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writes:i am so depressed and lonely.my life revolves around my work and studies. every time i get an oppertunity to go out i have to choose between my obligation towords my work and books or to have some fun. i dont want to die bored and alone. please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Wow, I feel you on this one. My life is so boring and lonely as well. It's partly because I'm busy and partly because I have very few friends and very little money. All I can recommend is that if you ever have even the tiniest bit of spare time and money, go out and have some fun! Whenever you have a spare half-hour call a friend, send some text messages or emails, or get on your instant messenger. If you don't have many friends, then maybe you can branch out and make some new ones? I know how hard that is, because I'm very introverted, but in the right situation it can be easier to meet people. Like, maybe you could join some sort of political or charity group or perhaps a church? Pick one of your interests and go with it. It's easier to meet people if you're in a situation where everyone has some common ground. I live in an ultra-lame city but there's still pretty much always something going on here - concert, art gallery show, festival, marathon, political rally - so hopefully your city has meeting opprotunities as well. I hope this helps you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx
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reader, RON_499  +, writes (8 November 2008):
 don't worry okay.i have almost the same life.but the most important thing to do is have fun by yourself.i know that it sounds stupid but it works.just look around and enjoy whatever you see.of course if u get chances to go to parties heck go for it!!there's always something beautiful in everything you see remember that.and i recommend that u take some time out at night and go to some quiet place you know like really airy and green with lots of trees and just sit there for some time.feel the cold air look up at the sky and then after about 30 mins go back.i'm sure that you'll feel happy after that and get a good nights sleep.just try it and tell me if it worked out.
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reader, fill  +, writes (8 November 2008):
i really do feel for you! my girlfriend finished me after 4 years, as she is in university she found it hard, but what im trying to say is she found time to be able to mix with people while doing work! all you got to do is plan your day so that you spend enough time on work and then you will have time to enjoy yourself. there is more to life than just work! hope this helps.
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