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anonymous
writes:I'm 21 and I am really feening to squirt. I know it might sound crazy or nasty, but I'm sick of hearing about girls squirting, and I'm not. Is it me or is my boyfriend supposed to make me do it? Can every girl squirt or is it just some? I'm totally confused about the whole thing. Please help Thanks!
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reader, expert advice  +, writes (3 May 2009):
 first question-do u login to this site frequently?u know what-the girls of united states are eager to squirt but not the indian girls-i dont know why!!well let me tell u before hand that this squirting job not necessary should be done ur boyfriend-u can also do it by yourself....but yes if u are a first timer then it will be very difficult for u to do it by yourself...but yes the problem with women is they do not tell or are afraid to tell their boyfriends about this but u should be frankly telling ur boyfriend about whether he knows about squirting or not-if he knows then well and fine and if he doesnt know then just ditch him....find someone else.
Now the explanation on squirting......well let me tell you one thing-how many of you women know the exact difference between orgasming,peeing and squirting?not many women knows about this~~i have studied a lot and have asked many women about this~~let me make this clear to you-peeing means elimination of nitrogenous wastes like urine from the body-simply means urination.now comes the question of whether u r virgin or not-thank god u were not born in 1950s or 1960s where it was said that-if u r a virgin,then orgasming becomes more difficult and forget about squirting if u r a virgin.but i have found out that orgasming can be experienced by any women whether you are a virgin or not~it doesnt matter.what matters is the clitoris-the more bigger your clitoris,the more you get sexual pleasure and the more you orgasm.just like men hold their penis & masturbate,women plays with it to masturbate-think as if you are ringing a bell~~those women who are conscious with their virginity can play with their clitoris or use a vibrator on the clitoris to masturbate and have orgasms.just like men,women also cums-let me tell you how?men keep masturbating and cums semen which is thick white milky fluid,women cums a clear watery fluid which is very much different from urine.now what is orgasm and what is squirting?see orgasm is defined as a condition in a women where the women gets sexually aroused~how?-the vaginal walls will get wet,breasts enlarge,clitoris tightens and turns from greyish-pink to pinkish-red and when the guy fucks you,you will feel like something ticklish is going on in your vagina-a stage before squirting-this is what we define as orgasms.Now what is squirting?squirting is defined as frequent cumming and women cum frequently not men because men cums thrice in a day and hence men ejaculate.many women use the term ejaculate in a wrong way by saying that i can ejaculate~~now you may question that why is it that women squirt while men ejaculate?a guy keeps fucking you for two hours and if you are a highly sensitive woman,then in that two hours of sex,a woman will cum approximately twenty times while a man will cum only once.NOW HOW WILL YOU SQUIRT?SQUIRTING ARE OF TWO TYPES-INTENSIFIED AND NON-INTENSIFIED SQUIRTING.a woman is said to be completely satisfied if she experiences an intensified squirting.i'll tell you about intensified squirting in details later.In non-intensified squirting, you may use a vibrator of a finger especially index finger and rub your clitoris hard as hard as possible.do not stop~keep continuing~you will feel like you are having an ocean runing helter-scelter but do not stop the process and you will find that you bedsheet has gone wet!TRY IT!IF YOU CANNOT THEN TELL ME!I'LL EXPLAIN IT.TILL THEN BYE BYE.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): Most women cant do it.
I can.
It's nothing special at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you...
To all the people that answered. I have learned, that every woman has the ability to do it.
To the other losers! Why are yall on this website?? Seriously? I'm not gonna waste anymore of my time on the bitter ass holes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): Check out Dr. Trina Read. She's a sex and relationship counsellor. On her website you'll find a podcast on G-spot orgasms and squirting. According to her, there is a female analogue to a man's prostate, under the G-spot, and that with the right G-spot stimulation any woman will squirt.
I don't know if she's right, but it sounds like what you're interested in learning.
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reader, FroggieGman +, writes (8 March 2009):
Female ejaculation is a phenomena that is hard to explain. Some women "squirt," some don't. My wife would squirt sometimes, but not all the time. If your bf doesn't know how to stimulate your G spot then it won't happen. My wife would squirt every single time I would massage her G spot and many times while having "regular sex"
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): Hi there, I've squirt many times but not ALL the times during sex. I remember the 1st time I squirt I thought I was peeing during sex and got embarrassed but my husband told me it's not urine... afterwards i check it out and he's right it's not urine. And he said that I was squirting then. I then do some research about it and find it quiet interesting. I do remember the feelings tho, It would normally came out when together during my orgasm and the climax with squirting to me are the best climax ever! Im not sure whether every women have tendency to squirt or not, i think this subject is still under lots of research and debates. But for sure, it's not urine... To me it's a more a vagina liquid. Just remember when you reached your orgasm, you'd normally be really moist down there. Well, when you squirting, you basically produce more fluid and create the gush...
cheers
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reader, triedit  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 I think it is rather UNnatural actually.I wouldnt feel any pressure to do it. Cripes I bet even half of the girls seen on porn are not really doing it. And I always wonder if they aren't just screwed up in some way--like actually being a man only with small parts and crazy hormones.Definitely most women do NOT do this. You aren't a sexual failure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): funny my view is the same as below -
i have an idea why don't you have a badge made up and then you can sew it on your sleave then its another sexual achievement - well done you!
(Ok annoyance switched off. Try and answer the question Star.)
No Not every girl squirts. No it is not necessary - its a ting driven by porn. If you don't naturally you have to learn - see advice below - But its not worth it. Focus on loving your partner and enjoying the sex.
Hugs Star.x.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 Silly question, you both watch too much porn!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): [sigh]
You want to squirt, so you can spray onto some poor sap's face and eyes?
Is there a reason why you want to squirt other than hearing about other girls squirting? Is this even a legit question? We seem to... Never mind.
Go to Google and search "How to make a girl squirt
I'm sure you'll find TONS of information.
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