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He broke up with me for his ex, how do I approach this?
Q. So the guy i have been seeing for the past 2 months ended things with me. things before were absolutely great. texted me, introduced me to his family, his friends, told me how smart and pretty and funny i was. he wasn't the player type at all. but ...
A. 22 July 2009: Your relationship with the guy has been going for the past two months but I guess that his relationship with his ex has lasted for more than two months. This may explain why he feels more attached to his ex as they shared more moments together. It ... (read in full...)
Confused about my teachers behaviour
Q. hey guys I really need help. Earlier on the month I posted a question about me feeling like my teacher was flirting and I really didn't get a lot of feed back on it and I'm still hung up about the whole thing. I think about it a lot and every time...
A. 22 July 2009: I think he is sending you indirect messages that he likes you. For me it's clear that it's no coincidence that he kicked your desk. He is sending you a hidden message. He has even said that he only missed his girl, normally you miss someone who is ... (read in full...)
We were all gossiping but they have turned me into the scapegoat!
Q. Hello, I really need your help on this issue because I am getting very depressed with this matter. I’ll try to be as short as possible as I respect that it’s no fun for you to read long stories. We are three women working in the same office...
A. 22 July 2009: Thanks a lot for your precious help. As many of you has said, let this serve as a lesson for me. I will never again say anything on anyone. I know the two had a conversation on Saturday and I find it really disgusting that one of the gossiper dared ... (read in full...)
He's planned to get his wisdom teeth out just before our holiday
Q. It seems like my boyfriend of three years just doesn't care when things are planned out. He and I are planning to take a romantic weekend trip to a nearby city. Today he went to the dentist to make an appointment to have his wisdom teeth taken out. ...
A. 21 July 2009: If your he suffers from his wisdom teeth, then I think that health comes before sex and holidays. You can still arrange other romantic weekend. I too I would have been upset like you but I would try to reason myself that the health of the one I love ... (read in full...)
She only ever talks about her problems, never listens to mine
Q. Hi there, This may be quite a common situation, but I haven't really been exposed to it. This question is a friendship question, and I know it's long, but I'd really appreciate your persistence! I'm 15 years old, although I'm commonly mistake...
A. 21 July 2009: It seems that her whole world revolves around her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is constantly on her mind. When our heart is full of something, automatically we talk on it. You can talk to her how you feel, that you feel rejected as a friend because of ... (read in full...)
We were all gossiping but they have turned me into the scapegoat!
Q. Hello, I really need your help on this issue because I am getting very depressed with this matter. I’ll try to be as short as possible as I respect that it’s no fun for you to read long stories. We are three women working in the same office...
A. 21 July 2009: I'm not trying to lessen my fault but I did not gossip as the others did. I only said that I am under the impression that........... Words that I never mentioned were used. I too I was offended that my image and my work are being tarnished by what ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to a guy I hardly know and now I'm feeling guilty
Q. hi, i lose my viginity to a guy i barely know, we dated several times and he is expeienced he knows how to make me feel good, then that happened, i even didn't bleed a lot cause he is so good at it, now he is going to leave me cause he said he need ...
A. 20 July 2009: Hi, I can relate to what happened to you. You feel that you have given to a person something precious who does not seem to recognise it's value. For this young man, you were only another girl whom he has dated and you are hurt because for him you ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant, my b/f says he needs space, I miss him so what do I do?
Q. I'm 14 weeks pregnant. I thought everythin was goin fine with my boyfriend. We had our aruegments but who doesnt. he said he needed space.. some time to think. I miss him so much. Hes my everything. I'm goin crazy. what do i do? i need help ...
A. 2 July 2009: Do you want this child? One thing I know you cannot make a man your whole world, a man cannot be the centre of your universe. Have you and your boyfriend planned having a baby together? Your boyfriend obviously seemed very troubled by this news and ... (read in full...)
Just found out he's married and unsure of what to do. I don't want to be his bit on the side!
Q. I've been having an affair with a married man, although not for the usual reasons. Before people criticise me, I didn't know he was married at all - not one bit. In fact I didn't even know until now, as on Sunday night we were at the pub ...
A. 2 July 2009: No, don't fall into the trap. Statistics say that there are very few men who leave their wife and children for the mistress. Have you thought that if you never found out, you would have continued to be with him and he would have continued to lie to ... (read in full...)
He tells me he loves me but I don't FEEL loved by him! What can I do?
Q. Over the past almost 3 years I have had a relationship with a man who had just separated from his wife (now divorced over 1½ years). We had many, many ups and downs; 2 short term break-ups, several short term “take-a-breaks”, and a couple of his ...
A. 22 June 2009: I think you have both been hurt a lot in life and you have not yet recovered fully. You have not forgotten and you are still attached to these painful memories. As for the man you are in love, I think that even after one and a half year he has not ... (read in full...)
Me. my husband, my affair, my affair's ex-mistress, and my husband's affair
Q. Hello, I'm married for almost 10 years. I am having an affair with a married man since 2 years. First of all we are great friends, I frequently go to his place and I know his wife and children. He says I'm like his second wife. The problem is w...
A. 30 March 2009: You seem to have no shame at all, you are sleeping not only sleeping with another woman's husband but you also go at her place? Surely, you would pretend to be her husband's great friend. How dare you say that he had no feelings for the other girl ... (read in full...)
Please help! I want to make a step ahead
Q. my boy friend broke up with me a week and days ago.. the thing is he asked me when i was going to the north that means he wanted to see me i told him i moved on with a guy from an other country he is now jellousy that he d...
A. 26 March 2009: I think you are not ready for a long lasting relationship. If you really loved him, he's your soul mate then why did you cheat on him. You did not cheat only one time but several times. Your problem is that you want to have him by your side as he ... (read in full...)
She thinks that she's the tops of tops and I only a miserable being.
Q. Hello dear friends, This question I am asking is not really a love, dating or sex question but rather a matter that is troubling me a lot. I have a big sister and we were never in good terms. Today we share no relationship at all. She has always ...
A. 26 March 2009: Thanks very much for all of you who made me feel better. Your advice and comments are very precious. I believe it's true, jealousy may explain all her behaviour and once a religious man told me that people fight and mock people whom they perveive as ... (read in full...)
I want to know whats going on inside her head
Q. well here we go again! i wrote to this column almost 1 year ago to the date. my girl and i did get back together. i received some great advice but unfortunately ive found myself back in a situation again. it may help you to search my previous ...
A. 25 March 2009: wow, your post is tooooooooooooooooooooooooooo long... (read in full...)
Even although he tried to choke me to death I'm wondering... should I take him back?
Q. Recently my boyfriend was charged with assault and uttering death threats. Both charges I was the victim. He choked me and when I told him I couldn't breathe he said "thats what I'm trying to do". Sometimes I wonder if someone coming to the front ...
A. 19 March 2009: I think that Gina answer is excellent and she said all I would have said to you. Take her advice, dear. I used to work at the Ministry of Social Security and I handled many cases where the wife would come and say that her husband has drunk and ... (read in full...)
I feel like I was his second choice. Should I stay with him?
Q. We have been together for almost 2 years. Since the beginning of our relationship he never told me about this girl until I found out trough his friend he used to like her and wanted to go out with her but she never wanted to. Everytime we had a ...
A. 19 March 2009: Personally I think that it's of no use being with a guy who thinks of another woman. Maybe he is thinking of the other girl while you are having sex, who knows? The fact that he still text her, he even found a way to remain in contact with her even ... (read in full...)
I want to pursue a married woman!
Q. I have recently met this amazing women, she is everything I want in a partner. The only problem is, is that she has been married for almost 20 years and has kids. im in my mid twenties, and she is almost 40 LOL! yes there is a hudge age difference, ...
A. 10 March 2009: Oh la la! First you have to determine what you really feel for this woman. Maybe you just feel good to be with her because she is more mature than you.... (read in full...)
After having sex I lose interest in the girl
Q. I hv a problem and dats after hving sex wit a girl i wil lose intrest in dat girl. I wil not tel her so bt wil start avoiding her and my behavoir changes. Pls tel me wat might be d problem....
A. 10 March 2009: Your problem is that you view girls as sexual objects, your sole interest is sex and once you have what you want, you have no more interest in the girl. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant without sex by touching organs?
Q. hii i'm interest if it posible if a virgin can get pregnant without having sex, only touching sperm in her sexual organs?...
A. 10 March 2009: Don't get so worried dear. I can assure you that you will not fall pregnant if your private parts got into contact with sperm. Sperm cannot survive long in open air. ... (read in full...)
How to seduce a lady & have sex
Q. Wants 2 no how 2 completly seduce a lady and hv sex wit her. Cos i hv been wit 4 girls bt non respond properly.d 1st didnt allow me 2 touch her panties but we ar kissing. D 2nd after much strugle i remove her panties but refuse me 2 penetrate. 3rd ...
A. 9 March 2009: Hello, I think all you want is to have sex and is not even interested in the girls. As soon as you get a bit intimate with the girls, you profit to put your fingers in their panties and I'm sure they were shocked as they did not expect you to be so ... (read in full...)
She talksto me but won't go out with me
Q. What do I do? Ok it's a long story but bear with me... There's this girl I like. I've liked her for well over half a year now. We go to the same school and I'm in one of her classes. We are friends and we talk just like good friends do. The thi...
A. 26 February 2009: I think she honestly told you that there is no boy that interests her for the timebeing. I also think that she agreed to go out with you just to please you so that you are not offended. You should respect what she wants otherwise you might lose her ... (read in full...)
Sex is a curse not a blessing
Q. I am still to think that been beautiful, sexy is a curise not a blessing. I am 5'8, tone slender body. Every body in my school, both high school and college thinks I am beautiful. both male and female. I am into fashion. But I have never had a ...
A. 26 February 2009: Hello, I don't say that this will happen to you of course but I can relate to your situation since I experience the same thing. I am 28 years old and I am still unmarried. Almost all my friends are married. I always thought why I cannot find a p... (read in full...)
I'm trying to get over a guy and looking for support
Q. Im trying to get over a guy and looking for support. Ive liked this guy for a while but he's treated me badly in the past and is currently ignoring me. He only talks to me when he wants sex. It hurts so bad to see him able to talk to everyone else...
A. 25 February 2009: Hello, I think that you are in love with this guy but it seems that he likes you more than love you, maybe you took the relationship too seriously while he was just dating a girl he feels comfortable with. This guy is selfish, he knows you only whe... (read in full...)
Why can't I make up my mind whether I want to be with him or not?
Q. I'm thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend but i don't know. Help, tell me wether you think i should or not ? Well... I don't really enjoy his kisses, are relationship is suppose to be a secret for a bit while i sort other things out but he keeps...
A. 21 February 2009: what do teenagers like you understand in complicated things like love. ... (read in full...)
Where do I go from here? We have different goals!
Q. Hi! This is my first time asking a question ..its going to be long but bare with me please. here it goes. I am turning 21 next month. I have been with my boyfriend, 21, for 4 years now, we have never broken up once, nor have we ever taken a b...
A. 21 February 2009: I think you are right when you asked for a break and we should give him the credit of being honest with you even at the cost of losing you. He has different goals and he loves you but not enough to sacrifice his ambitions. He wants to be successful ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have an operation to restore your virginity???
Q. I am married and divorced but my family has arranged for second marriage. He wants my virginity back, he said it is possible you can go operate, it is possible?...
A. 20 February 2009: I have a hindu background and I know that there are many man who still sees virginity as an important factor for marriage as if it is a qualification. In your case, I don't understand why he wants you to have your hymen back, you are a divorced lady ... (read in full...)
I'm nervous she's not going to do it for me
Q. I'm a bisexual female, and just started dating a girl for the first time. I am crazy about her so far but I'm not too crazy about getting oral sex. Only a few people have done it right for me and I don't orgasm from it. Actually, like most women, I ...
A. 20 February 2009: I'm not a bisexual but I can relate to you when you say that you have never got an orgasm from oral sex, same for me. I think that each person's body is unique and you like penetration, your body response better to the act of penetration. A partner ... (read in full...)
Don't you think he is a hypocrite?
Q. Hello, I need your advice on this matter. I work with a man who is already married and has a kid. With time, i have begun to feel an attraction for him but I never said anything. I think he too feels the same way. Then I started to e-mail him ...
A. 20 February 2009: Thanks a lot, Tisha, that really helped me. It's true, I am acting exactly as you said like your little nephews. Many Thanks to all of you for your precious advice, I will take your advice and back off. Prevention is better than cure. ... (read in full...)
Why did he text me so much if he didn't like me?
Q. I'm 13 years old and i just found out that this guy i liked is going out with someone else. We had been texting each other all them time everyday for about two weeks and i had really thought he liked me or at least i hoped he did. Even thoug...
A. 19 February 2009: Hello, first of all what kind of text messages he sent to you? Out of his messages you can tell whether he like you or not? Maybe he was texting you only as a friend. Maybe he liked you and when he met the other girl he realized that he likes her ... (read in full...)
Advice on cheating?
Q. Okay, a little complicated. There is this girl who I became really close with about 2 years ago and we thought about dating but decided it would never work and just over time became best friends. Completely platonic. About 7 months ago I star...
A. 19 February 2009: It's only a kiss and you both agreed that it had nothing special, no magic and no spark. I don't see it serious enough to tell your girlfriend, why complicate your life? ... (read in full...)
In love with a married man, but how do I cope with our break up?
Q. Hi, i hope you can help me out of this absurd situation. i fell in love with a guy i work with in the same office, he is married, with two kids. out of guilt we both called it a very close friendship, then he called me his soul mate and then his...
A. 19 February 2009: I read your story and a couple of other stories. You are all complaining how your married man has been a bastard to you but why don't you think how you have been a bitch to the wife. Have you ever thought of your married man's wife? Maybe you are ... (read in full...)
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