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Any tips on first kiss?

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Question - (13 June 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2008)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So I went on a date with my girlfriend last night and I ws thinking about kissing her. But I havent had my first kiss yet and I dont know how to kiss? So I thought I need some adviceonhow to kiss a girl.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

I think start of with a cuddle and then give her a simple kiss on the mouth, (if you can't get to her mouth, kiss her cheek first and then she might turn to face you), trust me when the time comes if you relax everything will just come naturally. I think just kiss her on the mouth, maybe vary how much pressure you give, like if its a soft gentle kiss, maybe hold the back of her neck gently and kiss her a little bit harder. Good luck hunny!! xxx

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A female reader, SummerSunshine United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2008):

SummerSunshine agony auntConsidering its your first kiss, dont go into too much detail, you don't want to become confused.

There are 2 options.

1) Be honest and tell her its ur first time etc, she will hopefully understand and lead, once she leads u will kno wot to do.

2) Maybe when you say goodbye is a good chance to kiss her, maybe gently kissing her on the cheek at first then the next time u see her transfer to the lips!

GoodLuck Mate! xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

just wait for the right moment.. maybe ask this girl if she's ready to kiss. all you gotta do is look at her, meet eyes, lean in and give her a nice peck on the lips. (close your eyes when you do it.. it's more romantic.) and wallaaaah. good luck , let us know how it goesss (:

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

Yes kiss her,only a couple of small pecks on the lips though.Keep it lips on lips.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

Why don't you hold her and kiss her cheek softly. Work your way around to her mouth and give her another soft kiss. Keep giving them and make them slightly longer each time. This should graduate into a comfortable kiss.

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A female reader, M! United States +, writes (13 June 2008):

M! agony auntwell if you just want to kiss her then give her a cute peck on the lips.

and if your talking about making out then just mirror what she does.

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A female reader, Minelisse Puerto Rico +, writes (13 June 2008):

Minelisse agony auntOk... nice... good boy for looking for advice!!

Hints:

1. Start slowly, just by giving her a peck. Then, if she wants to, continue to kiss her and open your mouth a bit. Be careful with your lips opening too much, you don't want to get her whole mouth into yours, you want the lips to keep touching.

2. Keep your tongue to yourself... please!! If you do want to use some of it, just take it to the front but not into her mouth... the tongue stays in your mouth for now! I've never liked the whole scratching my throat with his tongue deal!

3. If it gets somewhat heated, you can SLOWLY and GENTLY bite her lips. Emphasis in gently. This is supposed to feel like a small bite and not to hurt even a bit. You can bite her lower lip, and then kiss her again. After a while you can do it again, it is somewhat of an exciting thing, but not to be done constantly or it would loose its purpose.

4. I've always liked to end kisses with soft pecks. After kissing for a while you just do a couple of small kisses (mouth shut) and hug her.

Good luck!

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A female reader, peaches83 United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2008):

peaches83 agony auntIf unsure let the girl lead. Go with the flow and you should be ok.

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