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Love and happiness?

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Question - (8 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Is it possible to love someone even though your not happy?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010):

Yes! Definitely.

Lots of people stay in relationships, unhappy, because they love someone.

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A male reader, mrvhappy United Kingdom +, writes (8 November 2010):

Yes.

Its very easy to love someone when you are not happy...sometimes that may not actually be "love" but just an escape from your unhappiness.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (8 November 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntUnfortunately... yes.

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (8 November 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntYes. You cannot control how you feel about something. For example you could love someone with all your heart even though they do not feel the same way, you would not be happy but that would not stop you from feeling the love that you would.

Love is benevolent. That does not mean it goes hand in hand with happiness. Love is usually a torment if it is not reciprocated. It takes two people to bring joy to love.

I hope that helps.

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