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male
age
30-35,
*antspeak
writes:As my name implies, I can't really talk to girls. It's kind of embarrassing, really. I can't talk to them unless I have a reason to, ya know? When we're working on school stuff or anything like that, I have no problem, but when it comes to ice-breaking and flirting and what-not, I'm hopeless. Don't get me wrong, I have no problems with confidence or appearance or odor or anything, but I just can't talk to girls.
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reader, Honey Sweet  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 Well. This is tricky.Well ask a girl to hang out with, get to know what she likes, then do what she likes. She might get a small message through. Then, just tell her. Practice at a mirror. I heard its quite a good tequnique x I hope this helpsHoney
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (2 March 2008):
 I think you're probably a bit "over active" - you have no problem talking to girls when you have planned what you're going to say, right? So, then maybe it is difficault for you to talk to girls without knowing who they are or what shcool project they're doing. Maybe if you just listened around other people, you can see that, unlike the movies, people say "um" and "er" alot more than you think!Go with the flow! Find someone interesting and listen to what she has to say for herself!Hope I helped,Jellyxxx
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