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I can't feel anything when he's in me

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Question - (8 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been having sex for about six months now but my boyfriend is a little on the small side and i can't feel anything when hes in me. Even when he give me oral and touches me i don't really feel anything.

I have to act when we are having sex to not hurt his feelings. Is there anything i could do to make sex more pleasureble for me?

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A male reader, FroggieGman United States +, writes (8 March 2009):

You are with the wrong guy. Size actually really doesn't matter. had a model I used to photograph her husbamd had a huge hore penis, he only wanted to have anal sex with her. Turned out he was gay. I would come over to photograph her and at times I could hear them in their bedroom, she was usually screamng in pain. Not pleasant. I had sex with her and I'm far from being horsie size. We had a very pleasant relationship.

If you feel he is inadwquate and it seems you do, he will never "measure up," to your expectations. he is with the wrong girl.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009):

yes - teach him or play with yourself whilst shagging - or get him to.

teach him how to touch and taste you- its something we boys have no previous of experience of and have to learn it from good teachers. Please teach him how to taste and touch you first - slow foreplay. The shagging work on later.

Hugs Star.x.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (8 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntIf when he gives you oral and touches you, you still can't feel anything I doubt it has anything to do with his size!

Show him what you do to please yourself, then he'll know where he needs to pay attention to.

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