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Sex with a player?How do I stop it?

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Question - (16 July 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2006)
A female United Kingdom, *atzkitten writes:

This boy i know has asked me a number of times to have sex with him and i have turned him down every time. The other week i finaly said yes and we were planning on doing it but i have heard from his sister today that he mighnt be asking another girl out. Im really hurting what can i do to stop it? and what do you think of the situation?

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A female reader, katzkitten United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2006):

katzkitten is verified as being by the original poster of the question

katzkitten agony auntThanx 2 u both. u r very helpful

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A female reader, jezibelinhell +, writes (16 July 2006):

jezibelinhell agony auntWhat saddens me the most is the lack of self-respect so many young girls on this site seem to have. Sweetie...if you do not respect yourself, NO boy will EVER respect you. Why would you ever consider allowing someone to use your body for their own gratification? This guy isn't even your boyfriend! He hasn't even given you that much! What's in it for you? An unwanted pregnancy? A possibly fatal disease? I've been with my man for over a year and if for some reason, we could no longer have sex...he'd still love me. Please wait til you find someone that cares about you...and shows it!

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2006):

willywombat agony auntRight two things you should be doing.

1. Ask him outright what his game is

and

2. Say no, don't do it.

You have no relationship with this guy so why would you be having sex with him......?

It is hurting because you ahve been *played* by some guy whose only interest in you was for the physical satisfaction he could get out of your body. Be glad you didn't go all the way, cos then you woyuld have somethign else to regret.

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