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female
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30-35,
*elleeashton
writes:My boyfriend of two months talks to me constantly on the phone and we live literally five minutes away from each other, but he just never has time to actually see me, but he tells me how much he misses me and wants to see me but we just never do.the only time we ever do see each other is when he has nothing else to do and is sitting at his house bored and i drive over there to hang out with him until he finds something better to do. and if we do ever do anything it is something i hate to do and i always have to drop all my plans for him, if i don't we won't hang out he would never do that for me... i just don't understand i really don't. please help me figure out if i should just break up with him because all i ever am is lonely and its worse than being by yourself because i don't even believe anymore that he actually misses me. i care for him so much though. what do i do? i have talked to him about making more time for me and he says it will get better, he is gone for ten days right now but he promises when he gets home it will be better. im just so lonely right now. and i don't think it will really get better... is he sincere when he says he misses me? he says he will do anything to make this work ... but all this great stuff is only on the phone and i need more than just a phone to hold onto ... he never does any of it in real life and it doesn't help at all that my best friend is in love with me and desperately wants to be with me and i know he would treat me amazingly and never upset me ... but im just so wound up in this guy im dating i don't want to give it up if he does care... i would do anything for a good relationship with him and to make him happy... what is his deal?? why does he say he misses me so much and spend so much time on the phone if he never wants to see me??
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reader, junebug +, writes (14 August 2008):
yea i totally agree with doublem.it hurts to break up but u really should and find some1 better then that.sorry.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (14 August 2008):
 In my opinion, you are being played like a rubber ball.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): I would much rather be alone, and feel lonley, and have someone and feel that way. Your boyfriend sounds like a very inmature person, who is only willing to be yourboyfriend, as long as it dosen't inconvience him. I think your best bet would be to find someone who is willing to sacrafice just as much for you, and you are for them. This young man dosen't seem capable of that kind of commitment at this point. Best of luck Sugar Booger!!
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