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*awaii23
writes: Hi! In a moment my moms gonna come and check meIm now ready to come out and tell her that im bi..My question is.. How do i tell her slowly? I dont want her to freak out!Plz help... Im really nervous ryt now.. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): I agree take your time and wait 'til you feel confident enough to do it, Good Luck!
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reader, Felina +, writes (23 January 2009):
It´s okay.Don´t worry.When you feel you´re ready,then tell her.There is no rush...
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reader, Kawaii23 +, writes (23 January 2009):
Kawaii23 is verified as being by the original poster of the question.... I didnt tell her
I panicked and got scared...
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reader, Kawaii23 +, writes (23 January 2009):
Kawaii23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTnks guyz!
She'll be here by now and tell her slowly..
Wish me luck!
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reader, Felina +, writes (23 January 2009):
Hi!I´m a 26 girl,and found out a fiew years ago I love man,but like to be with other girls,nothing like serious relationships,just physical.
My mother doesn´t know about it,and I don´t feel I should tell her.She is very liberal and modern,but I just don´t want to tell her.But,you say you´re bisexual,will you have a serious relationship with a man?If so,yes you should tell her.But if you only like guys for sex and fun,I don´t know if you must.
Honesty is very important for a parent/son relationship.If you feel you must tell her,then do.Maybe a long calm conversation will be the best.And yes,tell her slowly,don´t just tell her you´re gay.Shell go mad!!
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): You could try and guage what she would think about it before you come out. Try finding out her views on sexuality before you come out, you might even ask her how she would feel if you said you were bi, then if she hates the idea and asks you why you asked you can brush it off and say a friend came out to his parents recently.
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