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writes:Hiya,I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years now. She used to be such good fun, a really honest person and a really good friend. She has always been pretty, not naturally really, more just good use of make up and takes good care of herself. However, recently she's become close to another girl, and this first girl has changed so much, I can no longer trust her with anything, and she is full of herself directing most conversations towards herself, and I know she bitches about me and other people who she is supposed to be really good friends. However, since she's changed she's had lots of attention from guys. I know that I'm jealous as I've never had much attention, however my friends tell me that I'm prettier and nicer than she is. Why is she getting so much attention now that she's changed into someone that I don't like, and I know that other people don't like? Do guys go for the bitchy type? How can I make myself more attractive to guys?Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2006): I do not think so guys like girls who are nice not nasty I think you will find that bitchy women are a turn off for blokes
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2006): Simple, from my experience, unfortuntely..YES
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reader, jezibelinhell +, writes (16 July 2006):
 Just like eye color, body shape, and boob size, it depends on the guy. Every guy has his own idea of the perfect girl. Some may like the edgy bitchy type...some may prefer the sweet as sugar girl-next-door type. Bottom line, if you want to find the person that's right for you...simply be yourself.
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (16 July 2006):
 It's confdence guys like girl with a lot of confidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2006): Why on earth would a guy go for someone who's bitchy?
I am going to guess that the girls in this new group are probably more confident and this confidence has allowed her to become more confident too. Being confident is a way to attract guys, and I guess their bitchyness is just an unfortunate trait that they all have.
I find bitchyness an extreme turn off. If I was with a girl and she started bitching about someone I would immediately wonder if she would do exactly the same thing about me, it makes you very distrusting of them. Bitchy people usually have false, shallow and superficial friendships because ultimately, they don't trust one another. Their friendships are more to prop each others weak charaters up - to make each other feel better about themselves.
If you want to attract guys, and the "right" kind of guys - stick to your principles, and just be confident in yourself.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (16 July 2006):
 This is a case of each to their own. Don't go changing your personality in order to attract boys to you. People in general prefer honesty and openess, not false behaviour.
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