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Dating/sex between super skinny guy and UK size 20/22 girl
Q. Hi, Please help - I'd really value some objective opinions! I joined an online dating site a few weeks ago and have since then met a lovely guy, who i have started going on a few dates with after exchanging emails and text messages. We've ...
A. 5 June 2012: Sweet tell him your worries. If he is genuine, he wont care! you know, im a size 24 and that is so often my biggest fear of meeting a new person! iv recently been seeing a girl and she was fantastic, she knew straight away that i had fears about my ... (read in full...)
Too scared to see a doctor. No male/female connection. no chance of being pregnant. But why no period?
Q. I really need some peace of mind in this and I have been worrying about this for too long. Basically, I've not been on me period for almost 3 months now yet there is no way I can be pregnant as I'm in a relationship with a woman. Its really bot...
A. 18 December 2011: there could be a few reasons. I have not had a period unexplainably for over a year and a half now. when i went to the docs, i had multiple tests done, and they concluded that my body has decided to stop ovulating. because me and me partner are ... (read in full...)
He said I can't get pregnant because he didn't cum
Q. My boyfriend broke the hymn in my vagina and didnt wer a condom after he broke it he put on a condom he said You cant get pregnant as he didnt come is that true?...
A. 9 October 2011: hunny that is not true. however small, you definatly ARE at risk. pre-ejaculation or as most people call it 'pre-cum' can occur during intercourse and the guy may not be aware that he has done this. Bottom line, there is a risk of pregnancy and ... (read in full...)
I want my 6 year old son to have my last name, will he be able to adapt to this change? Or will it be too much for him to understand?
Q. This is more a question about my son. His father hasn't seen him in 2 years and has made it clear he has no intention of ever having a relationship with him. Same with his family. Me and my son have come to terms with this and he has a steady r...
A. 1 August 2011: although my brother is a bit older then your son , a couple of years ago, my mum had the same problem because everyone else had my last name and he had his dad's (who has also chosen to have nothing to do with him). it might be hard to get used to ... (read in full...)
Can a romantic gay-straight relationship work?
Q. So, I am 20 and gay and my best friend is 21 and straight. We started chillin in high school and never thought much of it but we spent almost every day together and as a result we have fallen in love with eachother. At first I thought I just had a ...
A. 28 July 2011: babe i think he is definatly bisexual, he just has stronger feelings for women then he does men. he probably has been struggling with these feelings but its not fair to allow you to do sexual favours for him when he wont for you. i know its hard and ... (read in full...)
Should I stop watching porn?
Q. Can anyone tell me of any reasons that they can think of as to why I shouldn't watch porn? I watch it every couple of weeks, or so - just when I'm in the mood to. But then I feel sort of guilty, like I shouldn't be watching it. Do you think I should ...
A. 27 July 2011: nothing wrong with watching porn!!! better to be watching porn then to be sleeping around!!! ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for 17 y/o to date a 15 /yo??
Q. Is it ok for a 17 year old (like me ) to date a guy whos almost 15?......
A. 27 July 2011: hun this could be seen as a big deeal by his parents as he is technically underage... if his parents are ok with the relationship and you are not having sex then i dont really see a problem. if his parents do have a problem then hun do stay away. ... (read in full...)
Will he catch my genital warts?
Q. Hi me in my boyfriend had sex twice with condoms. And I have genital warts. Will he catch it, even though we use condoms ?...
A. 27 July 2011: babe, stop having sex, go to a doctor and have the problem treated immediatly. he can and more likley then not WILL catch them. sorting out this problem now is the best thing to do! xx... (read in full...)
Should I come out and be honest about my sexuality?
Q. okayy im 14 and definitely a lesbian , have know for years , and the other day the pressure of it all was too much because i told my friedns about it but felt like i needed and adult to talk to it about ,not my family though coz i dont want them to ...
A. 27 July 2011: hunny you shouldnt have to hide who you are. il be honest you are young but when you know, you know! it is hard talking to parents about this but if they love you (and im sure they do) then they will understand! if you feel like you physically cant ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to become gay but I want to fall in love with a woman
Q. im a 16 yo guy that is struggling with the most weird thing that could have happened to me, being gay. it all started when i was very little, probably 10-11 when i had my 1st erections. i remember that anytime i saw a muscled guy my penis will just ...
A. 27 July 2011: babe your definatly at the least bi-curious, weather you want to be or not! what is soo bad about being bi or gay? a lot of straight people are actually turned on by gay porn so it might just be what turns you on. but in my honest opinion, your ... (read in full...)
I want to quit masturbating!
Q. I find it hard to quit masturbating I do it daily and I mean I just dont want to do it anymore. does anyone have any advice for that, other than just dont do it? because trust me I tried to quit cold turkey but it didnt work. please help...
A. 27 July 2011: everytime you feel the urge go outside for a walk. go to somewhere very public like town or a local park. that way you physically cant do it! if you cant get out of the house then take a cold shower and think of the most offputting thing you can ... (read in full...)
Would you enter a relationship knowing it would have to end?
Q. Hello, My question is: Would you enter into a short-term romantic relationship knowing it would have to end? I ask because I have seen people do this with no problem and I can't do it and am wondering if maybe I am missing out. At summer cam...
A. 27 July 2011: hun if your one of those people that get quite quickley attatched then it's not a good idea. there is a thin line between fun and emotional attatchment and more often then not, people find they start getting attatched and emotionally involved before ... (read in full...)
I found out that the man I was dating is married...now what?
Q. I was dating a man for 3 months and a week ago I found out that he is married. His wife read my message on his phone, contacted me and told me that they've known each other for 11 years, are married, have a 6 year old child and that she's now ...
A. 27 July 2011: stay away hun. he is married and thats that! do you really think he would be willing to leave his unborn child and other very young child when there is a chance he wouldnt be able to see them again? he may well love you but im willing to bet that ... (read in full...)
He asked me to marry him....do you really think he could've changed?
Q. So my boyfriend and I( 15 and 17) have been on and off for about 6 months. I never thought me and him could be together when i first saw him because he's all like handsome with blue eyes, and a super athletic body; he plays football and runs ...
A. 6 July 2011: he is taking you for a mug my darling and to be honest your letting him. each time you forgive him for something its like giving him permission to do it again because he knows you will forgive him. and as for getting married. that wont ever happen ... (read in full...)
Why do my nipples burn with great pain?
Q. Right, so long story short, I have been trying to conceive with no luck for just over a year. Periods have always been messed up. I'm not using any contraception. I have missed 7 periods in a row in the past and my doctor thought in the early months ...
A. 4 July 2011: i probably should have mentioned before, the pain is definatly internal..... ... (read in full...)
Why do my nipples burn with great pain?
Q. Right, so long story short, I have been trying to conceive with no luck for just over a year. Periods have always been messed up. I'm not using any contraception. I have missed 7 periods in a row in the past and my doctor thought in the early months ...
A. 3 July 2011: I've seen two different doctors on several occasions about the missing periods but both to no avail. the burning in my nipples do only last a few hours which is why i've not seen a doctor before about that. to be honest i am quite embarrased about ... (read in full...)
At 18 I am bored with my fiance of four years!
Q. We have been together for about 4 years. Were supposidly engaged,I love him to death, and and i wanted to marry him....but now im doubting this...hes immmature, lazy selffish and an asshole....he doesnt go anywhere with me maybe besides walmart, ...
A. 3 July 2011: babe you should be out there living your life! not feeling like this. your not happy and i can feel your emotion just by reading this. darling why are you so scared to leave him? its hard to let go of someone you love so much but you must think, is ... (read in full...)
Can I make my man's penis bigger?
Q. hi am a 21 year old woman and i have a problem my fiance have a small pennis and i real love him so much we are getting married by december what am i suppose to do?is there anything that can help to grew up his pennis?please help me....
A. 3 July 2011: You definatly cant change the size of his penis hun. if it were possible believe me all men would be doing it by now! However, as a great man once said, its not the size that counts its what you do with it! iv had an ex with a small penis and im not ... (read in full...)
Moving to BF's town- He wants tme to Stay with him - Our culture will not allow our marrage!
Q. I am committed with my boyfriend since 4 months. We both love each other very much and also have trust on each other. But we are of different caste and we know surely that our parents will not allow us to tie a knot, anyway. Now, in this month only ...
A. 5 June 2011: You cant help who you fall in love with. If you truly love him and he truly loves you then you should be together! your parents want you to be happy as im sure his parents want him to be happy. and if the only way you will both be happy is together ... (read in full...)
BF possibly not sexually attracted to me, Can it work?
Q. BF not sexually attracted to me. Can it work? I have just been thinking. There are so many things I love about my BF and we get along really well. I know we have had a few issues in the past but we have sorted through these all. We have tal...
A. 5 June 2011: Its not impossible to have a relationship with a lack of sexual chemistry/attraction but to be totally honest, in my experience at least, they dont often last very long. have you tried talking to your partner about this? obviously some thing ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend had a child and I haven't told my parents yet
Q. My girlfriend gave birth 3 months ago. We study abroad and were able to hide it from our parents. She managed to tell hers though when she was half way through her pregnancy. The thing is our parents don't really approve of the two of us being ...
A. 14 March 2011: You parents are in for a shock. The biggest shock of their lives i suspect. How will your parents feel knowing you couldnt tell them that you have a child? I can pretty much guarentee that this will not go down well with your parents for you not ... (read in full...)
Why am I a bad person because I use prostitutes?
Q. Dear All, I am going to ask few questions which might offend some of you if they do please pardon me and try understanding my query. I have few basic questions about life which I want you to answer but before that let me give you some insight abo...
A. 14 March 2011: Ok first off i am going to start off by telling you that if females choose to sell their bodies for sex then that is their choice. But the female employee that said those things to you in work is entitled to her opinion. On the other hand, if ... (read in full...)
After watching porn, I feel insecure about my penis size. Is there a way to make it larger?
Q. Hi, I am 22 years old man. My penis size is 2-3 inches in normal condition and it is 5 inches when erect. I am feeling so shy about my penis after watching porn videos. If I get married, will my wife live happily with me? These are some of ...
A. 14 March 2011: My dear your penis size is technically perfectly normal! There is nothing wrong with the size of it-no Woman in her right mind wants be bonking a freakishly large penis, it hurts! Men in porn films are pretty much designed to be intimidating and ... (read in full...)
After being fingered, I bled, does that mean my b/f popped my cherry?
Q. Recently when my boyfriend goes to finger me more than likely afterwards I start to bleed, I'm not sure why this happens and its beginning to worry me, does this mean he has popped my cherry? am I normal?...
A. 14 March 2011: In my personal experience, when i lost my virginity i didnt bleed. Not one drop. However it is normal either to bleed or not to bleed when breaking your hymen. Your hymen is very delicate and just as little as sitting on a bike seat or using a ... (read in full...)
I'm 23 and still virgin. Is this bad?
Q. I'm still a virgin at the age of 23. Is that bad?...
A. 14 March 2011: Im actually quite proud of you for saying this! No man i have ever known would ever own up to still being a virgin-no matter what the age! Being a virgin is in no way a bad thing, if anything its a beautiful thing that you have and one day you will ... (read in full...)
Contraceptive implants
Q. Hey Everyone, So this question is directed at any woman who has/had a Contraceptive implant. I'm interested in getting one, and have read up a little about them but would like to hear a review from someone who has really had one. Thanks! ...
A. 25 February 2011: Well talking from personal experience, iv tried just about every method of contraception and by far the implant professionally known as the 'implanon' is by far the best! It has different side effects with different woman but with me im afraid to ... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend don't know what to do about the rumors surrounding our relationship!
Q. My BF is hearing rumors from ppl about me and him and I'm getting sick and tired of it, and so is he. My BF and I were actually thinking about breaking up the other day because of it all. There just is to much drama. We decided to stay together...
A. 25 February 2011: Im sorry to hear that sweet. At whatever age we be, we don't like having to put up with and listen to malicious and often hurtful rumors. But im afraid the sad truth is, people do spread rumors and there really is not anything you can do to prevent ... (read in full...)
Was this a lucky escape from a pervert? Or was it because of me and my actions?
Q. Did he ban me from his gym because he is a pervert and he realised i wasn't soft and he might be rumbled? I thought this spanish gym owner where i go in my town was a nice guy. He is 46 and i am 16. He helped me and was really friendly but i always...
A. 16 February 2011: You need to trust you gut instinct. To me personally that sounds incredably dodgy and suspicious. If i were you id steer well clear of him and his gym. You metioned that he "touches" your arm and leg. Ask yourself, does everyone do that? of course ... (read in full...)
How do I tame my hubby?
Q. I'm 28yrs old with a child. Got married in 2008. My hubby is a nice n loving Person thou not romantic,but has a bad temper.he has hit me twice n i just feel its so wrong. He always compares me to his ex and uses abusive words on me everytime we have ...
A. 15 February 2011: Sweetheart you are never going to be able to tame him. From the sound of it that is simply the way he is. Him hitting you should never have happened, least of all twice! thats not love. And thats certaintly not the environment to bring up your child ... (read in full...)
Is my sexual fantasy sick?
Q. I have never felt sexually fulfilled in a relationship and I am ashamed that I cannot be normal. I have a shameful fantasy that I have never told a soul about because it seems too taboo to talk about. I have fantasies about tying my gf's wrist, g...
A. 15 February 2011: Assuming this is JUST a fantasy, then no there is nothing wrong with that! You should make sure your partner is 100% comfortable with the idea before you ever go ahead because there is always a risk of it backfiring and ending in trouble and i dont ... (read in full...)
I prefer lesbian porn over heterosexual.
Q. I like to watch lesbian porn and whenever my boyfriends at work and I'm on my own I go on the internet and watch it. I love my boyfriend so much and I've been with him nearly 2 years but I don't understand why I like this more than heterosexual ...
A. 15 February 2011: Now im not gonna lie, as you can see im female. I live with my boyfriend and im bisexual. I f***ing love watching lesbian porn! Watching it does not determine your sexuality! Bet ya your partner watches porn too! Over 80% of the brisish population ... (read in full...)
Living with my ex and we still have feelings for each other
Q. I absolutely have no idea where do I stand. I am 25 years old, and a lesbian, I broke up with my ex girl friend after 3 years of relationship.But we still share the same room or stay under one roof .She has a long distance relationship wit...
A. 15 February 2011: You have told me that you get jelous when she is with this other girl and that she gets jelous when you flirt with others.That to me shows that you do both have feelings for eachother.Mabe she does love you, but perhaps she is not "in love" with ... (read in full...)
My husband is flirting with other women
Q. I really have serious issues with my marriage and I don't know what to do. I am married for a bit over two years. We didn’t know each other for long (just two month) when we decided to get married. I found out few days before our wedding that music, ...
A. 14 February 2011: My darling, there is not a lot anyone can really say. I think you know what you need to do. Mabe you just need a little push and you need to hear it from an outsider, so let me be the first to say it. He has got to go. I wish i could be sypathetic ... (read in full...)
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