My bi girl friend blows hot and cold
Q. Dear Aunts (apology in advance for the length! =[ ), Right now, I'm a 15 year old girl, a freshman in high school. I've known one of my best friends, lets call her Cindy, for about three years. We became very close around a year ago when we ...
A. 3 December 2009: She sound like she is just very insecure and doesnt know how to deal. Hate to use a movie analogy but it really fits here have you seen the movie broke back mountain if you havent rent it immediatly. But the two men fall in love and have ... (read in full...)
I am a girl and I want her to love me back
Q. I'm a 14 year old female who is bisexual. A few days ago I told one of my close friends who is a girl that I like them. They said they didn't feel the same, but today they texted me saying this: "How do you tell a person that sometimes when you talk ...
A. 3 December 2009: Dont try and rush it girl she obviously has feelings blossoming for you and has had for a while but she isnt ready to face it entirely dont try and bring it up all the time just keep being yourself because she is drawn to that and in time she may ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to understand what she meant by these comments!
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me few weeks ago, (I’m a teenage lesbian, if that means anything). She said it wasn’t because she wasn’t interested in me anymore, and when asked she said she didn’t know if it would be permanent, but that it was because ...
A. 3 December 2009: Right now all you can do is be her friend im my opinion its still apparent that she still wants you around for now hard as it is just drop the relationship question and show her that her bad side doesnt scare you away. If she sees you are still ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my best friend but he has a girlfriend!
Q. So heres the thing... Me and my best friend have fallen in love with each other. He has a girlfriend but they are in a long distant relationship for over two years now. We realized that we love each other like 6 months back, and ever since then we ...
A. 1 December 2009: So i read your post about him opening up and i believe it is bullshit he is stringing you along like a little puppet on a string he has absolutely no effin desire to leave his girlfriend all the things he told you about wanting other people to be ... (read in full...)
Should I Allow My Boyfriend to Swing?
Q. I've been in a wonderful relationship with my bf for 16 yrs. People remark how close we are, how loving we are to each other. We do everything together including our work. We have a great sex life and family life. He's always there for me and ...
A. 11 November 2009: HELL no dont allow it!!!!!!!! If he loves you then there is no reason for him to be going out having "fun" that if absolutely disgustinf and ridiculous. You must think safely as well if he meets these people on line he doenst know anything about ... (read in full...)
I'm dating my lesbian cousin and I'm scared...
Q. i'm dating my lesbian cousin and i'm scared... i mean, i like her but i'm scared of what the family will do... when i told my mom i was bi, she almsot sent me to a different state to live with my grandmother... if i tell her ...
A. 11 November 2009: There is nothing wrong with liking girls but your cousin im sorry boo but that just isnt right. I could maybe understand a step cousin but this chick is blood realation to you not cool. It isnt healthy to be with your cousin you should both look ... (read in full...)
My period is SO much heavier than NORMAL!
Q. I am not sure if this is normal...so I will ask? I got my period yesterday(not for the first time,had it lots of times) and it has been really heavy, since yesterday around 3 pm and now I have gone through like 6 pairs of underwear. Also I have been ...
A. 11 November 2009: great hope everything works out!!... (read in full...)
She's horrible so why can't I let her go?
Q. So I know this girl. And shes really, really talented. and attractive. charismatic. And, even though she had some obvious red signs, I thought we clicked and became friends. Eventually this turned into something more and unexpected. I got to know ...
A. 11 November 2009: AWWWWWWWWWWW great im so happy to hear that its gonna be tough but i know you can do it if things get to rough just shoot me an email im always happy to listen!!!!!1... (read in full...)
My period is SO much heavier than NORMAL!
Q. I am not sure if this is normal...so I will ask? I got my period yesterday(not for the first time,had it lots of times) and it has been really heavy, since yesterday around 3 pm and now I have gone through like 6 pairs of underwear. Also I have been ...
A. 5 November 2009: Please do!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has always been faithful, but I suspect he might cheat!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now. he's an outgoing person and funny. he maybe starting a new sales job where he will be working with alot of women. he's divorced and i know that his ex and him both cheated on each ...
A. 3 November 2009: Just because he is working with other women doesnt mean that he is going to cheat on you, you need to get that idea out of your head. The fact that him and the wife cheated on each other could just be because the marriage was dead and they felt ... (read in full...)
My friend saw me naked! I'm so embarrassed!!
Q. had any body ever had embarrsaing moment before cuz i had one not long ago when my friend walk in on just when i was geting out shower naked and she see my privet parts what should i?...
A. 3 November 2009: I mean how did she see you? Did she just barge into your bathroom if so you owe her no such apoligy she owes you one! You will be embarrassed for a while but eventually you will be able to laugh it off so dont sweat it!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is icy cold and won't even cuddle!
Q. Hello aunts! I am 21, have a girlfriend for 2 years and I love her more than my life. I am in deep heart ache these days recieving each romance restriction from my girlfriend every other day. 1st of all, she is never willing to go on a date with me. ...
A. 3 November 2009: First of all you need to ask her what is going on. From what i have just read you havent done that. Its a hard thing to do but you need to ask her if she is happy with you or not. If she isnt you have to let her go because she will only continue ... (read in full...)
My period is SO much heavier than NORMAL!
Q. I am not sure if this is normal...so I will ask? I got my period yesterday(not for the first time,had it lots of times) and it has been really heavy, since yesterday around 3 pm and now I have gone through like 6 pairs of underwear. Also I have been ...
A. 3 November 2009: I had a friend who was going through the exact same thing as you she got herself an appointment with a nurse not a gyno i cant remember what kind of nurse she was but anywho it turned out that her iron was super low and she had to start takeing ... (read in full...)
I really love her but I'm bored and she really gets on my nerves. What can I do?
Q. So im an agony aunt new to this website and i need some advice. Ive been in a relationship with my girl for almost four months now and I feel like im bored. I know its not because we spend to much time together because i go to school and work and ...
A. 3 November 2009: Thanks to everyone for your advice i have found the solution to my problem and i am at peace with everything now. Thanks for your support!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I really love her but I'm bored and she really gets on my nerves. What can I do?
Q. So im an agony aunt new to this website and i need some advice. Ive been in a relationship with my girl for almost four months now and I feel like im bored. I know its not because we spend to much time together because i go to school and work and ...
A. 30 October 2009: Ijust wonder am I bored now bc we moved so fast in the beginning, am I bored at all or is it something else and if I want to make it work can I? Thankyou to everyone who is listening to me ramble like a crazy person I'm just confused ab my own ... (read in full...)
I really love her but I'm bored and she really gets on my nerves. What can I do?
Q. So im an agony aunt new to this website and i need some advice. Ive been in a relationship with my girl for almost four months now and I feel like im bored. I know its not because we spend to much time together because i go to school and work and ...
A. 30 October 2009: Good lord she doesn't have hygene problems she showers on a regular basis trust me I know I just wondered if the fact she doesn't shave traps oder or something and she is sweet she randomly came to my house at 5am before I got up for work and said ... (read in full...)
I really love her but I'm bored and she really gets on my nerves. What can I do?
Q. So im an agony aunt new to this website and i need some advice. Ive been in a relationship with my girl for almost four months now and I feel like im bored. I know its not because we spend to much time together because i go to school and work and ...
A. 30 October 2009: but i really do like her she is very sweet and extremly jealous because her gf of five years cheated on her but i have told her a thousand times i am not that girl. Im confused as to do i think im bored because she makes me mad with the mocking and ... (read in full...)
I really love her but I'm bored and she really gets on my nerves. What can I do?
Q. So im an agony aunt new to this website and i need some advice. Ive been in a relationship with my girl for almost four months now and I feel like im bored. I know its not because we spend to much time together because i go to school and work and ...
A. 30 October 2009: To get on my nerves she will go through my phone read messages ive sent and make fun of me for them. She will repeat what i said over and over again in a mocking tone again and again and again she does that with my laugh too she doesnt ever want to ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to win her?
Q. Three months ago I took a trip to my hometown of Palm Springs California. I moved away four years ago and I had to leave in my senior year in high-school and moved to Bakersfield California finishing my senior year at Liberty High School. Back when ...
A. 30 October 2009: She likes you friend i have no doubt in my mind but she is in love with her alaska girl you can plainly see as thats the girl who she chooses in the end every time. For now let her be happy if you love her that is what you must do, perhaps in time ... (read in full...)
Should I avoid hanging out with people that are gay?
Q. Hey everyone, I need some adivce. I'll try and make this short and sweet and to the point. In March of this year, I was diagnosed with OCD, more specifically HOCD. It's been a problem ever since it started and while it's gotten better, it's not...
A. 30 October 2009: I dont think being near gay people has anything to do with it. Porn is meant to be erotic it is meant to turn you on and its intention is self pleasuring. If it is any consolation to you and hopefully i do not offend you by giving you advice but i ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents and my friends that I'm gay?
Q. im 13 im gay. i love men. how do i tell my parents. and my friends it all started 2 weeks ago when i was straight, i had never kissed a girl though. i went into the bathroom and only my friend, who i knew to be gay, was there. i did my business ...
A. 30 October 2009: Id say wait a good long while before telling your parents although i am gay and have known pretty much forever things your saying do leave some room for doubt you say your not attracted to girls anymore sounds like you were before so if anything ... (read in full...)
I'd like to kiss her again, but I don't know how to bring it up!
Q. Hi. I'm 14 years old, female, and bi. Yesterday my friend and I were planning to kiss so I could experiment. They've once questioned their sexuality, which makes me wonder even more about if they may be bi now. We did kiss, and then we talked about ...
A. 30 October 2009: Or you could be spontanious and just kiss her as she has done to you a couple of times i mean you have kissed before so chances are she isnt going to mind just experiment thats what these younger years are for and if you are too scared for a one on ... (read in full...)
I've developed a crush on a female friend! Is this normal? Is it just a one-time thing?
Q. I have always considered myself a straight female, but lately I have developed a somewhat innocent crush on another female friend. I have known her for a while through another friend of mine but we have recently become more friendly. She is very ...
A. 30 October 2009: There is absolutely nothing wrong with what you are feeling and noting wrong with being gay, but for the most part i believe you have just met a woman whom you really like and admire and the fact that you know she likes women has allowed your mind ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her if shes into me?
Q. There's this girl I've met and I like her a lot! I've never liked a girl in this way B4..We talk on the phone all night and we hangout almost everyday! we talk about our secrets to one another she's so easy to talk to and I'm getting feelings for ...
A. 30 October 2009: Be sly about it girl if you just blurt out hey do you like me as more than a friend it may end up blowing up in your face. Word it in a way you can play it off. Ask her what she would do if one of her female friends was really into her if her ... (read in full...)
I suddenly have this weird feeling that I am gay!
Q. I am 13 and I have loads of girlfriends and about a month ago I have been having this weird feeling that I am gay and I don't want to be, I want to straight! What is happening and when will it go away? Please help, I don't want to be gay, I have ...
A. 30 October 2009: First of all i hate to say it but being gay isnt a choice and you cant just will it away. If you repress your feelings you will end up quite miserable, i am not saying that you are gay ofcourse my friend but if you are gay or bi then there isnt a ... (read in full...)
Advice needed for a fellow Agony Uncle
Q. My friend who is a gay man (I am too btw) has tried to dump his boyfriend 6 times to date. Each time he does this the boyfriend cries his eyes out and tells him (my friend) that he can't live without him, etc etc. My friend gets sad and takes him ...
A. 30 October 2009: Ask your friend to think about why he always wants to leave if they are problems he doesnt want to fix or he just isnt attracted to the guy any more inform him that he is not only hurting himself but also the boyfriend by living a lie if the only ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my dad about my girlfriend?
Q. I've been in a relationship with one of my best girl friends since early May, though we admitted we had feelings for eachother late last year. It's been about 6 months now, all our friends now know about us, after having kept it secret for around 5 ...
A. 30 October 2009: Girl you tell your father if you want to tell him! You have a gf your happy he will eventually be asking why havent you brought home a boy and damn she spends an awful lot of time with this girl. Yes its hard to do but just sit down and say dad i ... (read in full...)
What can I do about the rumors being spread about me?
Q. hi am 15 and i have been having a hard time at school a girl has spreaded a rumor about me, the rumor is that am a lesbain it was ages ago but ever since then everyone has been shouting names at me like lesbo lesbain it really upsets me my mum and ...
A. 30 October 2009: okie doke lovie here are two things to consider first of all you are very popular to have people taking time to make YOU the topic of conversation and second of if you are bi then why not shout it out because calling you something like bi or lesbo ... (read in full...)
She's horrible so why can't I let her go?
Q. So I know this girl. And shes really, really talented. and attractive. charismatic. And, even though she had some obvious red signs, I thought we clicked and became friends. Eventually this turned into something more and unexpected. I got to know ...
A. 30 October 2009: Ok listen girly there is nothing you can do for this girl. I have encountered so many of these girls you are talking about. They are more than confident they are down right cocky. They are beautiful and have the power to make people hang on thier ... (read in full...)
I'm a lesbian who wants a girlfriend, but I'm bad at making friends. How do I become better at making friends?
Q. Sorry if this is a lil bit long.well I'm 16 and female.My problem is i really want a girlfreind,I know that's stupid since what really I should want is freinds since i only have like two,(whom I love very much..on another note) my parents don't no t...
A. 30 October 2009: YOU HAVE TOO MEET THE GIRLS!!!! Forget about how rude you are when you are nervous. You know you do it so brace your self to be ready to bite your tongue when something rude pops into your mind. You may not find a date immediatly but you may ... (read in full...)
She does not understand why I am upset. Should I be upset?
Q. My wife slept with my best friend, no sex, no touching. I was not present. The sleeping accommodation was not the best. First nite she called me and told me he invited her to the bed, there was only one. She was cramped where she slept. She told me ...
A. 30 October 2009: I do believe sir that you do have some reason to be upset with her as she could have told him to please exit the room but from what i read she went to bed first and he came in later so you should be more upset with your best friend than your wife. ... (read in full...)
Virgin... or not a virgin???
Q. I have a question regarding my virginity. I am not really sure if I am still a virgin or not. My boyfriend and I tried to have sex but he couldn't get his whole penis inside, only a bit went it and it hurt me. He slowly tried to put it more inside ...
A. 29 October 2009: It depends my dear on your defination of virginity and sex in my opinion penis in further than fingers can go inside and an orgasm on your part so yea you can still consider your self a virgin how far inside you did he go?... (read in full...)
Anal sex is far to painful for me and I feel like a failure but I can't do it any more... help!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life, despite him working long hours on most days. he's wonderful, like mr. perfect, and i really love him, but i have a really big problem. He's really keen on anal sex, but i've tried it two to three times, and ...
A. 29 October 2009: Honey it is your body if you dont want to do it because it hurts you then dont do it and just tell him plain and simple, and if he has a problem with that then say well let me try it on you and see if it hurts you. Now if you absolutely want to do ... (read in full...)
She does not understand why I am upset. Should I be upset?
Q. My wife slept with my best friend, no sex, no touching. I was not present. The sleeping accommodation was not the best. First nite she called me and told me he invited her to the bed, there was only one. She was cramped where she slept. She told me ...
A. 29 October 2009: I need more details why is it they ended up having to sleep in the same bed was she at his house if so why tell me more so i can help you out!... (read in full...)
Could I be a lesbian?
Q. Im 18 years old and always considered myself straight. However i found when i look at pictures of girls with there boobs out i get really turned on and so wet, i always want to masturbate so badly!! However recently i split with a long term boy frie...
A. 29 October 2009: Yes you could be a lesbian but you could also be bi. Explore your sexuality for sure and most importantly act on your current feelings toward women. If men still turn you on dont freak that just means that more than likely you swing both ways and ... (read in full...)
I always think about doing it with a girl. Am I a lesbian?
Q. for the past few years I have been masterbating and thinking of having sex with a girl but I have never done such a thing but it's always on my mind. I started having sex in early march at the age of 22 but long before I started having sex I always ...
A. 29 October 2009: I doubt your a full blown lesbian but i believe you may be bi i have had alot of my strait friends tell me men arent so good at going down on women but who is to say just because a woman knows what she is doing and you like it better that you are ... (read in full...)
Am I a lesbian?
Q. Ok. I have been wondering about this for a long time... I think Im a lesbian. I have a crush on a girl at school and have for a year. But I have always been attracted to girls since primary school. I really like big hands too. I also like short ha...
A. 29 October 2009: Geeze kid you have alot to learn. You do not wake up in the morning and say OMG I like comidies and wearing shorts Im a HOMO!!! Being a lesbian myslef i must show you the error of your ways sterotypes are a bunch of BULLSHIT. That is not how you ... (read in full...)
First lesbian sex together ruining our relationship...can anyone help?
Q. Serious issue here :/ I have had a girlfriend for a while now. It's become very serious. one time when she came to stay round mine we decided to have sex for the first time, it was my first time all together, and her first time with another ...
A. 29 October 2009: Hey girl dont be discouraged cumming is just as much a mental thing as a physical thing. As this is her first girl on girl lovin then her mind was probally racing with all kinds of stuff. I agree with the previous responses 3 fingers even if they ... (read in full...)
I lied to her... and now she ignores my messages.
Q. I am i love with this girl that i saw a couple of times when i took a train. i found out about her from a common friend of ours.. He gave me her contact details and i contacted her, i chatted with her a couple of times under the pretense that i ...
A. 29 October 2009: In my opinion you probably scared her when you told her you lied about the book thing, no offense it does seem a little stalkerish. Simply try and tell her that your intentions are noble and that you just want to get to know her offer her the chance ... (read in full...)
Having problems with getting wet, even though I can orgasm?!
Q. hey all, I am having problems with my hornyness (wetness), when I masturbate I can orgasm from it by playing with my clutter and things, but I don't get wet at all, and can't finger myself. I used to always get wet and horny, but now I can't! ...
A. 28 October 2009: Lots of women have this problem you may find its from playing with yourself too much. You are after all use to your own touch you may find later on that with a boy things will be very different for you because it is someone else who is touching you ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my best friend but he has a girlfriend!
Q. So heres the thing... Me and my best friend have fallen in love with each other. He has a girlfriend but they are in a long distant relationship for over two years now. We realized that we love each other like 6 months back, and ever since then we ...
A. 28 October 2009: It sounds to me like you just need a good ole fashion sit down conversation with the guy, after all he is your best friend so you should be able to tell him anything. The excuse he gives you for not being able to break up with his girl is complete ... (read in full...)
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