For the men: Do you count on your wives to look after the house and kids, or do you take charge and help out around the house?
Q. i want to know how many guys out there who work full time are married and have kids. when you get home from work do you spend time with your kids, help with housework, dissapear and do your own thing? i dont mean to sound rude but im just curious ...
A. 2 November 2010: thank you all for your open and honest answers. i didnt choose 2 be a stay at home mom it was just convenient 4 my husband. i dont have enough education 2 get a job with enough pay for a sitter and my hubby works as a meat cutter he cant afford it ... (read in full...)
How do I interpret that? Help me please?
Q. Well two years ago, when I was in middle school, I had this teacher named mrs. Blonde.(cover up name)For some reason during the year I caught this urge to learn more about her and her morals and values. After seeing them,i develloped sort of an ...
A. 30 October 2010: it sounds to me that she thinks of you as a great person and wanted to let u know. it also sounds like u have a crush? on ur teacher and if thats the case then this is completely normal because she is a person of authority (cant spell). although u ... (read in full...)
How do I talk with my mom after her stomping out of my house?
Q. there has always been tension between my mom and my husband because he is 2 yrs older than her. she hates him 4 that which in turn makes him dislike her too. last night after dark as soon as our dinner was done my parents made an unannouced visit. ...
A. 30 October 2010: my mom is 2 yrs younger than my husband. my husband and i have had a rocky relationship but we r moving past that. my dad didnt like my husband for 5yrs just because of the age difference between me n my hubby but now they r friends. the real reason ... (read in full...)
Why do men think of women as slaves?
Q. why do men think of women as slaves?...
A. 29 October 2010: is ur bf or hubby controling, abusive sexually or just plain physically, does he make u clean up after him, r u able to have ur own opinion even if it goes against his, r u expected to take care of his kids from a previous marriage, or does he make ... (read in full...)
Airports new "feel you up" measure is crossing the lines!
Q. ok. who was watching cnn this morning? airports are bringing in some new security measures and its getting personal. i watched (on cnn) an employee run her hand between and right under a female passengers breasts. they touch your butt and quickly ...
A. 29 October 2010: this is to all who think what airport security is doing is right or ok. if the only way to protect people during flight is to touch areas where when ur a child are deamed YOUR PRIVATE PLACES what happens when the school officials decide if it works ... (read in full...)
Is it his fault or my fault that I don't trust him?
Q. im having a boy friend.loving him from past 3 years.he shouts at me of course i even do,but wen i shout he cant tolerate..he stares at girls talk wid tem in the nights but he gets angry even if i talk to a boy casually.he used to go near one girls ...
A. 29 October 2010: i would say dont feel insecure bout ur relationship with him till u find hard proof of him being unfaitful but if u cant have male friends while he can have female friends it sounds like he has some control issues and they are one of the harder ... (read in full...)
Airports new "feel you up" measure is crossing the lines!
Q. ok. who was watching cnn this morning? airports are bringing in some new security measures and its getting personal. i watched (on cnn) an employee run her hand between and right under a female passengers breasts. they touch your butt and quickly ...
A. 29 October 2010: the airports have handheld scanners, walk through metal detectors and video cameras in the most unusual places. why in the world would we think that a terrorist would be stupid enough to go back to airlines and highjack another plane when in the ... (read in full...)
Airports new "feel you up" measure is crossing the lines!
Q. ok. who was watching cnn this morning? airports are bringing in some new security measures and its getting personal. i watched (on cnn) an employee run her hand between and right under a female passengers breasts. they touch your butt and quickly ...
A. 29 October 2010: the airports have handheld scanners, walk through metal detectors and video cameras in the most unusual places. why in the world would we think that a terrorist would be stupid enough to go back to airlines and highjack another plane when in the ... (read in full...)
If only she knew how much I care about her......
Q. There's this girl who comes in my tutions... We are only two people sitting on the same bed We studied for 1 and a half year... We were in the same school, My parents and her family are good friends I used to dislike her before as I was simp...
A. 29 October 2010: if she is asking about u then u 2 r already in the right direction to becoming friends. sometimes while bieng friends doors will open for two people to come as close to each other as possible. when u c her be friendly and talk to her. once u find ... (read in full...)
I treated her bad so her famly came and took her away from me
Q. my problem is as follows, me and my gf have been dating for almost 10 months, she just turned 20 and im 22, i was a jerk in our relationship, did some terrible things which iam truly sorry for. Her family was concerned about her and just over a ...
A. 27 October 2010: now the last thing u want 2 do is come off as the crazy stalker ex so drivin a couple hrs to confront her isnt the best way 2 go. you are going to b a dad and thats ur #1 priority so work overtime and a half and save as much money as u can. you need ... (read in full...)
How to find the value of an item?
Q. this is not a relationship or love q. i found a 1983 limited edition ziggy collectors plate. i was just wondering if anyone on here might know where or which website i could look to find out the value of it. ...
A. 26 October 2010: i dont have the box it came in. other than that it is near pefection the only marks on it are on the back where all plates have that border ring and thats only a little red from what it was sitting on. i will definently take the advice of christies ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend still thinks I'm a virgin!
Q. Hey, I need some advice. So, I was dating this guy for about a year. Things between him and I were great, I truely loved him to death. The thing is that he asked if I was a virgin, and at the time I was. I knew that he wasn't, and he knew that I ...
A. 26 October 2010: if u let it go for too long it becomes a lie. that will contaminate ur relationship far worse than telling him right away. dont dance around the subject but do be gentle. yes he will be upset but thats his right but right down to it its ur body and ... (read in full...)
He isn't here for me the way I am for him! My grandma died and he hasn't been of any help at all!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months and our relationship is good and bad. we have taken breaks and end up missing each other too much and get back together before the break is over! but a few days ago my grandma died and he hasn't ...
A. 26 October 2010: never dealing with ur issues and bottling urself up to focus only on his needs will make u crazy. you will only resent him in the end for never being able 2 cope with the pain of losing a grandparent and he in turn will pull away from u. i think ... (read in full...)
Should I wait to see if he'll leave his girlfriend
Q. I know this 30 year old guy for a few years he used to come in my shop. Had not seen him for a few months when he started coming in my shop again. after a few times coming in my shop, I told him I had divorced from my husband. The next thing he did ...
A. 26 October 2010: oh no. dont wait on him to leave her for one u dont want to b the reason daddy finally leaves and two if u do wait and he does leave her and goes with u then he might start to think u will wait for him forever and sometimes thats not so romantic.... (read in full...)
Still single after a year and wondering what could be wrong with me?
Q. I am at the point where I really don't understand what's wrong with me. I am too young to be so depressed and too old to be desperate over such childish things. Being gay isn't easy but this is just ridiculous. I am going crazy over the fact tha...
A. 26 October 2010: dont be so hard on urself. u have bettered urself in everyway possible now all u need 2 do is continue to live ur life. ur one tru partner is out there somewhere maybe they r struggling with their sexuality at the moment. you probably need to wait ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will not let me leave
Q. my boyfriend expects me to be with him all the time, and on the weekend he had some crisps and i ate one and he just flipped and threw the plate at me and it smashed everywhere, and he went off upstairs to the bedroom, so i cleaned everything up, ...
A. 25 October 2010: i am not saying what he is doing isnt illegal but holding a knife to ur throat isnt attempted murder it is a THREAT to end yourlife and the police DO take that very serious. if he has threatened you he WILL try to follow thru dont give him the ... (read in full...)
We want to have sex but what goes where?
Q. I've been going out with the sweetest guy anyone can get and we are starting to think about sleeping together. He isn't pressuring me into doing anything i don't want to because we made a decision on it together and we arranged a date. The thing is ...
A. 25 October 2010: save the scheduling sex times for when ur the parents of more than one screaming kid and never have time for spontanious anything, but even then its called date night;-). dont be in such a hurry to have sex. once u have sex u could feel tied down ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my girlfriend that I was attacked? I don't want to upset her while she is away, so can it wait until she returns?
Q. My girlfriend is away on a business trip and i recently got attacked when i was in the city and sustained 27 stiches on my head, she will be back in a weeks time, i am feeling much better, should i keep this incident unknown to her until she ...
A. 25 October 2010: my husband drove 600 miles away to visit his family and while he was gone i fainted and hit the top of my head on a sharp rock. i know this is not the same thing that happened to you but i didnt tell my husband right away. when he got home i told ... (read in full...)
The triangle With An Unwanted Corner
Q. hi All, So I have this friend whom I'm not friends anymore but I invited her into my home and helped her out because she was kicked out of her home and my boyfriend was in Virginia living with family. After four months my boyfriend moved ...
A. 25 October 2010: once my husband and i had a 3way with this 19 yr old female. afterwards they continued to be friends and talk and text. i also talked to her and her mother on occasion. i stopped talking to her after she had a moment in her life that she created and ... (read in full...)
15 and pregnant...parents don't know..
Q. I am 15 and 2 months pregnant.. i have told my boyfriend of 9 months this and he is happy but scared like me. but i have a big problem. my parents do not know and his don't either. and this baby doesn't belong to my boyfriend. i started seeing ...
A. 25 October 2010: first of all omg girl. u need 2 tell ur parents asap i know its gonna b hard to do that but u need prenatal care now. i waited till i was 4 months along and ended up having a blood disorder that i didnt have with my other 2 pregos and after i had my ... (read in full...)
Losing the love of my life because of my stressful life.
Q. I've been dating a guy for 5 years. I had to move out of our city to NYC for grad school. We've been apart for the last 2 but it seemed to be working out bc we would see each other about every 6 week. Recently I just started school and it's been ...
A. 24 October 2010: definantly keep up on therapy it is a good way to vent ur frustrations about what is going on in ur life. dont be so hard on him and urself if u do u r sure to push him away. negativity causes a stressful at home life. b4 u talk to him next time go ... (read in full...)
He's in to me and four other girls too
Q. He says he loves me and like 4 other girls. I really like him. After awhile of not seeing him i lose the feelings then when i see him again they come rushing back. I'm 15 he is 17. .Is he just confused?. .If i date him will the stuff with t...
A. 24 October 2010: girl he is a player. he says he loves you? sounds like he is too immature to know how to be in a relationship. maybe you should try to find someone who wants to date just one girl at a time after all you dont want to end up on maury with a headline ... (read in full...)
He took rough sex too far and now I'm afraid to trust him
Q. My boyfriend like to be rough during sex. So when he started slapping my face about 6 months ago I told him that he was taking it too far and they only thing I don't want him to do is slap me because I feel like he is abusing me. He still likes to ...
A. 24 October 2010: im sorry if u dont really want to hear this but he is being totally abusive. 90% of all abusive relationships where one partner says 'i will never hit u again' ends with someone in the hospital and the other in jail. u have given him enough of ur ... (read in full...)
Biggest age gap you've ever seen?!
Q. Hi, ok. are u sitting down people? I seriously need a word of advice..i've fallen in love. madly, deeply inlove. And this man is in love with me, but we have to keep our relationship secret because we are afraid of what people might think. We ...
A. 24 October 2010: i was 16 when i met the man i ended up marrying. he was 38 at the time. no one thought it was a good idea, but we have been married for nine yrs. we have 3 beautiful kids together. be prepaired tho if u 2 have any kids u will b doing most of the ... (read in full...)
After 7 years with my current partner, I realised I still love my ex!
Q. iv'e been with a girl for seven years and about two weeks a go my ex girlfriend came back into my life iv'e known her for about 15 years and we have a 9 year old daughter to gether and i realize that i still love her. what do i do ...
A. 24 October 2010: are you married or do you have any kids with the woman your with now? dont forget their is some reason you and your ex are no longer together. sit down and talk to the woman you are with now i dont have any ideas of how 2 break it 2 her easy gl with ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being a menstrual bitch?!
Q. It's my time of the month at the moment and I am being such a miserable cow. All I want to do it sit on the sofa, watch tv and eat Chinese food and chocolate cake. The worst thing is that I'm being so horrible and mean to my boyfriend. He's ...
A. 23 October 2010: my mom says u can chew on rosemary leaves or make tea with them. she swears by it. i can completely tell when shes on hers and when she hasnt used her remedy:-|... (read in full...)
This site makes me feel worse, not better!
Q. I recently learned of this site via some friends, as 3 months ago I went through a very bad break-up with The Only Woman I ever loved and still love. And, with my recent introduction to and utilization of this site, I have found that it has only ...
A. 23 October 2010: not every person on this site has a heart. alot of the people that get on here do so to lash out and not get told they r rude and hurtful to their face. people have opinions not all are helpful and some can make u feel like slappin that person. im ... (read in full...)
Why won't my husband have sex with me anymore?
Q. my husband and i have been married for 9 yrs next month. during the past 5 months we have been arguing alot and for the past 9 months we havent had sex. we have 3 kids /the youngest is 3 months old/ and i dont want to mess any of it up but i dont ...
A. 21 October 2010: thank u all for taking the time to answer me. i talked to my husband about everything and here r a few things he told me. he still does find me attractive its just that he gained weight while i was pregnant and he pictured us trying to have sex and ... (read in full...)
My ex is damaging my new relationship
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up a while ago and I found someone new who makes me happy and my ex is keep calling and texting me all the time I don't respond to any of it but when he first did this I told him to stop and leave me alone but obviously it ...
A. 21 October 2010: maybe change ur phone number but make sure to let ur phone provider know about this guy and 4 them not to answer any questions bout ur new number and make them flag ur info to know if anyone calls wanting ur phone info even if they know ur social ... (read in full...)
I was in a physically abusive relationship and can't seem to get over feeling terrified about being anywhere alone!
Q. i am almost 21 i was dating this abusive guy was in a relationship for about 9 months, he would always hit me, push me down stairs broke bones i could not talk to any one about this he threatend to kill me. i have not talked to him for almost 3 ...
A. 21 October 2010: i think maybe you would benefit by getting a dog. heres something that really happened to me. my mother and i were on our way back from michigan going home to tn. we stopped at rest area. my mom went to use the bathroom first and i walked my 2 dogs. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend finds it hard to cum when his laying on his back, any suggestions?
Q. My boyfriend finds it hard to cum when his laying on his back. He gets the feeling but nothing happens, and he can just go on and on.. Can you suggest anything??...
A. 20 October 2010: I say hop on and enjoy the ride;-)... (read in full...)
Did I deserve to lose my baby?
Q. hey x so i had a miscarrige last year and at the time i just put it to the back of my head an forget about it as well to be honest i was ashamed because i was only 15 but i recently started going out with my best friend and when arguing, he brought ...
A. 20 October 2010: the first time i got pregnant i misscarried. I was depressed for 8 months until i found out i was pregnant again. that was 5 yrs ago. my husband and i have had our fair share of arguments where we wanted to say mean stuff to each other but we have ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty wanting out of this relationship even though I think he does too.
Q. I have been trying to write for days and it just goes on too long. I just need help and advice on what to do as I really can’t talk to my friends or family. I have been with my husband for 6 years now, since I was 16. He is here illegally, he gr...
A. 20 October 2010: you are too nice to him. calling u names ragging on u while ur pregnant downing u n public and u still want him to receive citizinship. id get a divorce and tell him to stand in front of lowes or home depot. they r always looking for guys who can ... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend but I think she really likes me...
Q. hi, there is this girl at work who i really like she has a boyfriend, we worked together and got on very well i ended up telling her that i liked her and she was funny with me for a week and then, asked me out for a drink i asked her out again an...
A. 20 October 2010: have you ever watched that tv show reba. brock was married to reba but had an affair with barbra jean. l8r barbra jean thought brock was cheating on her. Reba said thats the problem with marrying the man u had an affair with. it ruins the trust... (read in full...)
I'm not part of his social circle and I can't take it any more...
Q. My husband and i have been married for 27 years and our boys have now flown the nest. you'd think we would be having a ball wouldnt you? Wrong! He is, he goes away with his mates skiing every january, hes had a few weekends away, stag weekends ...
A. 20 October 2010: it really sounds like a life crises with him. u might want 2 think about a private investigator. he might b cheating... (read in full...)
Opinions needed here. Does size REALLY matter?
Q. would a guy still want to have sex with u even if your boobs are only size A, or would they have more fun with someone with bigger tits. some answers from the teen guys would be great! ...
A. 20 October 2010: when i was in school i had bs and i had a friend my age that had double ds. she got alot of attention in school from guys but im the one who ended up finding love /even if my hubby is sometimes a bonehead/ and got married. heres the thing if a guy ... (read in full...)
HELP! My girlfriend says it hurts to have sex
Q. Hi, Me and my gal have been together just short of a year and have been fairly sexual for the majority of that time as well. We are both around twenty and she was my first, well, everything. girlfriend, kiss, sex, ect ect. Well we have a problem....
A. 20 October 2010: it sounds like she needs to see an obgyn. alot more than stds can hurt a woman or make it to where she cant make natural lubrication. she needs 2make sure she tells the doc everything. sex can b awesome 4 her. just have her go 2 a doc... (read in full...)
Should I wait for him even at the risk of ending up alone?
Q. i have a very serious question that i need some closure on. please don't think i'm silly for asking it. first you need the back story. i grew up going to church every time the doors were open. it was nice especially for children because...
A. 20 October 2010: pardon me but his grandmother sounds like an overprotective bossy judgemental nosey bat.im sure there is a good reason for u not 2 b with ur babys daddy and if she cant handle that it sounds like her own personal prob 2 me. if u dont know how to ... (read in full...)
Husband is acting like a child. I need help with the 4 kids!
Q. ok. let me start by saying im 27 and my husband is 49. he works as mngmnt in meat dept and i am stay at home mom of 3 kids all under 4. my husband and i havnt made love in 9 months. he either sleeps or works outside for hours after he gets home and ...
A. 20 October 2010: first of all thank u all for responding. he doesnt have to provide the roof over OUR familys head cuz the property we live on and house we live n is n my dads name. no rent just utilities.my dad only wants to c his grandbabies for letting us live ... (read in full...)
Was that the moment that made me realize that I should start having sex?
Q. Could someone please explain me this? I've been going out with my b/f for over a year now, we're both virgins, and we said that we're going to have sex when I'm ready. Until a few months ago, I was scared to be alone in the same room with him, t...
A. 20 October 2010: sex/ when ur ready/ is a great way to really connect with the person you love. here are a few steps u can take to really enjoy yourself when u do. always use protection. if u dont u will b thinking you will get prego too soon and that kinda thing ... (read in full...)
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