it anymore...there's nothing to feel sinful about k...its completely natural...i know i'm repeating this but seriously DO NOT FEEL GUILTY!!!!! we learn from our mist... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was lovely but now turned abusive. Help!
Q. Hi. I have a massive problem right now, cant sleep at night, cant eat. I don't know what 2 do. Here goes. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and for the first few months he was so lovely and so good 2 be with. But now I am so scared...
A. 8 April 2009: Look i think that right now u should first try finding out why he's doing this...if theres something thats disturbing him..if he co-operates clear things up...but if he still stays arrogant after trying like 3 times..then forget him......ure worth ... (read in full...)
Should I feel embarrassed by such a speech?
Q. I’m sad. I recently attended a wedding where I was surprised to find the groom turn towards me during his dinner reception speech and announce that he’d like to spend a few minutes talking about me. What followed was a long speech (or so it...
A. 5 January 2009: well it is natural for u to fell like this n u actually realise quite a lot about the situation ure in...so do this k...dnt feel bad k...stop thinkin about it..n try doing things that appeal to u..if ure nt inclined towards anything dnt wry...it'll ... (read in full...)
Should she feel sore?
Q. okay well im 14 and my girlfriend is 13. the other nite i fingered her for her first time and she liked it but she said that later on her vagina was a lil sore. is that normal?...
A. 15 December 2008: well yeah it is normal...this does happen during the first time.....it keeps on happenin sometimes till the 4th or 5th time even...but make sure that u go easy on her k.shes 13 after all.try ur best to be as gentle as possible...
n dats all.o n try ... (read in full...)
He said he couldn't cum after I stopped for a second - what's wrong and is it my fault?
Q. Hi I was giving my boyfriend a hand job and i lost my balance for a second and stopped. he then said he couldn't cum because i'd stopped for a sec, whats wrong and is it my fault this happened??...
A. 11 December 2008: well no its not your fault really.just before a guy cums he realizes that he is going to okay? but at that time if the sex stops(in this case the handjob)even for a second then well he actually doesnt cum but the u know the kinda uncomfortable ... (read in full...)
My wife is an automechanic and it's embarrassing!
Q. My wife is an auto mechanic and she also fixes everything around the house. It's kind of embarrassing because my friends always tease me about it. Like once we when on a rode trip with our friends and the car broke down. My wife repair it on 30 ...
A. 9 December 2008: I think that's a stupid question. You should be proud that your wife is so talented and that you don't have to break your back for everything. Your friends are just idiots. You shouldn't pay any attention to them. You should tell your wife how ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with depression as it keeps getting worse?
Q. Most of my questions have been answered her so here i go again. i'm 13 years old I have had depression sense i was 12. recently it's gotten a lot worse i mean a LOT worse, anyway I have seen 2 therapists before and now i'm starting on my 3rd. i've ...
A. 22 November 2008: You need to first try 2 get good friends. If you don't have any or if they aren't good enough just make some on this site. It isn't good 2 stay like this. I also suffered from depression at around your age but I told myself that it was no use ... (read in full...)
Be yourself, don't change for anyone
Q. Hey, this is just my personal opinion. This isn't a question, just an opinion, and I would be happy to hear yours :D I believe, firmly, that you should not change who you are for anyone. I think that everyone is different and unique and diffe...
A. 10 November 2008: i completely agree.u should definitely be yourself but at the same time,we should be sure that what we are doing is right.if we are sure about that then hell yeah we should be different.i am and well my parents seem to get pissed off about it.not ... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend but don't want to lose the friendship...
Q. so theres this girl i really like but see the problem is that we've been extremely close friends for over a year now and i'm starting to fall for her a lot just recently and idk what to do now cuz we also just signed a house on campus yesterday for ...
A. 8 November 2008: i think that you should just tell her.love is a complicated thing and if you keep it bottled up you're going to explode sooner or later.plus if she is the girl for you then i don't think that you should miss the chance and then regret it for the ... (read in full...)
Earlier today he asked me if him and one of his friends could..."play" with me
Q. My boyfriend asked me to dress in something sexy before we..."play".....but other then langerie what else is there? Earlier today he asked me if him and one of his friends could..."play" with me....um..what do I say? I wouldnt really mind it... but ...
A. 8 November 2008: frankly your boyfriend sucks. he doesn't treat you like you are his girlfriend at all. hes treating you like an object of sex like emily said.i suggest that you dump that guy and start searching for someone decent. he's not worth it so just ... (read in full...)
I'm bored and alone, any advice for me?
Q. i am so depressed and lonely.my life revolves around my work and studies. every time i get an oppertunity to go out i have to choose between my obligation towords my work and books or to have some fun. i dont want to die bored and alone. please ...
A. 8 November 2008: don't worry okay.i have almost the same life.but the most important thing to do is have fun by yourself.i know that it sounds stupid but it works.just look around and enjoy whatever you see.of course if u get chances to go to parties heck go for ... (read in full...)
Should I just forget about him?
Q. I have an issue that is really bothering me....There is this guy, him and me were super tight nearly going out...then i met the guy that i have been with for nearly a year so we went through a stage were he hated me and we fought heaps..I know i ...
A. 6 November 2008: you should just ask him whether he likes u or not.theres no need to be shy and well if he says no just like say like yeah i don't like u that way either.this advice does seem pretty worthless i've myself got a pretty bad headache right now.heck why ... (read in full...)
Does Jordan like me???
Q. My ex boyfriend (the one I just got done with) well, his best friend is one of my good friends. we'll call him jordan. Jordan has a girlfriend, but he always walks with me and comes up behind me and wraps his arms around me, grabs my ass, holds my...
A. 6 November 2008: i'm really not sure either.maybe you should just wait and well if he likes u hell make a move otherwise it'll just be another common assumption.that's the best u can do now i guess.... (read in full...)
Does Jordan like me???
Q. My ex boyfriend (the one I just got done with) well, his best friend is one of my good friends. we'll call him jordan. Jordan has a girlfriend, but he always walks with me and comes up behind me and wraps his arms around me, grabs my ass, holds my...
A. 29 October 2008: well i'm not sure.he may but i doubt it would be a serious relationship if it was true.cos like if u truly like someone u know reallly like someone u would not want to go up to them and grab their ass now would u.so i think he is just u know like ... (read in full...)
Why is he turning on the only person who wants to help? ME!
Q. I'm really upset. My boyfriend has gotten really depressed lately to explain this I better start from the beginning. We met years ago and stayed friends until we lost contact because I moved away and lost my phone. He moved house and then a year ...
A. 28 October 2008: Well I have never had any experience with these kinda problems but still I'll try my best to help you. First of all, you need to be strong for yourself as well as for him. If you break down then he's as good as dead. Sorry about that!!!. Why ... (read in full...)
She seems 'put off'' by me..what can I do?
Q. There's a girl who I like, except I don't think she feels comfortable around me. Like whenever I try to talk to her she avoids eye contact and looks for other people to "save" her. Also today in my youth group we were doing the "knot game" where ...
A. 27 October 2008: maybe she's just shy.it could be that she likes you but it could be the opposite too.just try your best to be her friend first.dont make big moves now or anytime soon.just try to get her trust.make her first like you as a friend just make sure she ... (read in full...)
My father is molesting me and my mother has cancer. What can I do?
Q. It was a few days ago when my mom took me my dads house for the first time after they were divorced. She had to work late that night so i had to stay there until the next day and my dad came in to my room n started talking because he wanted to catch ...
A. 15 October 2008: Frankly your father is a big ass**** and I'm sure you agree. You're very nice to think about not telling your mother but I don't frankly think that your mother would want not to say something like this to her. Tell your mom but make sure she goes ... (read in full...)
My mum wont respect my privacy- even steals my underwear!
Q. my mother has no respect for the privacy of me or my brother and treats our rooms like shops where she can take things from. if we try and confront her she just laughs. i have recently to my horror discovered she is even wearing my underwear, and ...
A. 15 October 2008: Well I guess that she is just somewhat over protective even when you are old enough to support yourself. You should just tell her what she can use and what not and tell her this nicely with lots of pleases and yesss!!! lots of pleases. Tell her ... (read in full...)
How much do looks matter to guys?
Q. Do they care a lot about how you look? I know they matter at least some, but what if you have a lot of acne? Would not looking super-pretty or having acne (even if you were otherwise pretty) prevent guys from approaching you or asking you out?...
A. 11 October 2008: looks do matter but they aren't the only things that matter in a relationship.the most important things that i as a guy would look for in a girl would be a great personality,a humorous nature,a good heart and well of course good looks but the other ... (read in full...)
How do I give her a "screaming orgasm"???
Q. Hi, i have either a very usual or unusual question. I dont know how to give my GF a "screaming orgasm" I mean, i have given her one but it isnt enough... She doesnt cum and doesnt moan like my friends say she sould. The way i do is just rub my ...
A. 7 October 2008: try gettin some info on the g-spot, its the only way u can get ur girl really... u can try searchin thru google... (read in full...)
I like him but can't date him because I was abused in the past. What can I do when I so badly want to be with him and just can't?
Q. Hey everyone So among the guys im a pretty hot girl that they all like and also everyones best friend. When i was a little girl i was abused by a friend of the family and i cant seem to understand it but it has afected my ability to have a rel...
A. 4 October 2008: he seems like a very nice guy you are just going to try your best to get over this fear and well try to forget about that experience.the more u think about it the worse this problem will become.this guy is very nic e and well u may never get anyone ... (read in full...)
Help! He will kill me...how do I escape safely?
Q. I have a 16 month old daughter who has had to live with my parents because of the relationship i am in. I just dont know how to get out of it, he always tracks me down.. even in a womans refuge and when he is nice, he is lovely but my body cant cope ...
A. 9 September 2008: you should try and go online and well frankly tell the police or some other authorities whats happening if you cant call them and well just tell us your address and well i'm sure all of us here will help you out.and i request all the people who live ... (read in full...)
How can I make this boy like me?
Q. I realy like his Boy..I talk 2 him..But i dont now if he likes me..So can you help me gett him 2 like me..?...
A. 8 September 2008: just try to become his friend and well be such a good friend that he should want to call u,come up to you,speak to you and well think about you all the time and trust me it is possible to do that.just try it hopefully it will work out.best of ... (read in full...)
She trusted me with information about this other guy, but it's got to me, because she doesn't know that I love her.
Q. Hello Dear Cupid, I'm in a bit of a dhialemma. I absolutely LOVE this girl, we have SO much in common, but, she likes someone that is basically a 10 year older version of me, and looks a little different, but that's not the point :P She trusted me w...
A. 8 September 2008: well since she didnt say anything it probably means that she is thinking about it.now the question is whether you told her over the phone or met her and told her.i personally think that you should have told her face to face,then she would have at ... (read in full...)
An older neighbor has been molesting me for years. How can I heal from this expwerience?
Q. So well...when i was a little girl, i used to wake up earlier then everyone else, so a friend of the family, around my dads age would come and take me in the woods to look at the animals and he used to tell me that we had to hide and stay quite so ...
A. 5 September 2008: well this is a veryyyyyy serious situation u got here.listen you should tell him or rather threaten him that if he ever does anything like that to you again you will tell the police.dont actually tell the police but just threaten him.hes taking ... (read in full...)
She trusted me with information about this other guy, but it's got to me, because she doesn't know that I love her.
Q. Hello Dear Cupid, I'm in a bit of a dhialemma. I absolutely LOVE this girl, we have SO much in common, but, she likes someone that is basically a 10 year older version of me, and looks a little different, but that's not the point :P She trusted me w...
A. 4 September 2008: i guess that u should just tell her that u really love her and that u want to be with her and also tell her that if she won't reciprocate your love then youll be happy just being friends with her but stress on the fact that u love her.next,come out ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend pushes the limits when I am not ready. Am I too harsh to him?
Q. My boyfriend (hes a few years older then mke) wants to go all the way when I wasn't ready. I did talk to him at least two times but he kept (he would tried an grabbed one of my breats we were in his car. I would him off)on doing it. Then one when we ...
A. 27 August 2008: nope that was definitely not too harsh.you should have picked a boyfriend who understands you.but if he is sorry and tells you to forgive him i think you should give him one more chance....... (read in full...)
I'm a lone wolf and have no one to tell things too.....
Q. heya, ok this is going to be long so prepare yourself. well i really dont think i can cope anymore, however serious that may seem. i have lost all my friends as school for the most stupid of reasons. so im basically a lone wolf at school whic...
A. 27 August 2008: you don't have to worry i went through times like this too but you just need to have faith.you obviously havent found the right friends and if they don't accept you well then thats their problem.i'm sure you would be great company among friends and ... (read in full...)
What do people think about 3rd cousins dating or sleeping together?
Q. I have been talking to my third cousin who lives in a different state. He is coming to my state here in a week or so and we have been talking about spending time together and maybe going on some dates when he is here and who knows what else... My ...
A. 18 August 2008: although some people may be against it its not like he is your own brother now is it.its always the person inside that matters
and so if u like him just tell him and have faith in yourself.when it comes to matters like this u don't have to thin... (read in full...)
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