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He is pushing me away and I need help! thank you.

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Question - (17 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship and hope to move in together in the next year or so (we did at university and it worked great). He used to be so sensitive, sweet almost too good to be true and we got on so well. Being in a long distance relationship means only seeing him once a month or longer and when i came up this last time for a week it was unbearable. he seems so cold and does not want to cuddle or be together like we used to be. He blames it on his job, but i feel it is something else. I just dont know how to make him happy. and i am so scared of nagging. he is pushing me away and i need help! thank you.

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntyou need to communicat tell him how you are feeling and dont be shy about it or it will get worse and you will feel better if you talk.. communication isthe key to a good relationship not just love and effort.. good luck aphex xx

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A female reader, junebug United States +, writes (17 August 2008):

it really might be like that if his job just sucks or is stress full my b/f is the same way once in a while.it hurts but just talk it out tell him u feel like he is pushing u away.my b/f tell me he is sorry and trys to make things better after we talk.but idk every1 is diff.maybe he is just pushimg u away.if thats the case then u guys break up and u find a hotter guy!.....that want to hold u and cuddle with u.good luckxoxojunebugxoxo

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