Should I try and stay friends with my abusive ex?
Q. Hello, I recently have left my boyfriend of 2 years. It has been 1 month. I ignored him for about 3 weeks because the last day i saw him, he hit me. this is not the first time it had happened. he has been hitting me on and off for about 18months. he ...
A. 19 August 2008: are u crazy? Leave and dont talk to him.he put u through all that!and u even have to question urself weather u want 2 be friends with him.ur crazy. Dont talk 2 him and dont even think to look back .good luck xoxojunebugxoxo... (read in full...)
Is it bad that we are having oral sex at our age?
Q. Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for about...5 months now, and the other day she gave me Oral, we were both fine with it, we didn't feel bad or anything. Is it bad that at my age I'm having oral sex? We've both discussed actual Sexual In...
A. 19 August 2008: its really all up to u guys.are u guys ready? Do you honestly feel 100% ready and fine with it? Then yes it is ok.well...no i shouldnt say its ok bcuz u should always wait til u get married.but since i didnt and i dont think ur gonna its fine to ... (read in full...)
Have any women had a pleasureable anal experience? My girlfriend wants to try it and I'm unsure.
Q. Hi, My girlfiend of almost 2 years is getting curious about anal penetration. I,ve read some pretty horrible female accounts of anal. I know it might not be all that pleasurable the first time, but i wanna know that it can get better. I would ...
A. 19 August 2008: i want to try it with my b/f...well we have but the first couple time are not fun.it hurt so bad but then again we didnt use that much lube and we did have so much foreplay.i heard from ppl that it is awsome but u have to much sure u guys have lots ... (read in full...)
He booked a yacht last weekend for dinner and does all the sweetest things possible..what do I do??
Q. well my problem is a little wired...i am 19 years old and a guy is totally head over heels for me..i like him too but dont love him..he is known among the girls for being the casanova and has broken million hearts but the girls still love him..he ...
A. 19 August 2008: well u say u dont love him but u like him and he is totaly tripping balls over u,right? So just enjoy the ride its not like ur gonna get ur heart broken and just take it slow so he can gain ur trust and after so long u will know if he is playing u ... (read in full...)
How do you get that spark back in a relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months. He recently told me that he lost that magically spark for me. He is still in love with me but, he just misses the way things used to be when we first met.Is there anyway to get that spark ...
A. 19 August 2008: i have to agree with inyourdreams i was the same way with my b/f and we been 2gether for a lil over 3 years and we are as happy as ever.best friends,great sex everyday,live together, u name it we got it. Yea ur gonna fight here or there but yall ... (read in full...)
We do mutual masterbation. How can we spice it up?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been mutually masturbating for ten years now. We love it, but we don't know how to spice it up and our parents keep barging in. How can I tell them what we're doing without grossing them out??? ...
A. 19 August 2008: lock ur door or something.or do it when they aint home.idk but good luck xoxojunebugxoxo... (read in full...)
He seems to value his relationship with his ex more than he values his relationship with me
Q. this might be slightly trivial but it bugs the hell out of me and i dont know what to do about it. my boyfriend is really sweet, honestly, hes truly a nice person, wouldnt hurt a fly. anyways i met him in school last year and at the time he was ...
A. 18 August 2008: have u ever asked him if he truely just cared about u orloved u? He seems like he still is whipped over her and she is totaly just using him.do u and her get along? Maybe its time u look over ur relationship with this boy and decide weather u really ... (read in full...)
How can I be the one he opens up to so that we can really be a couple?
Q. I've been talking to this guy for over a year and a half. Before we started talking...we were friends. We're not exclusive yet and I think it's because I'm not the one he feels he can open up to. He's always been this way, even to close friends and ...
A. 18 August 2008: i have been with my b/f for 3 yrs and around our 2 year ann his grangfather passed away and he will not talk and open up to me.anything else he can but and just yesterday he started opening up to me.it takes some ppl time to really trust and open ... (read in full...)
I am going to go out with a boy cause I am bi curious
Q. I have agreed to go on a date with a boy i dont even fancy, because ive started to become bi curious. I haven't had a boyfriend in about a year now, ive kissed boys while ive been out partying but nothing more in a year, and now im wondering if this ...
A. 18 August 2008: be yourself.do what u feel is right.if ur "friends" was ur true friends then they will not freak out.and the boy........if ur just going out with him just to go out with him and dont really like him then thats not gonna change ur mind.u need to date ... (read in full...)
He's in a relationship but wants to have sex with me!
Q. hey everyone. One of my friends is really attracted to me. Im attracted to him too and we like to talk to each other. We have been talking for a long time and sometimes we talk about sex and turn each other on. Well as time went on, he got a ...
A. 18 August 2008: he is an ass and dont ever get into stuff like this it never turns out good. At least u thought about his girlfriend so hey just look at her.what would u do if u were in her shoes and ur b/f does this behide ur back.dont do it not even a one night ... (read in full...)
Am I going to be just a booty call if I keep hanging out with him?
Q. i have been hanging out with this guy almost everyday for a month now and we get along great we hang out in crowds so we are alwys around our friends, he holds my hand and kisses me hi and bye and even infront on everyonee, we have fooled around a ...
A. 18 August 2008: i totaly agree with tisha she is really smart so just listen 2 her and good luck honey! Xoxojunebugxoxo p.s please dont have sex with him if he cant commimt then dont give that to him.ya know?... (read in full...)
Am I going to get my period soon? I've been having these pains!
Q. ok this is a embaressing question ok here goes well lately i have been having sotmach neck head back pains welll is this meaning i will get my period sooon or what i am just haivng these pains i truly dont know any answer willbe cool oh yea im10 ...
A. 18 August 2008: the best ppl to talk to is ur mom and docs. I started my period around my 11th bday.i dont remember having pains but every1 is differnet when it comes to their period.i mean every1 bleeds but ppl get different pains and some dont get any at all.dont ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to find out if you are allergic to condoms before using them for sexual intercourse?
Q. Is there a way to find out if you are allergic to condoms before using them for sexual intercourse?...
A. 18 August 2008: yea i heard the same thing just ware some gloves and wait a lil bit. Good luck xoxojunebugxoxo... (read in full...)
I no longer see a future with him. What should I do?
Q. I have been with my fiancee for almost 3 years. He is 27 I am almost 20. I love him, but no longer see a future with him. Every little thing he does gets on my nerves now. The only thing he ever wants is sex. He grabs my boobs or my butt in public, ...
A. 18 August 2008: u need to kick his broke ass to the curb. He kinda reminds me of that tlc song "scrubs" idk if u listen u that stuff.but anyways ur a independent woman and dont need him.yea u might love him but im sure when u guys break up and u meet a real MAN ur ... (read in full...)
We flirted a lot at camp. How do I approach him now that we are back home again?
Q. So I met this boy at camp and we flirted a lot. He would sit on my lap and we would hold hands and he would put his arm around me etc.. Now camp is over, he lives ten minutes away from me and I want to ask him to hang out but I dont know what to ...
A. 18 August 2008: i totaly agree with peterpan but u could always just talk 2 him like a friend and wait to see if he flirts with u 1st since u got home,ya know? What do u got 2 lose! Good luck honey!xoxojunebugxoxo... (read in full...)
Is he serious? Or sparing my feelings?
Q. Hey there dear cupid. My boyfriend and I of a year recently split, okay, he dumped me. I posted another question a while back about if it was best for me to walk away etc. because he's been having such a hard time with finances, work, family a...
A. 18 August 2008: oh i didnt relize what u ment the 1st time.well im not trying 2 sound harsh but apparnetly u want advise from ppl u dont know and wanna hear the truth(sorry im trying 2 butter this up) *but*anyways i feel like u should leave before u really get ur ... (read in full...)
I have no plans to celebrate my birthday. How can I make my friends and family understand?
Q. I have a bit of a strange problem. My birthday is coming up and long story short, I have no intention of celebrating it. To me, I don't see any worth in celebrating another year of me doing absolutely nothing worthwhile, and I don't see the ...
A. 18 August 2008: just tell every1 that u like 2 relax and how u relax is being alone and being in a quite area.like some like to get back rubs,other their nails done.u like chillin by urself which is totally cool.thats how i do it.but u sound like ur depressed.did ... (read in full...)
Is he serious? Or sparing my feelings?
Q. Hey there dear cupid. My boyfriend and I of a year recently split, okay, he dumped me. I posted another question a while back about if it was best for me to walk away etc. because he's been having such a hard time with finances, work, family a...
A. 18 August 2008: if u dont feel its right then dont do it.he really could just want time to get things figured out.and he dont want to freak out or push u away and thats the only way he can do it.tell him how u feel.tell him how its not fair that u love him and cant ... (read in full...)
He is pushing me away and I need help! thank you.
Q. my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship and hope to move in together in the next year or so (we did at university and it worked great). He used to be so sensitive, sweet almost too good to be true and we got on so well. Being in a ...
A. 17 August 2008: it really might be like that if his job just sucks or is stress full my b/f is the same way once in a while.it hurts but just talk it out tell him u feel like he is pushing u away.my b/f tell me he is sorry and trys to make things better after we ... (read in full...)
I have a couple questions for the guys!
Q. i have a couple questions for the guys! they would help me a bunch! 1) what turns you onto a women most? 2) do guys check out there closest friends that re girls, and if so, how often? 3) do you have anything you would suggest that turns yo...
A. 16 August 2008: every guy is diff! But ur age any guy will be easily turned on and like any thing with boobs or anything to do with sex...unless they are gay...nothing wrong with that!..... (read in full...)
My GF hits me constantly, she told me I'm the only one that makes her mad and her ex's were better!...
Q. Ok.. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 months,i love her to death she knows it,BUT She thinks all i want is sex and she tells all her friends... she always hits me approximately she has hit me 7-9 times in the face (closed fist) a...
A. 16 August 2008: YOU NEED TO LEAVE HER! She will always hit u and ur to young for that.please get out now b4 its to late.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy talks to your mum on the phone? Is he sucking up?
Q. when a guy talks to your mom on the phone just to see how she is does that mean he is sucking up to your mom and wants to date u or does it mean something else? ...
A. 16 August 2008: thats what u should have said to begin with! Ur so silly! Sweetheart of course he likes u! What guy would do that if he never knew her b4.so just be happy and wait and see what happens! Good luck and congrats on the new boy toy!haha and dont worry ... (read in full...)
Will he come back to me so we can spend the rest of our lives as a team?
Q. ok- so it's kind of a long story- but here it goes... I met my bf almost three years ago when I was visiting another state- looking at moving there. We were both dating other people (neither one exlusive)- but met through a mutual friend and hit ...
A. 15 August 2008: sorry its me again i wrote in all the other box.well any ways we just found out that the girl is now working with his mother.great!so i broke down.i just am so sick of this,ya know so he stright up told his mom not 2 talk 2 her and he is really ... (read in full...)
Will he come back to me so we can spend the rest of our lives as a team?
Q. ok- so it's kind of a long story- but here it goes... I met my bf almost three years ago when I was visiting another state- looking at moving there. We were both dating other people (neither one exlusive)- but met through a mutual friend and hit ...
A. 15 August 2008: i was in a somewhat smailer sitution.my boyfriend and i have been dating bout 3.2 years(y/m) and about last november i found notes he wrote to another girl(they are both going to same college) btw my b/f always was the nicest and charming even ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy talks to your mum on the phone? Is he sucking up?
Q. when a guy talks to your mom on the phone just to see how she is does that mean he is sucking up to your mom and wants to date u or does it mean something else? ...
A. 15 August 2008: but did he know her b4 that? He could be sucking up,he could just be a wonderful caring guy.idk if just one day u guys are talking on the phone and he askes u to talk 2 ur mom then yes i think he is just trying to impress ur mother not suck up.ever ... (read in full...)
It seems as if everytime I have sex, I squirt. How can I control this?
Q. hi there i wanted to know if its possible to control squirting cause like every time i have sex with my guy when were done the sheets are soaked but sometimes i dont even feel that ive squirted is there any thing i can do??? please help??...
A. 15 August 2008: i am just the same! Every1 says oh at least u dont have a problem getting wet but we have problems of being to wet! I know how stressful this is.well not stressful but annoying.i cant control it but it has gotten in the way of sex a couple times but ... (read in full...)
Do I just accept it or play along with it?
Q. Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 months. Everything is good but its just lately I have been getting paranoid about jokes that she says when we are with friends. Like my friend gets does something stupid and we shove it in his face and he j...
A. 15 August 2008: i agree with eyes wideopen say it to her and see if she likes it.yea its prob all fun and games but if it hurt or bothers u then she should stop or if she dont im sure u can find someone that will treat u good and be respectful.good luck ... (read in full...)
I just seem to think I'm not going to find anyone until I'm like 19-20.
Q. Hey, Okay. Long story short. I'm 16, I dated this guy for about 3 months who I really liked and he claimed to really like me back. It WASN'T official, we were not in a proper relationship. We didn't kiss or anything and I recently had an injury an...
A. 15 August 2008: Hey ever think since ur so pretty guys are scared to talk 2 u or ask u out?im pretty ,big boobs and all(i hate to say it im not showing off please done think that)well all my friends had sex and boyfriends and i had nothing i lied and said i kissed ... (read in full...)
I get upset when my husband masturbates without me. Am I over-reacting?
Q. I Have been Married for going on 3 years i am 20 years old my husband is a few months younger than me. I love to watch him masturbate but when he does it with out me i get so so mad i feel like he doesnt need me or i am not satisfying him i have ...
A. 15 August 2008: i totaly agree with baby duck but i really cant say much bcuz i always get mad when my b/f does that we about to get married and i dont want to get mad at him but i do.but ur preggo so he should cut u some slack cuz all ur hormones..well i hope u ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy talks to your mum on the phone? Is he sucking up?
Q. when a guy talks to your mom on the phone just to see how she is does that mean he is sucking up to your mom and wants to date u or does it mean something else? ...
A. 15 August 2008: it really just depens...like did he know her and close friends to the family?then no .if he came over or just called ur house for u and ment her that way then maybe he wants to get on her good side so he can date u!(hopefully thats what u want!) but ... (read in full...)
He has left his wife for me, but now my feelings have faded. What do I do?
Q. For the last few years I have been seeing a married man. He is from another country and comes here for work every few months. I truly loved him in the beginning but now I am not so sure that I do anymore... - HE recently left his wife (for me) ...
A. 15 August 2008: u should let him go.if u dont have feelings like u use to then tell him and hopefully he can fix his marriage cuz im sure his wife loves him.and any relationship that starts with lies will end with lies.thats how i feel.im sorry.xoxojunebugxoxo... (read in full...)
My period is a week late and now I can't get the feeling out of my mind that I'm pregnant. HELP!
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few weeks ago and i was due for my period a week ago btu havn't yet came on,, i can be irregular but what should i do?,, we did use protection but i can't get the feeling out of my head that i could ...
A. 15 August 2008: wait a little bit and if it still dont come then take a test.the condom could have had a hole in it or he could have not put on right.idk but u shouldnt just jump that ur preggo bcuz if u are its not good to stress over things when ur pregg.good ... (read in full...)
What are your thoughts on why teenagers want to have sex before 18 years of age?
Q. Okay okay, I've been reading a lot of the questions lately and i keep wondering why teengers under the age of 18 want to have sex soo badly? Hey im 13 has a 14yo bf that wants to have sex he understands the wait.....but still, WHY HAVE SEX BEFORE 18 ...
A. 14 August 2008: 18 is when ur considerd an adult in the u.s but to me 18 is just a number like 17,76,37,13...ya know? Why not wait until ur married?or wait until u know u love that person? Teenagers are just horny.they develop boobs,hair in diff places.they get so ... (read in full...)
I have multiple bumps around and on my penis, I thougth they were razor bumps, as I shave that area, but topical creams will not take them away, could it be herpes, how do I get rid of them, if it is not herpes?
Q. Dear Cupid, For the past year, or so, I have had small bumbs around my pubic area and base of my penis. I shave though, and I shave the base of my penis. I thought these were razor bumps, because of my shaving. However, some of them have been t...
A. 14 August 2008: hey my boyfriend get little hard bumps almost like pimples and he went to the doc and he said not to try to pop them they are not harm ful but alot of males get them .i forgot what u call them.but they might be anything.just go to doc and he will ... (read in full...)
I am a woman and it's been four years now, that I have cared for this other woman, she gives off mixed signals, maybe I want her to be gay, I don't know if I am a lesbian, I am confused, should I tell her how I feel?
Q. Hi Readers. I'm a female in my early 20's and I am completley in love with another female who's in her early 30's...I'm so lost as to what to do because I'm unsure how she feels. I've felt this way about her for about 4 years now, and I had...
A. 14 August 2008: u need to just go tell her everything u told us tell her u are possable a lesbian and ur getting mixed signs from her and tell her u dont want to ruin ur guys friendship it means more then anything and if u never seen her with anyone and u get signs ... (read in full...)
I really would like to be more with her, but she's been seeing her ex behind my back!
Q. i have a problem..i met this girl about 5 months ago and originally we were just friends. at the time she was going through a tough time with her ex having cheated on her. Since then though our friendship has grown and for me i want it to be so...
A. 14 August 2008: i total agree with les. She not a whore she just isnt completely over her ex. Its differnet if she is still getting in bed wit him and u! Then i would adivise u to leave.but she needs u in her life to have someone like a rebound but also just a ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and no longer want to feel like I'm in line for him!
Q. Ok, i have been happily married for a year now. My husband is about the most wonderful thing that has ever happend in my life. But now im pregnant. Not really a shocker. We have been unprotected for about two years now. But the thing is, we have ...
A. 14 August 2008: i know it hard to leave someone u love and carring there child.its easier said then done.maybe he just wants to have fun b4 the baby comes?u really just tell him if he loves u he needs to listen and then tell him what would happen if he got ... (read in full...)
He tells me how much he misses me over the phone, but never makes time to see me.
Q. My boyfriend of two months talks to me constantly on the phone and we live literally five minutes away from each other, but he just never has time to actually see me, but he tells me how much he misses me and wants to see me but we just never do. t...
A. 14 August 2008: yea i totally agree with doublem.it hurts to break up but u really should and find some1 better then that.sorry.... (read in full...)
3 SUMS, and spiceing up the SEX!
Q. dear aunts and uncles, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and i just told him i wanted a 3 some but i dont want any1 anyround my area(living)i live in a very small town and i dont want it to get around.how do i go about ...
A. 14 August 2008: thanks!i guess ill just keep trying and try to get over the feeling..thanks!... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and no longer want to feel like I'm in line for him!
Q. Ok, i have been happily married for a year now. My husband is about the most wonderful thing that has ever happend in my life. But now im pregnant. Not really a shocker. We have been unprotected for about two years now. But the thing is, we have ...
A. 13 August 2008: u need to tell him and yea ur scared but u need to do whats best for the baby.does he want ur child to have an std? If he doesnt listen to u or just stop doing what he is doing then u need to just leave.move with a good friend or with ur ... (read in full...)
3 SUMS, and spiceing up the SEX!
Q. dear aunts and uncles, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and i just told him i wanted a 3 some but i dont want any1 anyround my area(living)i live in a very small town and i dont want it to get around.how do i go about ...
A. 13 August 2008: i tried anal but it hurts so much and i know its going to which i can stand the pain it the feeling that im pooping.i get scared that im gonna poo on him and do u have any tips on anal?thanks a lot.... (read in full...)
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