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41-50,
*elina
writes:Hi! So here I am, all grown up and feeling so sexually mature. Love to have sex with my bf, and love to try everything I feel like. But I just don't know this really important thing... and never really thought about it...WHERE IS THAT G SPOT I read so much about? I read its on the prostate gland, and I can reach it in his anus. But I already tried to do that, but I just cant feel that round nut sized thing! I really want to know I touched his g spot, but is it deeper? and to the left or to the right? Can anyone help?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (17 December 2008):
 Lying down has always worked best for me... Try playing iwth the outside of him right until he's super close. Then insert, don't be afraid to use your whole finger (and I hope you don't have long finger nails. I keep my index finger trimmed for exactly this reason, which nobody knows but you and whoever reads this). You should be able to feel the hardness inside and THAT is what you're aiming for. It's by no means small!
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reader, Felina +, writes (17 December 2008):
Felina is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank so much!I have tried again,but dont think i hit the spot...But well,ill just keep trying...Must I try it with him lying with his back on the bed,or must he be in other position?I just dont want to hurt him,and just want him to feel good and relaxed.And im also so damn curious about this g spot.Thank so much!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 December 2008):
Hey darlin',
Ahhh, the elusive G-spot on a fella. Well, by getting your finger up in there, you have pretty much tackled the biggest battle. Now, for location. It won't feel super hard to you until he starts to get really, REALLY horny - like, close to cumming, horny. Trust me, if you're in, you're in. Make a little "come here" motion with your finger, once you're good and inserted... repeat that for a little while and you'll feel him get harder and harder on the inside. Soon you won't be able to miss it.
I assume that all fellas are built a little differently, making any leanings to the left or right specific to the individual, but for the most part it's really just a straight shot.
Be GENTLE. The bum is a lot more sensitive than our hoo-haas. Our hoo-haas can take a little more abuse (not literally, just in the sense that you can be a little more aggressive in your play once you're into things), but with a guy you'll need to play nice until he's really used to anal penetration, even if it is just one finger.
Good luck and let me know if you need any more guidance.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Maybe this will help?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostate
I think the male gspot is the area in the anus where the prostate lies next to.
That's all I've got for you, maybe another aunt or uncle can help you out.
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