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writes:Hi. I'm 14 years old, female, and bi. Yesterday my friend and I were planning to kiss so I could experiment. They've once questioned their sexuality, which makes me wonder even more about if they may be bi now. We did kiss, and then we talked about it the next day and things seemed very awkward because I was telling her how I didn't know how I felt about it, and it was stressing me out. Before we kissed she never showed any signs of not wanting to kiss me, because she seemed perfectly fine with the idea. Also she's the one who guessed that I wanted to kiss. She tried to kiss me twice before we actually did, because she said we'd get it done with easier if I wasn't expecting it. Anyway, I think I like her after the kiss we had. Before I never had any thoughts of her, and I didn't ever think of kissing her but now I want to again. I wonder if she does too, but I don't know how to bring it up to her or anything. I don't want to make things awkward. (btw she was my 1st kiss that's how the whole idea came up)
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reader, openmind +, writes (30 October 2009):
Or you could be spontanious and just kiss her as she has done to you a couple of times i mean you have kissed before so chances are she isnt going to mind just experiment thats what these younger years are for and if you are too scared for a one on one confrontation then try doing it through text messaging its really not my favorite approach but its sometimes easier to say what you feel that way hope i helped some
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (24 October 2009):
Talk to her, tell her that you want to kiss some more and see where it goes - share with her how you're feeling when your kissing. Odds are good that if she's willing to kiss you more than once, that there may be some feelings there.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 October 2009):
The only way to stop this getting awkward and seeing how she feels is to gently talk to her when you're alone. You have to be brave, so be brave. See what happens.
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