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writes:I'm so scared I don't know what to do! My dad lives in England and I've live in Scotland all my life my dad was an alcoholic and abusive... A few months ago he got given a choice he would have to stop drinking or he would only have a few months left.. he chose to carry on..My dad had a seizure last night and then this morning he had a stroke and got taken to hospital.. he then had another stroke in hospital. He is unconscious just now and he keeps waking up for brief moments hallucinating,... he thinks he is at home in bed but he is in hospital.. he has been for brain scans today.The hospital have said that th next 72 hours are crucial and they don't think he will pull through, they said if he has a heart attack they won't resuscitate..I don't know how to react or anything, I wish it was me not him.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (21 August 2007):
 Oh no. Sorry to hear that Finchy. Hope you're copeing alright.
C xxxxxx
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reader, finchy +, writes (21 August 2007):
finchy is verified as being by the original poster of the question he died couldnt get there on time..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): Ok if you really care about him then just try to be there as much as u can 4 him like get a plane and fly there to be with him cuz if he dies and u really care then you should keep telling him you love him and that you really care about him and stuff make him feel comfortable i went threw the same thing with my grandpa but he got his leg amputated and he had a heart attack and he was eternal bleeding but he dident die and he is still alive today so as i was saying you should try to be there as much as possible for him and support him with what he is going threw and make him feel at home a little bit and when he halousonates than just make jokes if there funny!
your friend that u dont kno,
Maddie
p.s i hope everything turns out ok!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (18 August 2007):
Oh sweetheart how awful. Is there any way you can get there? Its a horrible feeling of helplessness isnt it.
My heart goes out to you at this time.
Is there anone you can spend time with now, if you cant get to the hospital?
C xxxx
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