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writes:heya,ok this is going to be long so prepare yourself.well i really dont think i can cope anymore, however serious that may seem. i have lost all my friends as school for the most stupid of reasons. so im basically a lone wolf at school which is not nice. i dont have a boyfriend and ive never had one. i dont have anyone i can tell things to, if you know what i mean. no best friend no boyfriend nothing really. i have friends from the farm where i go horseriding at. but i only see them once a week (every saturday). they are amazing and i love them to bits. but everything at school is such a downfall. i never get out anywhere because none of my friends live near me. and its just little thigns like not having anyone to sit with at lunch that really get to me. i just feel like i want to burst into tears and never go to school again. i dont know what to do or how to feel. i would love some help please, i would be truely grateful! thanks a lot for your time. x x x
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reader, RON_499  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 you don't have to worry i went through times like this too but you just need to have faith.you obviously havent found the right friends and if they don't accept you well then thats their problem.i'm sure you would be great company among friends and so just have patience and if it still doesnt work out then there are people like me who will always support you and well best of luck!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): i must say it sounds alot like me for a longgg time when i was at school, i was the lone wolf, but being a boy i had beatings to go with it, the best way is to find common ground with people, i know what its like lurking near groups of people hoping that the'll talk to you, but as time goes on things get much easier, kids in your school will mature alot more and thus become more approachable, hang in there, i know its lonely and hard but you'll find bf's and friends soon. have you tried taking up a hobbie of some sort? and go to clubs and extra activeitys during lunch or after school? the teachers there will generally make you feel welcome and introduce you to some people and it will build on there
good luck :)
MATT :)
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reader, JamieG +, writes (26 August 2008):
 I was the exact same but i have learnt to deal with it. Get an Mp3 or ipod and listen to that, play on your mobile, just look busy.. Not all the time though or people wont want to approach you mail me if you like
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (26 August 2008):
 Have you told your parents how you feel? Maybe ask them what they'd think about changing schools? I, at one point of my school years, was a loner as well. I started seeking out other loners (because you are not the only one at school) and made friends with them. As we moved up grade levels, other kids that were more popular began to notice us, beacuse we are good people and tend to not be so judgemental. Before we knew it, by the time we were sophmores (10th grade), we were friends with everone at school, no matter what click they were in. Till this day, I have many very close friends. Keep in mind, this is not a situation that will last your whole life, you will gather good friends in time. I know it feels hard now, but things will get better. Maybe use this oppertunity to get closer to your parents. They want so bad to have a good communication with you, and it seems right now, you need to be able to talk to someone about your thoughts and concerns. AND, you always have the aunts and uncles here:)) We'll listen!
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