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writes: Hi all,Basically here is the story, i am really into this girl in high school. We have known each other for around 4 years, same classes etc.Problem is, she has a boyfriend, who actually lives over 200 miles away! Crazy i know..Anyway, last week i went to a party, which she also went to, we danced, got pretty intimate and ended up kissing. Problem is, we had drunk, not enough to get completely pissed, e.g. we knew what we were doing.Thing is now, she seems very distant from me and all. Talking to her, she doesn't say much. Another party is coming up, and although i want the same to happen again, i don't want it to seem like i am trying to 'steal' her away.I think about this girl lots, we are both 16. I really want to get to know her more, and maybe she'll start liking me. Thing is though, i get the feeling she really regrets kissing me...I want to know how to do this, do i forget it, move on and allm or shud i continue to persue her?Love you all,x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006): Although she is obviously aware of ur feelings, u need to let her know exactly how u feel about her, otherwise she might think you're a bit of a player. tell her you don't want to ruin any relationships, but u've liked her for a wile and something about her that drives you crazy. tell her you can't wait for her forever, but theres no1 ud rather be with. she might reconsider, and if she want to keep her own relationship, then still value her friendship and maybe shell turn around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2006): Thanks all for your replies. I would really like to forget about her, but i don't know if that's going to be easy or not.
I think i may stick around i dunno, i get the feeling she isn't happy with such a long distance relationship. Hopefully, if she breaks up with him, i would be the first she turns to. I don't want to seem to desperate though...
I won't get a chance to talk to her for a while as she is actually away now seeing her boyfriend. You think we should start being better friends? I hear that a relationship based on friendship is one better than one based on attraction. Maybe this would work? Who knows?
Anyone got any suggestions?
Thanks all,
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reader, jezibelinhell +, writes (14 July 2006):
 It's very simple. She's in a relationship...respect that. She knows you're interested and if her relationship status changes I'm sure you'll be one of the first to know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2006): i think u should forget her! cos she cheated on her b/f and if u went out wiv her then she would cheat on u. once a cheater, always a cheater. shes not worth it. invite someone to the party tht fancies u. if u know of someone tht fancies u why not get to know them or just ask if they want to come, see what happens wiv them if they are single. it doesnt matter if u dont like them in tht way but it could turn an u could begin to fancy them, cos u dont get many ppl who like u a lot so make the most of it! xxxxxx write bk plzzzzzz on this page
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