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writes:Ok, I need a little help. I'm 16 and have tried anal sex with my boyfriend. He got it in a little and we did it for a couple minutes but it hurt too bad so we stopped and gave up. He never came... my question is could I get pregnant from this since we didn't use a condom? I am a couple days late for my period and am worried. Answers would be greatly appreciated. We regularly have sex with condoms and everything has been fine until we tried anal without a condom, now I'm just worried. I don't think anything could happen since he didn't come around my vagina. Thanks so much guys!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much everyone. I was just worried that if there was any pre that could have touched my vagina, if i could get pregnant from that but I guess it's rare.
Thank you I feel waaaaay better =)
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (10 January 2009):
 The only way that conception can occur is if a sperm and an egg join, and there are no eggs in your anus. Unless some sperm got into the vagina somehow, then you wouldn't get pregnant from anal sex, per se.
Unfortunately, having vaginal intercourse is another story. I'm glad your wearing condoms, because they give considerable protection (having unprotected sex would be crazy!) but only abstinence from vaginal intercourse can protect you fully from pregnancy.
I don't mean to preach, but there's a time and a place for sex. For your peace of mind, I would talk to a doctor if you're worried. I think that people should know all the facts about sex and contraception, as well as the risks. Like I said, though, sperm would have to get into the vagina for you to become pregnant.
Like the other aunt said, it's very normal for teenage girls to have slightly irregular periods (a couple days late can be caused by a number of things) and menstrual cycles are sensitive to the factors she mentioned, such as sleep, diet, stress, etc.
I'm not sure if this is your case, but sometimes, if you're confined to a small space with other girls, it can affect your menstrual cycle. I had read this previously but I "learned it for myself" when I lived in a student inn with a bunch of female roommates. I was very "regular" since I was 12 but then in college I was "all over the place."
I think that if you have questions about sex and just want peace of mind you should see a gynecologist to put your mind at ease. :)
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reader, NurseBetty85 +, writes (10 January 2009):
 From A medical point of view, you can't get pregnant. Your anas has nothing to do with you reproductive oragans. If a guy cums in your anas, first of all the sprem won't survive. Second, its not going anywhre near your vagina once its inside. Now, from a personal point of view, I've done anal plenty of times and let my boyfriend cum in me on purpurse. I never got pregnant. Don't worrie to much about your period, you are still a young lady and your body is going threw so many changes. When I was your age, my period always changed up on me. Good Luck and Be Safe! Wrap it up next time for you wont have to worrie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you! I am 16 now, had my period since I was 11 and it's ALWAYS regular. I'm never a day early or late, it's always on the dot so that's why I was worried.
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reader, Felina  +, writes (10 January 2009):
 Hi! Woah! youre really young to have anal... Or maybe I started up too old...Well of course you can't get pregnant through your anus, but you can get all kinds of sexually transmited diseases...But if it hurt you, maybe you didn't use some lubricant, or maybe you were not relaxed. Anyway, you can't get pregnant through the anus, but you must never be penetrated without a condom.Take care.
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reader, Jmo +, writes (10 January 2009):
 If he never came and he wasn't in your vagina (in case of pre cum) I don't think you have to worry. Additionally, late periods are not uncommon at your age (and you're only a couple days late. Hell, I'm 25 and my periods can be all over the place due to hormones, stress, and poor eating/sleeping/drinking patterns. I don't think you have much cause for concern.
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