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Is there a button I can push on this guy to show him I'm here for more than sex??

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Question - (23 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2009)
A female Portugal age 41-50, *elina writes:

Hi!For the first or second time,I write about a non sexual related issue .

Well,I have this bf for about 1 year and a half ,besides our relationship ,we also work together.So we sleep together ,work together ,go to work together ,and he is always at my place .So I am alone only when he goes to his place to pick up some clothes ,and when I go to the toilet !!!

So,whenever we fight ,we go to work not talking to each other ,and having a really bad time...

This fight was about friendship.Whenever I have a problem and just need a friend to say everything will be okay ,he is a jerk to me and doesnt help at all.Always seems to want to see me even worse by picking on me because of my driving skills and stupid stuff like that .

So today he went to his place ,and now he phoned me and wanted to have like sex phone...What the hell??So he is not my friend ,but says he loves me...Never available to be my friend,but always available to have sex!!!!So jealous of other man,but then again ,doesnt treat me right!!

Are all man like this?I dont think so...and I sure hope not!!Should I just leave him?Or is there like a button I can switch to make him understand I am a human being and,like himself,also need friendship,comprehension ,care ,besides sex????

Can anyone give a wise opinion on this?thanks...

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A female reader, Felina Portugal +, writes (24 May 2009):

Felina is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Felina agony auntUniquescreenname thanks so much .I supose youre right .Your answer really helped me to understand what s wrong .Thanks again!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009):

I don't have the answer but i sure hope someone gives you a good one because i am going thru the same situation and want to know as well as you do. Thanks for asking it.

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