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writes:Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for about...5 months now, and the other day she gave me Oral, we were both fine with it, we didn't feel bad or anything.Is it bad that at my age I'm having oral sex? We've both discussed actual Sexual Intercourse, and have decided to wait until were both 16, so we won't go any farther than this, but i just want to know if this is bad.
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reader, lotsofgiggles123 +, writes (25 August 2008):
 no its not it just matter if you guys were ready to do oral but uh i have read about many people do oral at your age even younger!
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reader, EvieA +, writes (23 August 2008):
 i am 13 and i have given oral to a guy, i felt cheap and dirty after it. yes its bad, but i guess its not as bad as intercourse.
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reader, Dr. Benhur  +, writes (22 August 2008):
my advise is 100% no! sex is reserved after you've chosen your life partner, and there has never been sweeter sex than the first time the night after marriage, so dont mess up your life at an early age, i tell you once you've started, it theres no way you can avoid it the next time. And not only that, it will always occupy your mind and narrows your perfective in life, coz you will think of it more often night and day, and if something happen to her or get pregnant, that's when the trouble starts. you are young, and a lot of things in life are there waiting for you to be discovered, we are not running out of women young boy! I'M TELLING YOU THE TRUTH! you will not regret it when you say NO to what is hanging between your legs!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): NO way dude, Your Fine,
Ive sex by your age and done much more. Your can legally drive a car and are 2 ways from being out on your own for the rest of your life. As long as your ready, 16 is plenty old enough, especially if you both enjoyed it.
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reader, u wana no i will tell u  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 im 14 ,15 in december and i had full on sex wif my girl riend a few days ago and it was great i spose if u really love someone it is a good way 2show ur love also make sure u use protection cause most people dont want a baby till at least 20
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reader, chloe71z +, writes (19 August 2008):
 I was 18 before I had sex of any kind, even then I dont know if I was ready. When your ready is realy up to you, and your partner. Just remember that if she backs out and and decides not to do it that means NO and dont push her. she will respect you more for that.
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reader, Stasia  +, writes (19 August 2008):
It really is up to you. Don't worry about what other people say because their not the one's that put food on your table.
If you and your partner are in love, and want to have oral sex, then it's not a bad thing because you both want it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): I think that you should hold off on any type of sex. I'm sixteen and i had sex for the first time last summer. If i could take it back I would. Even though i thought i liked him and loved him. It was the wrong decision for me at fifteen. I think you should hold off because it changes your life
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (19 August 2008):
 Well I would be a hypocrite to say that you are bad or wrong, because I had done more than that by age 14 - and that was (good grief!) 47 years ago. Now in retrospect, would I do the same again if I could return to an age of prior innocence? Yea, I probably would. But I was very lucky not to father an unwanted child until age 17, when my luck expired and it rather drastically changed my life course. So my advice is always to keep in mind that you may adversely affect your future with youthful indiscretion. Today more than ever, the costs of a mistake can be great. Just keep it in mind and be very careful.
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reader, junebug +, writes (19 August 2008):
its really all up to u guys.are u guys ready? Do you honestly feel 100% ready and fine with it? Then yes it is ok.well...no i shouldnt say its ok bcuz u should always wait til u get married.but since i didnt and i dont think ur gonna its fine to say.dont give urself an age bcuz if ur still not 100% then dont do it,ok? Oral sex feels dirty when u first start doing it.well at least to me.probly cuz ur not use to any knid of sex and deep down inside ppl probly told u when u was young its not right so ur subconsous is telling u this.idk thats what i was told a while ago.anyways good luck xoxojunebugxoxo
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (19 August 2008):
 It's a matter of opinion, seriously.
In my opinion only, yes, you're pretty young, but I'm willing to retract it for your case as you have said that you two felt fine with it and were pretty ready.
But sex is whole another thing. It's so good you have discussed it with your girlfriend (instead of just talking on doing it, which is totally different) and it's even better that both of you will wait to be of legal conscent (I assume that's the reason you'll wait at that age), so that shows a bit level of maturity for the both of you. But I will have to let you know that sex changes couples. To some, it makes them stronger, to others, it breaks them apart, for very simple reasons: because they were either ready or because they were not.
So before you get into the act, make sure the both of you are ready to start sex. You don't want to regret it later.
Meanwhile, take everything slow. Get to know her more so by the time you two engage in this, you will create a bond instead of a break. Good luck.
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