He refuses counseling. What shall I do?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I am 28 years old and I've been married to the ove of my life for almost 2 years with a 1 year old son. We've known each other for almost 11 years and he's mostly been a good person. But for the last six months we've been ha...
A. 8 April 2009: Say good bye. You love him and I'm sorry to tell you he does NOT love you. He is immature and feels trapped. Call it quits and then he can party like a kid without his actions affecting you... (read in full...)
My chat friend - nice and gorgeous in person - wants to hook up and be friends. But he has a gf already.
Q. There this guy that has been texting me emailing me for over a year now! We've never met just chatted online. Weve never got together cos ive kinda been getting over a relationship.then i was single and he wasn't.he was single i wasn't! Anyway hes ...
A. 8 April 2009: You're wasting your time with this guy, sounds like he's ready to cheat on his current gf with you and this "Gorgeous" guy has probably done it before. Leave it alone.... (read in full...)
Teacher love story......And Obbsession...
Q. Well i am only 16...My questions is does it mean anything if your teacher(married) stares at you a lot and tries to talk to you in the hallway and always compliments on everything you do and his always smiling every time he sees you. Like today well...
A. 8 April 2009: Back off, unless you wish to make the 6 o'clock newa. He could be infatuated with you he might even have sex with you. The someone talks, he gets fired and divorced and you get plastered all over the news for a few days and your friends with think ... (read in full...)
Got involved with ex, wife found out and now wants to end things
Q. 40 yr old, Married for 15 years - 2 great kids ages 12 and 8. I love my wife very much, always have and always will. I started texting and emailing with my ex after seeking love and compassing that I was not getting at home. My ex was very lovey ...
A. 8 April 2009: You have said a lot of contradictory things, you love you wife, you're not getting any loving at home yet you love her very much????????????????
You messed up big time. So take the consequences, you cheated on your wife with your ex, now she can ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my married teacher and now I want him to be with me!
Q. okay i posted a question quite a while back saying i tried to kiss my teacher but he rejected me. However last night i was at a nightclub with my friends and because hes only like 26 himself he was there and we started talking and he was saying how ...
A. 8 April 2009: Big mistake. Not much you can do about it now. I can
promise you though, he won't leave his wife.
Have you wondred why she wasn't with him that night you "accidently" met him at the club. Sounds like he's a player and you are just one more con... (read in full...)
Stretch marks on breast
Q. I have unsightly stretch mark looking things on my breast. I was wondering what it's from? And how can I get rid of these marks? Is it because they're getting "saggy"?...
A. 8 April 2009: Stretch makrs usually occur under skin that experienced a "Growth Spurt." Breasts seem like all of the sudden they are there. You go to bed flat and wake up under a double pointed tent.
Use Nivea and warm face cloths, at bedtime. Warm face clot... (read in full...)
According to guys, if you are raped, do they think of you as "loose"?
Q. If you get raped does it affect your muscles? In a mans terms does getting raped make you "loose"? ...
A. 8 April 2009: Ifyou were raped, you sorta did NOT have the option of having sex. Any fool that thinks you're loose because you were raped is indeed a fool.
A loose girl is one that has sex with every guy she goes out with.... (read in full...)
I'm really confused about my sexual orientation!
Q. so, let start off with im a 16 year old girl. problem is, how do i know if im straight, bi or les? like i know what it means to be each one, but im so confused and it freaks me out because there is so much pressure around me to be straight or to ...
A. 8 April 2009: Not a stupid question, you are having nprmal growing "pains."
I have always believed that women have been blessed with the capacity to establish a closeness to another woman that us guys can never understand.
Don't be in any hurry top establis... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm not exciting enough for my boyfriend!!
Q. We are both in college and have been seeing each other for a month now but I feel like he thinks I am boring because I don't really party and smoke like he does. I like to party once in a while but not every weekend like he does. He has a lot of f...
A. 4 April 2009: Lose him!!! I'm not a drinker nor am I a smoker. I know people that do both, have done both and many of them are now dead because they did both.
You are a normal healthy college girl, you're "jock" and believe me that is a good thing. You do NOT ... (read in full...)
I get super self conscious whenever we do anything and I end up ruining it for myself
Q. My boyfriend is really experienced and I'm not. I get super self conscious whenever we do anything and I end up ruining it for myself which is what I'm trying not to do. But whenever he fingers me or eats me out it feel sooooo good and I don't know ...
A. 4 April 2009: There is no "scripted" or "proper response" to love making. Some women react to an orgasm by crying, some by laughing, some make no sounds at all. Just be yourself, If he's upset about your reaction to his actions, then perhaps you are with the ... (read in full...)
Married only for a year and already having problems. Help!
Q. I have been married a year and a half been with my husband for 5 years. I am 25years old. When we got married i moved to a differnet part of the city and found it hard to make new friends, my old firends and i have grown apart as they see me diff...
A. 4 April 2009: You have answered your own question, the love you may have had no longer exists, Perhaps it's time to leave him and move on. O'm sorry, but no one should be in a loveless marriage. I hate wasye of any kind, but wasted love is the greatest loss.
G... (read in full...)
I lost a testicle in an accident and now I can't find a partner...
Q. I am 25 years old and I lost my testicles in an accident, because of that I am not able to find a partner. Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!! ...
A. 4 April 2009: If you're a female you don't have testicles.... (read in full...)
I want to work everything out but don't know how
Q. I love my boyfriend (age 20) a lot. We have been together for 8 months now. However, I feel like hes hiding something from me. it bothers me so much. For example, he never told me that he has a daughter until I confronted him about it. I had to f...
A. 4 April 2009: You answered your own question, he doesn't care about you! He is having sex with you, why should he be nice o you. Remenber, the person that cares the least controls the relationship. Sounds to me that his non caring attitude and his deception ... (read in full...)
Me, my married man affair, his affair, and his wife. How do I deal with this?
Q. I have known this married man for 4 years. we have been physical the whole four years. But he had an affair with another person in the office. and his wife found out about 2 months ago. she filed for divorce and he moved out. we were spending ...
A. 4 April 2009: I have read and reread this question for a time now, trying to compose an answer that will make you feel better and make sense to you.
First of all you have been having an affir with a married man for 4 years now, and recently he got caught with... (read in full...)
Is a girl sending him photos of herself?
Q. I'm 14. My boyfriend is 17. I found loads and LOADS MEANS LOADS of porn on his laptop. I came off straight away, but can't stop thinking about it! He asked me to show me my vagina on webcam anf i refused! Some of the pictures look like from phones ...
A. 23 March 2009: Sorry you are with the wrong guy. This guy just wants to add you to his collection. Under no circumstances should you send him any intimate photos of your body parts. He sounds a tad perverted, suggest you break away from him and let him move on, ... (read in full...)
I just need to know what to do to get this person to fall back in love with me!!!
Q. I've been dating this girls for about a year on and off. Recently we lived together and I started to feel taken advantage of so we decided to live seperately and still date. Well we both say we love each other but yet she doesn't show a lot of emot...
A. 23 March 2009: Just got out of a situation very similiar to yours. Run my friend, run far away from this woman.
My friend needed help with house and car payments, clothes for herself and her daughter, food for the dog even.
She blew her cork one evening,... (read in full...)
Horny..don't want to cheat but phone sex/photos aren't working for me in this LDR
Q. I find that I have plenty of opportunities to cheat but I just can't get myself to do it. I moved to cali 3 months ago and well to put it nicely I LOVE sex...I have a boyfriend though and it makes it hard since he still lives in my old town. I have ...
A. 22 March 2009: Well, have you tried masturbation? It's free, doesn't make your pregnant, fun, feels fantastic, it doesn't make you go blind, doesn't grow hair on your hands, feels fantastic and did I mention it's fun. Fanticize as you masturbate and it should be ... (read in full...)
Crying after an orgasm at night
Q. I am a lesbian in a completely monogamous relationship. My partner and I have been together for about 2 years now and have known each other for 3. I've read about crying after orgasms, and it's been happening to me for a year or more now. I'm not ...
A. 8 March 2009: An orgasm is the complete release of tension, sexual and emotional. Crying after sex is not so unusual. My wife used to cry after an especially hot night of massages, sex and g spot massages (She really loved those), she would cry, I would hold ... (read in full...)
Could an 18 year old girl and a 31 year old man have a successful relationship?
Q. I have recently started seeing a 31 year old man, i am 18. We get on well, and are both very attracted to each other but I know he thinks the age gap is an issue. We both look exactly our ages, which means we do get strange looks when we are out. I ...
A. 8 March 2009: YES!!!!!!!!!!!!! When my wife and I married, she was 19 and I was 33. I had 2 girls one 9 and the other 7. We had 20 wonderful happy years together. She was killed in a car accident 10 years ago, we had 3 sons, me and our children miss her dearly. ... (read in full...)
Porn addicted husband wants my help.
Q. My husband and I have been married a year in May. We have a son who just turned 3 months. I found out about 8 months ago that he has a porn addiction. I confronted him on several occations and he always told me he would stop. He didnt. I have a p...
A. 8 March 2009: Whoa!!!!!!!!!!!!! This somehow became your problem???? He just shifted the responsibility on to you. He has a problem and he's the one that needs to fix it.
If he loves sex and many of us do, and he likes to watch, het him a wall mirror and put ... (read in full...)
What a boring sex life!!!
Q. I have a boyfriend and we have been having sex quite a lot within these 18 months. The problem is, every time we have sex, we are just simply kissing and caressing each other's genitals. Then, my boyfriend will be on top of me and poopps! He comes ...
A. 8 March 2009: Why are you still with this boob?????
You are wasting your time with a selfish, immature, jerk. Do you really think he will change? Ask yourself, why should he? He's only iinterested in getting his own cookies and the H*ll with you and yours. No f... (read in full...)
He can't maintain an erection and it's killing both of us!
Q. I've been patient for far too long now... I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now. We don't live together and he's an hours bus journey away. I'm 23 and he's 24 and we've never successfully had sex :( when we went on our first ...
A. 8 March 2009: You love him , and have shown it by your patience. He is not holding up his end of the bargain. Why hasn't he gone to the doctor?
Perhaps it's time to pass him by.
Good Luck... (read in full...)
I need your input here... could I be bi?
Q. So I'm 17 and I've only ever dated or hooked up with guys but since I was young I always had a suspicion that I might be bi because I've had crushes on girls but I've never acted on them. And I do get turned on by girls but somehow I can't see ...
A. 8 March 2009: Curiosity? I have always believed that women have the capacity to love deeper than us guys.Women can share feelings and emotions in ways that guys can't.
Look, if you are BI, so what, perhaps you will find a friend that shares your curiosity and ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be fingered!
Q. Okay... Right so ive started seeing this boy in year nine and im in year eight... We were talking and i realise that the boys in his year have fingered girls. I dont want to be fingered and i told him that but i dont know if he expects me to let ...
A. 8 March 2009: Get another bf. This little boy is just wanting to be like his mates and expects you to be like the other "Fingered" girls. Remember , it's your body and if you do NOT want anybody putting their dirty hands or fingers on or in you, then do what you ... (read in full...)
How can I talk to him? He's playing the "start & stop" game
Q. hiya, well this isn't really a problem, but its annoying me big time... theres this guy in his first year of college, and hes absolutely gorgeous, we started talking last year sometime and he's really nice and always complements me etc and ive met ...
A. 8 March 2009: You're wasting your time. You say he's "gorgeous." Well sounds like he knows that too and is being narcisstic. You don't need that, you answered your own question, he's "Playing you."
Good Luck... (read in full...)
I want to squirt!
Q. I'm 21 and I am really feening to squirt. I know it might sound crazy or nasty, but I'm sick of hearing about girls squirting, and I'm not. Is it me or is my boyfriend supposed to make me do it? Can every girl squirt or is it just some? I'm ...
A. 8 March 2009: Female ejaculation is a phenomena that is hard to explain. Some women "squirt," some don't. My wife would squirt sometimes, but not all the time. If your bf doesn't know how to stimulate your G spot then it won't happen. My wife would squirt every ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend beats the hell out of me
Q. My boyfriend beats the hell out of me when I get him upset (he says I'm "getting fly.") He choked me when I was 8 months pregnant (outside), and he beat me up in front of our 2 daughters and my lil sister. I have been kicked, punched, slapped, head ...
A. 8 March 2009: Why in the h*ll are you hanging around. He loves you? Do you really believe that?????
Your daughters are watching , listening and learning that's it's Ok for daddy to beat the H*ell out of mommy. They will grow up thinking that's what love is all ... (read in full...)
He abuses me "slightly..but breaking up is really hard to do
Q. I am not happy in my relationship with my bf. He abuses me slightly, like its not that bad, but it does upset me. But the thing is, there is times when I am really happy in the relationship too, and I dont want to let go of those. Within the las...
A. 8 March 2009: He is the poster boy for a an Abuser. Get far away from him He will never change. The verbal and emotional abuse will only get worse and eventually, he will turn to physical abuse. While in the Navy I was part of the the Family Advocacy board and ... (read in full...)
I can't feel anything when he's in me
Q. I've been having sex for about six months now but my boyfriend is a little on the small side and i can't feel anything when hes in me. Even when he give me oral and touches me i don't really feel anything. I have to act when we are having sex t...
A. 8 March 2009: You are with the wrong guy. Size actually really doesn't matter. had a model I used to photograph her husbamd had a huge hore penis, he only wanted to have anal sex with her. Turned out he was gay. I would come over to photograph her and at times I ... (read in full...)
Why are boys so immature where relationships are concerned?
Q. Why do boys act stupid in relationships? BUT are smart at any other things like sports or cars?...
A. 8 March 2009: Because girls mature abaout 2 years earlier than boys.... (read in full...)
Will my ex boyfriend come back if I ignore him???
Q. I really want my ex boyfriend to come back. He has told me before that during the course of our relationship that he likes a challenge and he that I gave him a challenge in the beginning. Due to his work schedule, we broke up. It caused alot of a...
A. 8 March 2009: Ignore him and move on. Why in the world would wnat to live like this, afraid of doing or saying the wrong thing. It seems clear he doesn't give a sh*t about you. Stop lingering. Find a gentleman that will love and respect you abd all there is about ... (read in full...)
I am worried that my new husband is a verbal and emotional abuser.
Q. I am worried that my new husband (of 3 months!) is a verbal and emotional abuser. He seems to go through a calm cycle and then will get tense and run me down, it seems as though he has nothing positive to say about what I do. He is only like this ...
A. 8 March 2009: Leave him! It's obvious that he will never change. You don't deserve to be treated like this. You have a choice, stay and things will never change or move on and find someone that will love and respect you.
Good Luck... (read in full...)
I would love to meet someone else but lack of confidence is holding me back.
Q. Hi there guys... I could really do with some words of wisdom, as I can't really talk to any of my friends about this... Basically, I am 24 years old, and came out of a 4 year relationship about 18 months ago. I can safely say that I'm completely o...
A. 8 March 2009: Well you said you were outgoing, give it time. Your question is well worded and articulate, obviously you are an intelligent woman and I'm sure a beautiful one too. Time heals and you just need to allow some to pass. Read, masturbate and just enjoy ... (read in full...)
Husband not interested in me but mailing photos of himself to a guy?
Q. For the past few weeks, me and my husband's sex life used to be very good, but now it's gone from red-hot to zero-passion. My husband doesn't seem to show any interest in sex with me any more - I even wore sexy lingerie one night to try and get h...
A. 8 March 2009: Sorry you're wasting your sexauality and your time. Your husband is obviously gay. Time to break it off and move on. You sound like an intelligent woman. You don't need to waste your love, affection, and sexuality on nothing, and I'm afraid tha's ... (read in full...)
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