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I am a girl and I want her to love me back

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Question - (1 December 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm a 14 year old female who is bisexual. A few days ago I told one of my close friends who is a girl that I like them. They said they didn't feel the same, but today they texted me saying this: "How do you tell a person that sometimes when you talk to them you get butterflies and sometimes when you see them as well?" I told them to say that exact thing to them and they said "I just did". I was so confused. Also in the past we had kissed once so I could "experiment". I didn't actually want to experiment, I just wanted to kiss her. Anyway...so I don't get it. I really like them, and after what they texted me I like them even more. I think they might be going through a phase but idk. What could I do to make her feel the same?

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A female reader, openmind United States +, writes (3 December 2009):

Dont try and rush it girl she obviously has feelings blossoming for you and has had for a while but she isnt ready to face it entirely dont try and bring it up all the time just keep being yourself because she is drawn to that and in time she may let down her guard

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009):

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The question title says

I am a girl and I want her to love me back.

I'm not in love with her so it would make more sense if it said

I am a girl and I want her to like me back

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009):

she may be interrested in just experienceing. you may start an affair but theres a chance she may not want anyone to know about it. can you live with that?? or can you live with the fact that if you are just a phase to her she'll move on even to another woman? you really have to think this through

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (1 December 2009):

rcn agony auntPhase or not, her text says she likes you too

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