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writes:If you fall in love with someone older than you about 7 yrs older and they're married with a baby but her and her man are seperated and we both like each other...is age really that important Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 July 2007):
 I'm with Martini.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (7 July 2007):
 I don't think it is in your case. Do you really want to be with this person, and think you could be happy? Then don't worry about the age gap!
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (7 July 2007):
 Age isn't that important..just as long as long as you are legal age. It's just a number and it is how you feel in your heart is all that matters!!
But just be careful since you said that he is still married with a child...even though they are separated they could get back together, which will leave you out in the cold. Just be careful!!!
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reader, finchy +, writes (7 July 2007):
 no, age isnt important. Do what makes you happy.Many couples have age differances..imaging what life would be like if everyone stayed within the same age area. your just people.. age is a number.
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reader, kenny +, writes (7 July 2007):
 I don't think that age is important if it falls within the laws of consent, and the couple in question don't have a problem with it. If you are both ok with it then its fine, but if either of you have got any hang ups regarding age than its doomed to fail. I feel you must have some sort of issue with the age gap otherwise you woulden't have been posting this question. When you get into your late teens early twentys then 7 or 8 years is not really a great deal.
With regards to the relationship with this guy please remember that although he is seperated he is still officially married. So at the moment i would refrain from letting anything serious happening just yet, at least untill you see something concrete that a divorce is on the cards.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007): The question should be answered by you. To some, age matters a great deal. To others, it might not. What do you feel about age differences?
You see, this isn't even really about age. If you question asked solely about age and nothing else, then the above is what I would say to you. However, you added "and they're married with a baby but her man are separated". The problem is that she has to deal with this separation that may lead to divorce or it may not.
A few things to keep in mind. Is she REALLY into you because of you, or is she into you because she's going through crap right now and she wants a shoulder to cry on, and a man for comfort?
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