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writes: Hi everybody,I just broke up with my girlfreind, and though I'm a guy im kinda senative, and it taking me a really long time to get over it. We were in a relationship for 9 and a half months, and within a week she had a new boyfreind, and even though I'm attacted to other girls, I cant bring myself to ask them out. For some strange reason I think I might annoy her by doing so. Is this normal? if any one has been in the same situation before, I could really use some help over coming it,thanks
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reader, Kinger25 +, writes (17 July 2006):
It's really tough breaking up with somebody, especially when its them that has done the breaking up and you are left there wondering where it all went wrong. Heartbreak, along with grief is one of the most intense feelings you will ever have to deal with and it does take time to heal after you have lost someone that you have shared your life with for so long. I broke up with my boyfriend of 9 years 1 year ago and at first I though that I couldn't live without him. But over time I learnt so many new things about myself that hadn't been apparent during my relationship with him. I ended up becoming MORE confident in myself and a year later met Gary who is now the new love of my life. I never went out looking for someone else but life is a funny old game and there is ALWAYS somebody out there that is just perfect for you. Dont look for it, give yourself time and become happy with who you are and I can bet your bottom dollar that you will find someone just when you least expect it.
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reader, Kinger25 +, writes (17 July 2006):
It's really tough breaking up with somebody, especially when its them that has done the breaking up and you are left there wondering where it all went wrong. Heartbreak, along with grief is one of the most intense feelings you will ever have to deal with and it does take time to heal after you have lost someone that you have shared your life with for so long. I broke up with my boyfriend of 9 years 1 year ago and at first I though that I couldn't live without him. But over time I learnt so many new things about myself that hadn't been apparent during my relationship with him. I ended up becoming MORE confident in myself and a year later met Gary who is now the new love of my life. I never went out looking for someone else but life is a funny old game and there is ALWAYS somebody out there that is just perfect for you. Dont look for it, give yourself time and become happy with who you are and I can bet your bottom dollar that you will find someone just when you least expect it.
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reader, jezibelinhell +, writes (16 July 2006):
 It takes different people different legnths of time to get over things. Some people are over it before they even pack their bags, some take months or years, some never get over lost loves. I'm so sorry you're hurting, heartbreak really sucks. But know this...when YOU are ready to move on, you will. Use this time alone to your benefit. Busy yourself with other things, maybe take a class that interests you. There's always room for self-improvment. Who knows, you may meet the woman of your dreams at a yoga class :) Good Luck!
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reader, sexc_sadie +, writes (16 July 2006):
 However hard your finding it now, it will pass, i was with my ex for 10 and a half months and wen we split up i thought my life was ending until my friends took me out and helped me enjoy myself! Dont worry about her getting annoyed by finding someone new, my advice would be not to jump into a relationship so soon it wont work out, its just going to be a rebound!!! Me and my ex 4 months down the line are great friends and even tho he finisht me he tells me he misses me, but i know im stronger then him! Be strong and everything will work out.
Good luck x
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