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I get upset when my husband masturbates without me. Am I over-reacting?

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Question - (14 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 August 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *ailey88 writes:

I Have been Married for going on 3 years i am 20 years old my husband is a few months younger than me. I love to watch him masturbate but when he does it with out me i get so so mad i feel like he doesnt need me or i am not satisfying him i have tried telling him but he just thinks i am being stupid and i have no right to be mad and he will try to lie about it when i catch him doing it with out me. he doesnt do it alot but still. We have a 22 mnth old and i am 7mnths pregnant and i just dont know if i am over reacting or if i do have a right to be mad especially when he lies about it

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (15 August 2008):

DoubleM agony auntHere's the fact: Even the most macho guy, and most beautiful woman, are about 95 percent or better likely to masturbate at least on occasion. I would suggest that as proven in many studies, beginning with Masters & Johnson, that most of us take the trip fairly regularly. Most probably prefer not to say much, but some degree of fantasizing with self-stimulation is common, both with single and married folk - and it is actually quite healthy. My experience is that any need for masturbation vanishes or subsides when I'm with a wonderful partner, but such are hard to find and keep these days. Best wishes, DoubleM

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A female reader, junebug United States +, writes (15 August 2008):

i totaly agree with baby duck but i really cant say much bcuz i always get mad when my b/f does that we about to get married and i dont want to get mad at him but i do.but ur preggo so he should cut u some slack cuz all ur hormones..well i hope u over come this and congrats and good luck!xoxojunebugxoxo

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