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Have any women had a pleasureable anal experience? My girlfriend wants to try it and I'm unsure.

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Question - (19 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, *reviasc96 writes:

Hi, My girlfiend of almost 2 years is getting curious about anal penetration. I,ve read some pretty horrible female accounts of anal. I know it might not be all that pleasurable the first time, but i wanna know that it can get better. I would appreciate an account from a woman where it was a good experience. Thank you.

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A female reader, Aunty Em United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2008):

Aunty Em agony auntWhen I lost my virginity to my partner - it was possibly the most awful pain I have ever experience. Because I was so sore, we tried a different angle. Hence, anal, and although it was quite uncomfortable in the begining, through a matter of practice in s little as a day, it felt SO much better! And I enjoy it SO much. I can't explain how utterly great it feels!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008):

male, 34.

your a lucky guy for her bringing it up. for my experiance, 2/3 of the girls i have been with have like it. my last however, LOVED it. guy to guy, after she is used to it, there is nothing better than vaginal sex with your girl while she has a jelly buttplug inside her. i know im throwing it out there, but your lucky.

but please, please, respect the butt. for her first time, start slow... and small. and never forget the lube.

one good way to find out if she wants to go farther is to start off playing around her ass while having sex with her on top. then, as your playing arround the ass, slowly start to play in the ass a little.... shey likes how it feels, try for the whole finger. this will let her know if she wants to move up to a small toy, then a bigger toy, the you....

but remember, start off slow.

good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008):

For every woman that hates it, there's another who likes it. If she wants to try it, then why not? I personally hate it but she may like it

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A female reader, junebug United States +, writes (19 August 2008):

i want to try it with my b/f...well we have but the first couple time are not fun.it hurt so bad but then again we didnt use that much lube and we did have so much foreplay.i heard from ppl that it is awsome but u have to much sure u guys have lots of foreplay and lots and lots of lube.good luck dont worry xoxojunebugxoxo

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