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26 November 2008: Hi! I think all of us, men and wemen, got thru the nightmare of ending a relationship, and surviving the weeks and months after. I´ve been trough this twice, and both times I felt I would die! I was the one to break up, for several reasons....
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Carrying around this wounded heart...how do I work this through and move on?
Q. Hi there...Well I dont really need help!...I know what to do,I have been thru this kind of experience... But I feel like I need to scream,to cry,to explode... So I had this bf for almost 2 years,and we also work together.So one day I spied his cell...
A. 21 August 2009: Thanks for the help!Well,i ve decided to brake up with him...I was always so hurt and insecure....Oh well,life goes on,and im feeling much better now .
Thanks!!... (read in full...)
Is there a button I can push on this guy to show him I'm here for more than sex??
Q. Hi!For the first or second time,I write about a non sexual related issue . Well,I have this bf for about 1 year and a half ,besides our relationship ,we also work together.So we sleep together ,work together ,go to work together ,and he is always a...
A. 24 May 2009: Uniquescreenname thanks so much .I supose youre right .Your answer really helped me to understand what s wrong .Thanks again!... (read in full...)
How can I overcome my hatred of my small boobs?
Q. I'm so disappointed with my body. With my breasts actually. They're small. However, I'm not "athletic". I'm not fat, but I'm not a skinny, long-bodied beauty. I'm medium framed, huge hips, most of the fat goes there, actually. I've always been ...
A. 22 May 2009: Hi there .I also had that same issue .I love to work out ,and I think I have an athetic body .However ,the more I worked out ,the less fat I had ,and my boobs were just vanishing!!!The skin was still there ,and they looked like empty bags ... (read in full...)
How do I approach him about trying swinging or introducing another in the bedroom?
Q. Hi there! Well, I am in a 2 year relationship and things are just great. However time went by and sex just isn t the same but I'm a very creative person, so I have always lots of kinky ideas and games. My bf is a dear, really good looking and so n...
A. 22 May 2009: I guess youre right .I would also like to have a women in our bed .I think all men like this idea ...Thank s!... (read in full...)
How do I approach him about trying swinging or introducing another in the bedroom?
Q. Hi there! Well, I am in a 2 year relationship and things are just great. However time went by and sex just isn t the same but I'm a very creative person, so I have always lots of kinky ideas and games. My bf is a dear, really good looking and so n...
A. 21 May 2009: Yes mr me,youre right.I m also scared of that part.....I love him so much ,but we are also young ,and some adventure is good for us.Well,Ill just think about it.....
Thank s~
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How to make a good wife to my husband during sex time?
Q. How to make a good wife to my husband during bed or sex time?...
A. 21 May 2009: Hi there.Well,I believe the answer to your question is : comunication , making a connection...
To have great sex ,you need to connect with each other.Feel what he feels ,understand what turns him on.Talk in bed ,dirty or not.Ofcourse man love some... (read in full...)
Love my BF, but so attracted to this guy! What to do?
Q. Hi!Well, today I woke up, and a stupid dream turned out to change me a little,just a little.... I am dating this guy almost for a year ,and I love him, I care about him, we´re friends and sex is really great. We work together, which is really f...
A. 25 January 2009: Thank´s cdognon!You actually helped me....I feel more normal,knowing that other women go thru this like me.
I think we can´t stop this atraction...We just have to control it....Slap yourself if you must!!
A friend of mine told me,for me to get this... (read in full...)
Precum equals Pregnancy?
Q. my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex yesterday he told after that he was scared when i asked why he said he did pull out but not when he pre cumed.. can i get pregnate from precum?...
A. 24 January 2009: Hi!Ofcourse you can get pregnant.Even if he doesn´t cum inside you,the pre seminal fluid may get you pregnant!And besides that,a unprotected sexual intercourse will transmite you all kind of sexual disiases.
Maybe you should have a pregnancy test... (read in full...)
I just wanna know how to get over someone!
Q. I don't know how to explain this so I'm just gonna say it. I've had some problems in the best with relationships because I seem to always fall insanely 'in love' with the wrong people - and it drives me insane because I can't get over them until ...
A. 24 January 2009: Hi there!Well,in my opinion,for you to be able to love and feel all the happyness,intimacy and joy of a relationship,you must let yourself go,and love almost insainly the other person.Well,when you allow yourself to feel such love and emotion for ... (read in full...)
Love my BF, but so attracted to this guy! What to do?
Q. Hi!Well, today I woke up, and a stupid dream turned out to change me a little,just a little.... I am dating this guy almost for a year ,and I love him, I care about him, we´re friends and sex is really great. We work together, which is really f...
A. 24 January 2009: I know eddie.However,i´t´s just those chats one may have at work with colegues...About an add in a magazine about kamasutra and things like that.Really innocent stuff.However I do feel guilty about it...
I´ve been thinking about it,and hell,I will... (read in full...)
How do I tell my Mom that I'm bi?
Q. Hi! In a moment my moms gonna come and check me Im now ready to come out and tell her that im bi.. My question is.. How do i tell her slowly? I dont want her to freak out! Plz help... Im really nervous ryt now.....
A. 23 January 2009: It´s okay.Don´t worry.When you feel you´re ready,then tell her.There is no rush...
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Love my BF, but so attracted to this guy! What to do?
Q. Hi!Well, today I woke up, and a stupid dream turned out to change me a little,just a little.... I am dating this guy almost for a year ,and I love him, I care about him, we´re friends and sex is really great. We work together, which is really f...
A. 23 January 2009: Thank´s so much for all the help.The thing is EDDie,I haven´t told him I´m attracted to him,but I feel like a sexual tension between us.We chat a lot,and usualy about sex.Kind of inocent stuff,but I see he feels that tension too.
However I will not ... (read in full...)
Love my BF, but so attracted to this guy! What to do?
Q. Hi!Well, today I woke up, and a stupid dream turned out to change me a little,just a little.... I am dating this guy almost for a year ,and I love him, I care about him, we´re friends and sex is really great. We work together, which is really f...
A. 23 January 2009: Thank´s pvtguy.I know i´m being childish.I know a relationship is about commitment,and I never cheated on anyone my hole life.But this attraction is taking control of my mind,and I don´t understand why!I love my bf,and sex is great.I don´t want to ... (read in full...)
Problems with self image, how can I enjoy my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem. I am really self concious about my body. I have a problem with eating and I overexercise and have some unhealthy habits. I don't do anything extreme, and I manage and hide them well, but I still am not satisfied with how I look. ...
A. 23 January 2009: Hi there! Well, I believe you must feel good with yourself to be able to have a balance love relationship with your bf. I think a person really has to love herself first, then she´s able to love others. I think you need to take a day to change y... (read in full...)
How do I tell my Mom that I'm bi?
Q. Hi! In a moment my moms gonna come and check me Im now ready to come out and tell her that im bi.. My question is.. How do i tell her slowly? I dont want her to freak out! Plz help... Im really nervous ryt now.....
A. 23 January 2009: Hi!I´m a 26 girl,and found out a fiew years ago I love man,but like to be with other girls,nothing like serious relationships,just physical.
My mother doesn´t know about it,and I don´t feel I should tell her.She is very liberal and modern,but I just... (read in full...)
I'm 16 years old male and I think I'm a pervert and I hate myself for this.
Q. Hi all, I'm 16 years old male and I think I'm a pervert and I hate myself for this. Sometimes everything is ok, you know Ii just want to kiss a girl more than other things. But sometimes I want to do stuff you see in porn movies, girls never want ...
A. 19 January 2009: Hi there.Hey!!!There´s nothing wrong with you!You´re 16,yoú´re hormones are running all over your body,and ofcourse you´ll think about porn and kinky stuff.I think all guys your age are going thru the same thing.
Now,dont do anything crazy.It´s okay... (read in full...)
He's masturbating more than I can count!
Q. Recently for past 5 months my husband masturbates more than i can count. Our love life had been really awsome and try to play out fantasys! I accidentally caught him one morning with my underware before getting in shower. Tried to over look it but ...
A. 19 January 2009: Hi!I think all men masturbate,even with a good satisfying sex life.It´s just something they have to do....I also so it...But maybe not as much...
I dont think you should worry about it.You caught him,but I bet he has always been doing it.Dont thin... (read in full...)
I rarely get head but she REALLY doesn't want it herself either...
Q. I have a question regarding variety of sex dropping off in general, and cunnilingus in particular. My wife and I have been married nine years, been together for fifteen. No kids. When we were first got together we were quite open to most "stan...
A. 19 January 2009: I see what you mean.
Well,I also feel sometimes really horny all day long and masturbate a lot,but there are also some times I´m just not in to sex.I dont know if it´s hormonal or just my moods.
Perhaps you should try harder to make her feel hor... (read in full...)
I rarely get head but she REALLY doesn't want it herself either...
Q. I have a question regarding variety of sex dropping off in general, and cunnilingus in particular. My wife and I have been married nine years, been together for fifteen. No kids. When we were first got together we were quite open to most "stan...
A. 19 January 2009: Hi!Well I don´t think the main problem is the lack of oral sex.I think you must deeg deeper and find out what´s really going on.
I think maybe she´s just not very interested in having sex at all.Oral sex is a very nice way to give and get plea... (read in full...)
She doesn’t want to begin a physical relationship until she’s has had a tummy tuck completed.
Q. While working as an online volunteer, I gradually formed a long distance romantic relationship with a co-volunteer. I’d known the woman professionally for a couple of years and developed great respect and admiration for her. However, we live 2000 ...
A. 19 January 2009: Hi!Well I trully understand your concerns.However,as you know,us wemen,we are very sensitive about our body.Many of us find most man very physical,very visual,and maybe she´s woried you may find her tummy ugly or unfit,and that will make her feel ... (read in full...)
I'm very unconfident about my genitals
Q. I'm so unconfident about my body especially my genitals. I can't bring myself to get undressed in front of my new girlfriend as i have never properly been intimate with someone and i can't stand the way i look. Without trying to be too crude- my ...
A. 18 January 2009: Hi there! Well I´m not a man, so I don't really have testicles, but maybe I can help. First of all, in my opinion, well, ofcourse the way youre genitals look is important, but the thing that most matters in a sexual intercourse is the chemistr... (read in full...)
I'm a bedroom sissy that fantasizes about being dominated by a man. Am I gay?
Q. Hi. I'll get straight to it. I think I'm straight, I've only ever fancied girls and fallen in love with girls. Even now, I would never enter a proper relationship with a man. But...I want to have sex with a man. I'm a bedroom sissy that fantasi...
A. 18 January 2009: Hi there!The human being feels the necessity to label evrerything and everyone...I think people feel more safe and organized when labeling everyone...Please dont be like that.Mhy must we be labbeled as bi,hetero or as gay?I believe all humans were ... (read in full...)
He wants to pee on me!!!!
Q. Hi there! Today I have a strange question.... or maybe not. What should I think about a man who likes to pee on a woman and get horny with it? Is it common? Once again, I think I know it all, but always being surprised... over and over again......
A. 11 January 2009: Thankyou so much for your help!Think maybe ill just have a little chat with him...and if he wants it so much,maybe in the shower it may be fun.Bye!... (read in full...)
Can having anal sex get me pregnant?
Q. Ok, I need a little help. I'm 16 and have tried anal sex with my boyfriend. He got it in a little and we did it for a couple minutes but it hurt too bad so we stopped and gave up. He never came... my question is could I get pregnant from this since ...
A. 10 January 2009: Hi! Woah! youre really young to have anal... Or maybe I started up too old... Well of course you can't get pregnant through your anus, but you can get all kinds of sexually transmited diseases... But if it hurt you, maybe you didn't use some ... (read in full...)
He bit my tits and now I have red specks all over my nipples. Is this dangerous?
Q. I don't care if this may be stupid, but I really want an answer to calm my nerves. My boyfriend and I had some fun today and he bit my tits, that was about 6 hours ago and I checked and there are red specks like all over my nipples, should I worry? ...
A. 10 January 2009: Hi! I think you shouldn t worry. Our breasts and nipples are very sensitive. The skin is full of vains and nerves and when touched or bitten, even gently, can easylly gain redness and sparks. You should see a doctor and maybe a ginecologist to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is turned on by Trannies.
Q. My boyfriend is turned on by Trannies. I have caught him by accidentally hearing him having phone sex with a male/shemale. This prompted me to check his profile in a website that I happen to know he's on. (similar to Myspace) Well, this confirmed ...
A. 10 January 2009: Hi there! I really understand you being confused. I was in a similar situation. Recently I found out my bf feels very attracted to other man(not shemale and I think not dressed as girls...). I know he thinks a lot about this, and he told me he ... (read in full...)
That damned G Spot!
Q. So here I am, wondering about the same subject as always.... That damn male g spot. I am 25 years old, and I still haven't been able to find that magic spot. I've tried to relax my bf, he has a really good time when I touch him from behind, but he ...
A. 8 January 2009: Hi!Thanks...Well i think i just haven t found anything hard inside.Maybe its just because half a finger is not enough.He really enjoys me touching him there,but im afraid to hurt him.Maybe some lubrification will help.
Ive been looking at some medi... (read in full...)
As I get older I find that sex has changed a bit. Please tell me of your experiences.
Q. Women please reply… As I get older I find that sex has changed a bit. One thing is that I don’t need to be in a relationship quite as long before considering and having sex. Do you find that to be true as well? How else has the experience ...
A. 23 December 2008: Hi there!I also feel I´ve changed a lot along the years.Sexualy I feel much more experient,mature,and secure of myself.I no longer wait 2 weeks to have sex.And when I do have sex I am much more free and relaxed than I was some years ago. But mo... (read in full...)
Where is that male G-spot that I read so much about?
Q. Hi! So here I am, all grown up and feeling so sexually mature. Love to have sex with my bf, and love to try everything I feel like. But I just don't know this really important thing... and never really thought about it...WHERE IS THAT G SPOT I read ...
A. 17 December 2008: Thank so much!I have tried again,but dont think i hit the spot...But well,ill just keep trying...Must I try it with him lying with his back on the bed,or must he be in other position?I just dont want to hurt him,and just want him to feel good and ... (read in full...)
Sometimes when we're just getting freaky, I tend to lose my erection!
Q. Ok I don't know if this is a problem, I'm 22 and I'm a horn dog. I get easily turned on, but if I'm not having sex and we're just getting freaky before we do anything, I tend to lose my erection, could this be because sometimes I get a little ...
A. 7 December 2008: Hi again.Hey,I think youre forgeting something...Forgive me if i m wrong but I think youre just focussing in the physical part.In my opinion,sex is almost entirely psycological.For instance,If you are alone masturbating and just not thinking about ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of his celebrity crushes!
Q. I have a stupid problem. It's my own personal stupid problem, but it affects my relationship. I'm jealous of my boyfriend's celebrity crushes/porn. They're all these sexy women with gorgeous faces and bodies I'll never have. Like Monica Bellucci....
A. 7 December 2008: Hi there!I trully understand what youre feeling...God,why does he tell you those things?Its pretty normal both man and wemen feeling atracted by porn stars,as long as movie stars.Even knowing usualy when they apear on tv and cinema,they have serious ... (read in full...)
Sometimes when we're just getting freaky, I tend to lose my erection!
Q. Ok I don't know if this is a problem, I'm 22 and I'm a horn dog. I get easily turned on, but if I'm not having sex and we're just getting freaky before we do anything, I tend to lose my erection, could this be because sometimes I get a little ...
A. 4 December 2008: Hi!Im a 25 year old girl,and ,well I think I already have some experience about men in bed.And maybe you have the idea that the man must stay completly hard along all the experience...but I dont think thats the way it works.
Ofcourse if youre horn... (read in full...)
I kissed a girl and I liked it. Was it cheating?
Q. I have a boyfriend i love very much. at a party last weekend, i got really drunk and kissed a girl i like hanging out with. I've never been attracted to women but i do like this girl alot. Was that kiss considered cheating on my boyfriend?...
A. 26 November 2008: Hi!!I´ve done the same thing...but my boyfriend was there and he saw it.I thought he was going to feel turned on,but he felt gealous!Yes,kissing a girl is not the same as kissing another man.But yes,the feel betraid.
I also have never felt atra... (read in full...)
He lost his sex-drive. How do get it back ?
Q. I am so confused... and need some help. I have been with the same man for 4 years. (He is 21 I am 20) We were sexually active soon after we got serious, we would fool around a lot, but not much sexual intercourse would happen because I wasn't on ...
A. 25 November 2008: Hi! I think what happen to you is normal. After a while, you just need to spice up a little. If he doesn't even masturbate, he sure needs something to wake him up. Why don't you try this? One evening, when you are both just watching tv, you put a ... (read in full...)
Are the chemicals released during sex causing me to have a high tolerance for noise?
Q. For some reason, whenever I have sex for 20+ minutes, I cannot hardly hear afterwards! I mean, I can have a conversation with someone just fine (it's just a little harder than usual), but I always feel like I cannot hear the TV or hear music that I ...
A. 25 November 2008: Hi! The same thing happens to me! When ever I orgrasm, then I feel like I have cotton inside my ears, which makes it a little dificult to hear. This is happening for years now, but I don't think it's making any damage at all. Maybe it's just because ... (read in full...)
My fiance of 6 years lies about porn problem, then blames it on me.
Q. Hello everyone. My fiance and I have been together for 6 years. We have a beautiful 13-month-old daughter together. Just yesterday he admitted to me that he was using my computer to look up internet porn. This is after months and months of lying to ...
A. 24 November 2008: Hi there.Congratulations for the baby!!Well I think almost every man likes to watch porn,even if they have a wonderful fullfilling sex life.Masturbation and porn will always be a part of man´s world.You shouldn t see it as a treath,or as a bad ... (read in full...)
Will he lose respect for me if we carry on with oral sex?
Q. I am in a relationship with this guy.He doesn't want to have sex because he don't want it to turn phhsical and he dont want to loose respect for me.I am totally fine wit that cause im a virgin but we do have oral sex sometimes. Will he loose respect ...
A. 23 November 2008: Hi!!I understand you having a relationship without sex.You are really young and should wait if you dont feel ready to get phisical.However oral sex is quite phisical.I dont see where you got the idea of having sex connected to loosing respect. S... (read in full...)
How can I become the faithful girlfriend that I used to be?
Q. I'm a bit confused. I'm an attractive, well educated woman who seem not to be able to solve a simple enough problem and so would love some good advice. I love my boyfriend, we've been together for a long time. I use to be faithful but these days ...
A. 23 November 2008: Hi there.I see youre a bit confused...I think in the past,I also found myself in the same situation.I the first place,I think you are having those srtange secret feelings for other man because,maybe subconsciously,you are reacting and defending ... (read in full...)
I really want to have a threesome, but I'm dubious that it will ruin our relationship.
Q. Hi there! So i really love sex. I have a boyfriend,now for almost 1 year, and things are going really well. We are friends and lovers. Everything seem to be great when we are together, even with no money... When we have sex, I feel really turned o...
A. 20 November 2008: Hi!Thank s so much for the help.I think,as long as we both want this to happen,and as long as we see this as a fun adventure,and be able to just enjoy the pleasure,it will be okay.We only live once,I believe...So we must realy have fun.I shure do ... (read in full...)
I don't enjoy sex!
Q. hey guys, I've been having sex for about a year now. I've only ever came twice. it really gets to me. i dont know how to enjoy sex. Sometimes i do but its never that good. i just lose interest so quickly. I'm the person who rolls over and goes to...
A. 18 November 2008: Hi there.I think you worry so much it gets even worse.I believe sex is much more psychological than physical...I think you should explore with him your fantasies,talk about them and imagine them happening.Maybe watching some porn together may ... (read in full...)
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