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female
age
36-40,
*omeone07
writes:I broke up with my fiance 3 days ago because he would rather hang out with some hottie instead of me and he has been cheating on me... now the girl didn't want him and went for his cousin and he wants me back and he said it's not over.. I said it is.... and yesterday his dad went to jail cuz he beats his Mom and I'm afraid he's going to be just like his Dad.... I dont know what to do cuz I work right next to him... and I need my job...I cant quit.... im so scared right now...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Are you sure you can't get another job? This sounds like a very good time to start looking for new employment in your spare time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Don't be afraid, bully's can sense your fear and it will make you more vunerable. You broke up with him because he cheated, you don't want him. This he will have to accept. If he approaches you again, tell him this. Tell him you cannot forget his cheating and you will never forgive him.
If you feel he may be violent, explain your situation to you boss at work, also talk to your parents and explain the situation to them. Never be alone with him, cut all contact, do not answer his calls, and go out of your way to avoid him. Make it plain that you want nothing to do with him, and make sure you are carefull and safe at all times. You could also talk to some of your friends and ask them to accompany you if you feel that he might attack you when you are walking alone.
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reader, M! +, writes (14 June 2008):
 don't take this guy back. it sounds like the only reason why he went back to you is because his affair failed. If he really loves you like he says he does then he wouldnt of cheated on you. You did the right thing by leaving this jerk. Dont go back to him just because your scared. thats not a reason to be with him, thats a reason to get away from him. there are so many better guys out there for you who will treat you right. you deserve some one way better. I hope everything works out for you.
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