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Back with my boyfriend but tempted by another guy.

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Question - (1 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *athleeenie writes:

Ok so I kinda have a bit of a problem, I'm 16 by the way, my boyfriend is too. I have been with this guy 2 months we had a few arguements and went through a bit of a bad patch and broke up.

In the time I was single I met an old friend from primary school who I haven't seen in years. Turns out he now likes me as more than a friend and there was a bit of flirting going on.

Anyway I'm now back with my boyfriend, but things haven't been the same since, we haven't been as close and I keep thinking about this guy from primary school.

When I think about both guys there are so many more reasons to be with my boyfriend like I know he's never cheated on me and I can tell he has a lot of feelings for me. We have friends together and enjoy doing the same things, I trust him and he knows everything about me.

But I'm worried about this other guy, I admit I'm tempted by him.

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A male reader, Dave70 United States +, writes (1 March 2008):

Dave70 agony auntHow conveneint he likes u now. Why did he wait for when you got a boyfriend,the x? If u like him so much, dump ur boyfriend, you r not doing anyone any favors what u r doing now

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A female reader, superbunny United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2008):

superbunny agony auntI think, sweetie, you're tempted by him because he's new + interesting; but if your boyfriend is so lovely, what's the point in risking it with someone you've only recently just caught up with?.. But you are only sixteen, so follow your heart, m'dear! Just try not to heart anyone else's in the process.

I hope it turns out okay in the end. x

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A female reader, Honey Sweet United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2008):

Honey Sweet agony auntIts okay. I had something similar happening to me.

Have a deep think about it. Which boy makes you feel HAPPIER?

Which one can you imagine having a great time with?

Either break your bf off and go woth the other.

or

stay with your boyfriend and make your self see the other as a good friend

And maybe, just maybe, if your and your boyfriend have a bad situation, your friend will be there to catch you when you fall if you know what i mean ;)

I hope this has helped a little bit.

Honey

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