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writes:I find that I have plenty of opportunities to cheat but I just can't get myself to do it. I moved to cali 3 months ago and well to put it nicely I LOVE sex...I have a boyfriend though and it makes it hard since he still lives in my old town. I have tried the whole Phone sex thing and dirty pics but while it works for him it doesn't for me, it only leaves me wanting more and being even hornier than before. I have been very close to cheating on him several times and I'm really nervous that my sexual desires are going to get the best of me soon. Any advice on how to calm my hormones down a bit?
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reader, FroggieGman +, writes (22 March 2009):
Well, have you tried masturbation? It's free, doesn't make your pregnant, fun, feels fantastic, it doesn't make you go blind, doesn't grow hair on your hands, feels fantastic and did I mention it's fun. Fanticize as you masturbate and it should be much better if he's on the phone with you listenting to the sounds you make.The only other alterb=natie other than cheating, is to just break up with him. Sex if afun fantastic thing, it's a deep rooted hunger that some of us just can't get enough of.Masturbation, cheating or breaking up, these seem to be your alternatives. Good Luck
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reader, Cookies +, writes (19 March 2009):
rhythmandblues2 you are right if thats the problem then you are waisting time asking. masturbate intil you dont have that urge. Is your guy worth losing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): I was just being rational and honest if that equates to being a bitch because I did not tell you that yes go cheat because you are horny and no it is OK to forget about the boy back home, so what guilt? That is called stringing someone else along, having your cake and eating it too, and you are out of sight and won't get caught so you are acting as if a whore:....definition: someone who compromises personal values (like fidelity to one's significant other) for personal pleasure or gain.
Ignore the post from the aunt who says you are young and are made to have and enjoy sex......and then? so what? You were made with a mind and you hopefully were raised with some principles, so use them, your body is the temple of your soul, what would your soul wish you to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): Invest in some sex toys, vibrators and other goodies. That should help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks lestatmighty for the answer, it was great. and rhythmandblues2 your a bitch.
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reader, lestatmighty  +, writes (18 March 2009):
ignore the last answer posted on here.
what it comes down to is that you are human, you are young. you are made to have and engoy sex.
what youve got to decide is, is your partner that special to you that you have a reason to resist these urges? and if he is, and you know you can have a relationship with him, is the guilt of cheating worth it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): Umm take a cold shower? I don't know what you want us to do for you here. Why are you maintaining this long distance relationship anyway? You are young, you have moved to a new state, is he coming to joing you soon?
It sounds to me like you would both be happier moving on with your lives and your hormones......
And why do you need to cheat on him to take care of sexual urges? You can masturbate....if that is all you are after a sexual release....Do you just look for guys for one thing sex? Or do yo uctually want to get to know some guys and date them first before jumping their bones?
It seems a little weird to me this question as if you don't have a brain and are just a bundle of whoremoans.....sorry couldn't resist.
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