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That damned G Spot!

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Question - (7 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2009)
A female Portugal age 41-50, *elina writes:

So here I am, wondering about the same subject as always.... That damn male g spot. I am 25 years old, and I still haven't been able to find that magic spot. I've tried to relax my bf, he has a really good time when I touch him from behind, but he says, although he likes it, he doesn't feel I found any specific spot, his g spot.

So I know the g spot is his prostate gland, that is a round nut shaped thing... I've tried with him lying down with his tummy up, and I stuck half my finger inside and tried to bend it inside him... but that didn't do. Must I stick all my finger inside him?

Can anyone help? I am really curious about this. Thanks!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (8 January 2009):

DoubleM agony auntI'm not sure what your intent is, but it is possible to give a prostate rub while giving head - and it tends to trigger a greater release of ejaculate (sperm and semen). If that is what you are attempting, lay him back and proceed with your oral stimulation until he is approaching his climax. At that point, he should spread his legs more, maybe raising them as well, while you insert a very well-lubricated finger deep inside seeking the target.

I've never done such a search myself, of course, but naughty girlfriends did not seem to have any trouble getting there. You can use a medical glove if preferred, especially advisable if you have fairly long fingernails, and don't forget the lubrication. If you locate the target (I don't know what it feels like), continue sucking while rubbing side to side, and rotate your finger as he climaxes. You can expect that it will increase his volume and prolong the orgasm considerably.

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A female reader, Felina Portugal +, writes (8 January 2009):

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Felina agony auntHi!Thanks...Well i think i just haven t found anything hard inside.Maybe its just because half a finger is not enough.He really enjoys me touching him there,but im afraid to hurt him.Maybe some lubrification will help.

Ive been looking at some medical pictures and the prostate gland seems much further than half a finger can get.I guess ill try again.I love to explore his body,and I knkow he enjoys it too.However sometimes I´m afraid to touch him there very often and maybe he thinking I think he s gay or something.Or maybe,touching him there very oftenly will make him hurt or .....well i dont know...

Thanks so much for your help.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (8 January 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntDisclaimer: weak stomach, especially around butt talk, well... this might be a little graphic.

I remember you and your question from like, a month ago... still haven't found it? Wow. Use that whole finger if you've gotta, sister.

Have you tried lubricating your finger super well and playing with him from the outside... when he is right on the edge of cumming, THEN stick your finger in there. I think that you won't be able to find it until he's really close to cumming, because at that point the G-spot is at it's hardest. It will be that super hard thing that your finger runs along.

I know you've been trying this for awhile, have you just never felt anything get hard in there or what??

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