My husband cheats and I am in love with another man (who has a gf) So how do I know my other man is really interested?
Q. I am married. My husband has been cheating on me for years. He is a great provider, however, the women that he is involved with over time do not give me no respect. This has bee going on for 17 plus years that we have been married. I have fallen ...
A. 27 July 2006: Just because a man has sex with you doesn't mean he's interested. Signs of interest would be phone calls to see how your day is going. Invitations to dinners & movies etc. He'd want to spend his time with you. Sounds like you have two losers in your ... (read in full...)
Why does she hate sex with me?!?!
Q. my wife and i have been together for 12 years. we love each other very much so. she loves everthing about me, well almost. we love spending time together, cuddling, just everything we do we enjoy it both together. when it comes time to make love she ...
A. 17 July 2006: Has she changed much physically over the years? I know a few women that have gained alot of weight and lost all their self-confidence as a result. It may not be you at all.... (read in full...)
Can I fix his controlling ways?
Q. I my boyfriend and I have been practically living together for the 4 months since we met. He and I spend nearly every non-work minute together. I love him. He says he loves me. He however is extremely jealous and paranoid and accuses me ...
A. 17 July 2006: Get rid of it! Anyone that tells you that you are too happy is a sick individual! As your boyfriend he should be jumping through hoops to make you the happiest girl in the world. I'm sure you've seen all the talk shows about controlling wife ... (read in full...)
What does she really want or is she just confussed?
Q. My ex and I decided to be friends after our break-up. For her birthday I gave her a day of pamering at a really expensive day spa. We went out to dinner for two nights straight. We eventually made love unexpected to me because that wasn't what ...
A. 17 July 2006: I agree with YOS...you seem to enjoy each other's company and there are obviously emotions from both sides. Maybe you should try to work out whatever issues ended your relationship in the first place. Being friends with exes is very complicated. ... (read in full...)
I talked to my GF rudely, now she doesn't want anything to do with me!
Q. Hi there, to be very much straight forward, i had a girlfriend, then one day I talked with her very rudely and after some hard talk all we got is break up. Then after a month i tried to contact her but she didn't answer my call and didn't respo...
A. 17 July 2006: If she said she doesn't want that kind of contact from you, and asked you basicly to leave her alone, there should be no question as to what you should do. Leave her alone! Respect other people's wishes and move on. ... (read in full...)
Just lost my virginity and regretting it big time!!
Q. Hey Im a 17 year old girl and... as of last night, no longer a virgin. The trouble I'm having is... they guy I lost it to, would definately not be my first choice. It hurt like crazy, and Ive only known him for 2 weeks. At the time, it seemed l...
A. 17 July 2006: My first time was way to soon, highly inappropriate, and definitely with the wrong person but you know what? I don't regret a thing. Every single thing I've done throughout my life...both good and bad has made me who I am. My family and all my ... (read in full...)
Shall I take the chance on a work-mates word?
Q. Does he like me? Ive been friends with this guy in work for over a year now but recently after a girlie chat with other workmates they suggested we would make a really lovely couple when they mentioned this i laughed it off I thought i would ne...
A. 17 July 2006: I say go for it! If he's adding little kisses at the end of his text messages...he either likes you or he's gay. So ask him out for a date...he'll either say yes, or the two of you will have a good laugh and you'll have a new gay guy friend. Every ... (read in full...)
Are a few extra pounds on their girlfriend a big deal for guys?
Q. I am currently overweight for my height. About thirty pounds. Here is my question. Is this really a big deal for guys when you are being intimate? After my last breakup I have shyed away from dating for this reason. I KNOW that there will be some ...
A. 17 July 2006: It depends on the guy. Some guys might thing you too thin for their taste even with an extra 30 lbs. No matter what stage your body is in, be happy and confident that you look great. Inner strength and confidence is very sexy in a woman and ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin, started my periods about a year ago but haven't had one for 6 weeks! What's going on?!
Q. Hi, I started my period about a year ago (not even that) and i havent had one for about a month and 2 weeks now! I am getting worried, whats goin on? I am a virgin, never done anything with a boy, not even kissed one! so whats goin on? is this ...
A. 17 July 2006: Every case is different. For some, it takes years for their bodies to regulate after starting their periods, for others it's like clockwork right off the bat. Since you're a virgin, you are obviously not pregnant. I'd wait a few weeks and if you are ... (read in full...)
I'm trying not to drive my 13-year-old daughter's relationship with her 18-yo boyfriend underground!
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, My 13 year old daughter is dating an 18 year old, she's known him since her last year in middle school. He is in the sixform of her new high-school and will be going to university next year. I feel I cannot say anything becau...
A. 16 July 2006: What you need to do is beat your daughters ass! When I was 14 I had a boyfriend that was 19. My Mom didn't care, even let him sleep over. I ended up pregnant with a child that had serious medical problems and died at 8 month of age. I dropped out of ... (read in full...)
Even after 10 years, he wouldn't leave his wife, so I finished it...
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been seeing John for ten years. It's a love affair. He's married; has been for forty years. They have problems, been married when they were 16 years old. I have always been there for him. I love him. It's wrong, I know. He is repon...
A. 16 July 2006: You were wrong to start it in the first place, so how could it be wrong to end it? I wish my cousin would do the same. 12 Years and a ten year old son later...her man is still with his wife. Kudos for leaving...STOP looking back.... (read in full...)
What's happened to his sex drive? Shouldn't he want to have sex with me?
Q. hello, i have a small problem, my bf and i have a good sex life, when we first started sleeping together we did it every time we met (bout 3 times a week) now we see each other slightly more and have sex 9 times out of 10. the other morning,...
A. 16 July 2006: Morning wood does not mean he's horny. Maybe he was tired or even sore from the previous night. No guy is in the mood 24/7. They do have other interests...like sleep. Don't take it personally. ... (read in full...)
How to tell someone that your divorced and have kids?
Q. How do you tell the guy you just started talking to that you are divorced and have two kids? ...
A. 16 July 2006: You say this..."I'm divorced and I have three kids." Many people are divorced and it's nothing to be ashamed of. And for the life of me I can't figure out why you'd find it hard to tell someone you have kids. I've been divorced 3 times and have 3 ... (read in full...)
It's a been a month and my period hasn't come, majorly worried.
Q. I havent had my period for like nearly a month and i fear it could be the worst. Me and my bf have always been careful, but i am really starting to get worried. I have had a huge amount of stress over the past month and a bit so this could be co...
A. 16 July 2006: Get a test! If you are stressed enough about this to be posting here, it's worth your time doncha think? Not to mention the fact that if you are pregnant, there are important decisions that need to made as early as possible. If you think you may ... (read in full...)
Does he love me yet?
Q. A question for the guys: I have been seeing my boyfriend for four months now. We ge on realy well and he is always telling how much he cares for me and wants to always spend time with me and hopes we g out for a long time! Can you tell me how i ...
A. 16 July 2006: When my boyfriend and I first started dating, it was 6 month before he said the "L" word. But I knew long before that. More than anything, it was in his eyes when he looked at me. There is no mistaking that look for anything else but love. A few ... (read in full...)
Do guys like bitches?
Q. Hiya, I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years now. She used to be such good fun, a really honest person and a really good friend. She has always been pretty, not naturally really, more just good use of make up and takes good care of herse...
A. 16 July 2006: Just like eye color, body shape, and boob size, it depends on the guy. Every guy has his own idea of the perfect girl. Some may like the edgy bitchy type...some may prefer the sweet as sugar girl-next-door type. Bottom line, if you want to find the ... (read in full...)
Sexual experiences wanted...or rather info on them!
Q. Im concidering having sex. Is there any girls out there who can give me as much information on the pill as possible from experience?...
A. 16 July 2006: I was on the pill for a year. During that time, I developed migraine headaches whenever I was on my period...I still get them monthly after 5 years off the pill. I also had two periods every month while taking it. Not every form of birth control is ... (read in full...)
I think he's still in love with his ex!
Q. I have a question about jealousy... I am worried that my boyfriend is still in love with one of his ex-girlfriends. She was married with kids, (she had an affair with him) and I saw in his phone that he called her a few weeks ago while I was ...
A. 16 July 2006: People snoop into their partners emails, cell phones, etc...all the time. They even make software that does the job for you, so there must be a market for it. I could say the politically correct thing and tell you how naughty you've been for being a ... (read in full...)
Love, lust - what is it?
Q. I was just wandering how you know if your in love or not...I have been with my girlfriend for 7 months and over 2 weeks now...Does love vary from different people? I respect and care for my girlfriend a lot...I always have too know if she is home ...
A. 16 July 2006: Love is wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone...even if you could never have sex with them ever.... (read in full...)
Could a few deleted numbers mean my boyfriend cheating?
Q. Just thinking about something- With my b/f for more than a year and probably shouldn't be thinking about things from last summer b/c it was a long time ago. I remember one time last summer I went through his contact list for his phone and s...
A. 16 July 2006: First off, a year is far too long to wait to mention something that bothers you so much. More than the cell #'s I'd be concerned about the lack of communication in your relationship. This has been festering in you for a year! Why did you feel like ... (read in full...)
Sex with a player?How do I stop it?
Q. This boy i know has asked me a number of times to have sex with him and i have turned him down every time. The other week i finaly said yes and we were planning on doing it but i have heard from his sister today that he mighnt be asking another girl ...
A. 16 July 2006: What saddens me the most is the lack of self-respect so many young girls on this site seem to have. Sweetie...if you do not respect yourself, NO boy will EVER respect you. Why would you ever consider allowing someone to use your body for their own ... (read in full...)
I just broke up with my girlfriend, she's moved on but i can't seem too.
Q. Hi everybody, I just broke up with my girlfreind, and though I'm a guy im kinda senative, and it taking me a really long time to get over it. We were in a relationship for 9 and a half months, and within a week she had a new boyfreind, and e...
A. 16 July 2006: It takes different people different legnths of time to get over things. Some people are over it before they even pack their bags, some take months or years, some never get over lost loves. I'm so sorry you're hurting, heartbreak really sucks. But ... (read in full...)
Is it just paranoia,or is he up to something ?
Q. Hi--first off i will say i am a generally suspicious person. So with my boyfriend of over a year--i do question certain things that occur and often look for advice to see if i am reading too much into a situation OR i might possibly not be going ...
A. 15 July 2006: Has he given you any other reasons to be concerned? Has he cheated in the past? If so, or if you just have a gut feeling, take a watchful approach until something concrete rears it's ugly head. Then rub his nose in it. ;)... (read in full...)
What was my BF doing in the bathroom with his phone?
Q. Am I reading into things too much with my b/f of a year? We were laying down and going to be getting ready for the day--and he goes to take his shower and has his cell in his hand and said 'are you done in here for a little while?'--i guess me...
A. 14 July 2006: If my partner insisted that I shower with the door open due to lack of trust...I'd be outta there so fast his head would be spinning. And I wouldn't look back. And I take my cell phone in the bathroom all the time. I've never even thought about ... (read in full...)
What is it that women love so much about cuddling ?
Q. Why do women love cuddling? Many young girls, and even teens and adult women like to cuddle with their daddy. Its also pretty well known that women like to cuddle with their boyfriends or husbands, especially after they make love. So what...
A. 14 July 2006: My man loves to cuddle! Not a girlie thing at all. What's wrong with wrapping yourself around someone you care about?... (read in full...)
I like my overseas guy, but dont want to start anything, what do I do ?
Q. i have been talking to a guy in overseas for almost 5 months n i saw him last week only.. he is now bak in town. i like him n i feal he has sumtin special for me. im very confused. i like him but i dont want to start anything. please help me how am ...
A. 14 July 2006: Could you give a few more details? Like why you don't want to start anything?... (read in full...)
My last guy didn't view porno. Should I look for a new one who also abstains?
Q. I just broke up with a boyfriend that absolutely felt like as long as he had me, he didn't need to look at any kind of porn or check out other girls. This made sense to me because I never checked out other guys. My question is, are there many guys ...
A. 14 July 2006: I've never met a man that didn't watch porn. Have you thought about watching it too? My man and I have had many a fine evening watching porn together and I can honestly say I wasn't checkin' out the guys. XXX is right...it's all about watching the ... (read in full...)
I would like to know her more, but I think she regrets kissing me....what should I do?
Q. Hi all, Basically here is the story, i am really into this girl in high school. We have known each other for around 4 years, same classes etc. Problem is, she has a boyfriend, who actually lives over 200 miles away! Crazy i know.. Anyway, ...
A. 14 July 2006: It's very simple. She's in a relationship...respect that. She knows you're interested and if her relationship status changes I'm sure you'll be one of the first to know.... (read in full...)
He finds the woman body beautiful, but I don't like feeling that I'm just another one....I want to be special!
Q. Hi. What do people think of this? My guy says that he thinks all women are beautiful - fat or thin. He says the womanly shape is beautiful, and he has paintings and statuettes of female nudes dotted around his apartment. He also says he thinks ...
A. 14 July 2006: You're special because YOU are the one he chose to be with. That's alot better than feeling special because you have a great set of hooters. Besides...if he's that hung up on womens bodies, then you must be all kinds of fine for him to give all that ... (read in full...)
I want to be with him, he means the world to me....what can I do?
Q. i know i'm young, i'm fourteen, everyone tells me this boy isnt worth it, but to me he means the world and i would do anything for him even though he doesnt feel the same. I went out with him 3 years ago and haven't gotten over him since, i don't ...
A. 14 July 2006: I'm so sorry sweetheart...love can really stink sometimes. You may be only 14, but I know from personal experience that your feelings are very much real. The guy I dated when I was 14 turned out to be my first husband and the father of my oldest ... (read in full...)
Is it just paranoia,or is he up to something ?
Q. Hi--first off i will say i am a generally suspicious person. So with my boyfriend of over a year--i do question certain things that occur and often look for advice to see if i am reading too much into a situation OR i might possibly not be going ...
A. 14 July 2006: I think you are reading waaaaay too much into this. The guy was at work...and with a co-worker. I would never even consider calling my man at work unless someone was bleeding. Especially if he's driving. Please tell me you didn't expect him to send ... (read in full...)
Is my man cheating with the mother of his child?
Q. dear cupid. im involved with a man for a year and a half now.last year i found out that he was still in contact with the mother of his first child.i also asked him why she keeps phoning him when the child they have is 18 years old with his own cell...
A. 14 July 2006: Normally I'd say that you can't expect parental communication to cease on a child's 18th birthday. There are still parenting issues such as education etc. that would need to be discussed between your man and his ex. HOWEVER, since by his own ... (read in full...)
When I meet a girl I want to wait until we have sex, what's wrong?
Q. Hi I was hoping to get some advice from females but males welcome too! I seem to have this reoccuring problem when dating girls, basically I am not interested in having sex on a first date, and probably not until I have really got to know ...
A. 14 July 2006: You have morals and and standards...I don't see a problem at all. Kudos!... (read in full...)
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