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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I was giving my boyfriend a hand job and i lost my balance for a second and stopped. he then said he couldn't cum because i'd stopped for a sec, whats wrong and is it my fault this happened??
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): It can be a combination of reasons or just one reason that he couldn't cum. The main reason is chemistry and passion at the moment you are together. If you have a strong chemistry and you are both so hot at that moment, he should cum also when you stop for minute and start again, but if you look bored for example or if you are not with your mind there, and if you stop for a second just before coming...
If you really needs his orgasm, he will feel it and give it to you...(or his mind must be really somewhere else).
And look always to guy his reaction on your harder, quicker, softer....
But we do not know all the story, maybe he cum that day for the 5th time and than there is less pressure and you will have to work harder...
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reader, RON_499  +, writes (11 December 2008):
 well no its not your fault really.just before a guy cums he realizes that he is going to okay? but at that time if the sex stops(in this case the handjob)even for a second then well he actually doesnt cum but the u know the kinda uncomfortable feeling that a guy gets if he continues to have sex after cumming sets in n so it doesnt feel good.but don't worry its okay...just make sure u don't slip or mess up in the end k.best of luckkk!!!:-]
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