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writes:im a 16 yo guy that is struggling with the most weird thing that could have happened to me, being gay. it all started when i was very little, probably 10-11 when i had my 1st erections. i remember that anytime i saw a muscled guy my penis will just pop, but i didnt really payed attention to it. when i was 14-15 i started masturbating watching muscled guys which i found verrrryyy pleasuring. on that time, i also watched naked girls while masturbating, and i didnt payed much attention for my homosexuality. now that im 16, im starting to getting worried from it because i know i wanna be a normal people and im still falling in love with women as always, its just that my sexual attractions are going more for man than for woman and that worries me alot. to make it clear, i think its very "disgusting" in alot of ways how 2 men kiss, have sex, so im not that worried to becoming gay, i just want to stop this muscle attraction so i can live a normal life. i dont know if this has something to do with my muscle attraction but i really want to be a muscled guy since im very thin and im still growing. please help me if u have something similar to this :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2011): thanks alot guys i reallyyyyy appreciate all your comments and suggestions. maybe ill just have to wait what will become of me in a few years, again, thanks from my heart
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reader, missy_musk  +, writes (27 July 2011):
 babe your definatly at the least bi-curious, weather you want to be or not! what is soo bad about being bi or gay? a lot of straight people are actually turned on by gay porn so it might just be what turns you on. but in my honest opinion, your bi-curious and mabe even more.... please dont waste your life trying to fight these feeling because in the end until you accept and embrace who you are it will just make you miserable.
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reader, crazybeast +, writes (24 July 2011):
 It is possible if it's 100% physical when around guys that it's attraction to their "members" then its muscle attraction, ALOT of people unbelievable have muscle attraction to some exstent but just ignore it, yours is quite obviously by the sound of it.
I remember this guy in my year in 9th grade and he came up to me and asked me questions if he was gay or not since I am, we talked for a while and it did turn out he was just attached to muscles bot the guy, and there was this one porn star that he showed me that he really liked and it was a muscled women, it was obvious that he was into girls and not guys but just loved the look of muscle.
We all have our little quirks and muscle is one of yours if you arn't bi/gay so just enjoy it, we only live once and even if you do like guys it is still normal, it may not be ideal but it is still normal. Hell most if not all gay guys probobly wished they could be "normal", I know I have, but we wasn't built and programmed like that.
Xx Beasty xX
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): Hey dude, I know what you are going though. I'm gay myself. I had a real hard time understanding who I was. I'm 19 now and I love me for me. It sounds to me that you might be bisexual but you perfer guys over girls, which is totally normal. You have to remember, you cannot help who you are and you cannot help who you fall in love. If your like me, I live in the Bible belt. If your scared to come out to your family, just wait like I did. I wanted till I got to college and living on my own. You talk about being "normal." But think about it, what is normal? I think being gay is normal, a lot of people do. At the sametime; however, others don't. Who is right? Don't let others change who you are. I'm sorry to tell you this, but there is no cure for being gay or bi because there is no problem from the start. Your perfect the way you are. And believe me, from a guy who just came out to his family not even a year yet, it does get better. So much better. Keep safe and love yourself,Daniel :)
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (24 July 2011):
 sounds like you have some sort of muscle admiration, and have a degree of bisexuality that you say leans more towards the males side of attraction.
you are still young but if you fall in love with women but are not sexually attracted to them then you are gay. i'm gay and have had sex with a woman that i liked when i was drunk but it was less about fancying woman as a whole and more about fancying her specifically.
the thing is that until you have sex with either a man or a woman you wont know for sure what you want. but i advise you not to rush as it sounds like you have a fluctuating sexuality (common among bisexuals) and in that case you should wait until you find someone you love before having sex.
just dont rush and dont beat yourself up about things, but most importantly dont lie to yourself. lying to yourself is the single most counter productive thing you can do in any area of life. be honest and follow your gut instinct and let things flow naturally.
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