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writes: How do you tell the guy you just started talking to that you are divorced and have two kids?
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reader, sxyredhdnc +, writes (17 July 2006):
 you just started talking right? there is no better time to clue him in on the children.just bring it up in general conversation.if he's worth your time he won't mind if he does mind he's not worthy of you.and furthermore if you want to begin a relationship you must be honest from the start.trust is always a big issue for men in general.so next time you talk just tell him.i have 3 kids myself all by different men and i never start a relationshp without telling them about my kids first.
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reader, jezibelinhell +, writes (16 July 2006):
 You say this..."I'm divorced and I have three kids." Many people are divorced and it's nothing to be ashamed of. And for the life of me I can't figure out why you'd find it hard to tell someone you have kids. I've been divorced 3 times and have 3 kids, all with different fathers...try THAT one on for size! But I would NEVER be afraid to tell someone I'm a mother! My kids are the best thing that ever happened to me. If the guy you are talking to disappears because you have kids...then OBVIOUSLY he's not the one you should be talking to! Good luck!
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (16 July 2006):
 'Did I tell you I have two children?' is always a good start. I mean, are you ashamed or embarrassed about them? NO!! So if he doesn't like this fact he ain't worth liking hun!!
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