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How do I get my 38 year old lover back?
Q. Hey everyone, Ive got a big problem. He's 38 and im 18 and even though ive heard all the comments about robbing the cradle, hes only using you for sex. I dont care and I love him and he loved me. it all started on saturday when he came up from...
A. 9 December 2009: actually "HUN" it wasnt a night of clubbing i went out for half an hour at the least with ONE friend.
I asked him if it was ok and he said yes, I then begged him to come out with me but he refused.
he then texted me saying tell me when to get r... (read in full...)
Why is he being so distant???
Q. hey, I'd really like someones help! Well ok it all started last July with this guy who is 37, and we became bf and gf (I'm 17) and at the start he was really kind... always told me he loved me and texted me loads... now its March and I went to see ...
A. 8 March 2009: oh yeh he did but he replied sorry my phone died n didnt even answer the question the jerk ... (read in full...)
Why is he being so distant???
Q. hey, I'd really like someones help! Well ok it all started last July with this guy who is 37, and we became bf and gf (I'm 17) and at the start he was really kind... always told me he loved me and texted me loads... now its March and I went to see ...
A. 5 March 2009: Eve I know but your getting as few of the facts a bit wrong its very complicated one thing= this girl used to be my frend before we met him and she started being a cow to me after he told her he liked me. she told this girl who hates me and the... (read in full...)
Why is he being so distant???
Q. hey, I'd really like someones help! Well ok it all started last July with this guy who is 37, and we became bf and gf (I'm 17) and at the start he was really kind... always told me he loved me and texted me loads... now its March and I went to see ...
A. 5 March 2009: yeh ur right thanks its just really hard
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Why is he being so distant???
Q. hey, I'd really like someones help! Well ok it all started last July with this guy who is 37, and we became bf and gf (I'm 17) and at the start he was really kind... always told me he loved me and texted me loads... now its March and I went to see ...
A. 5 March 2009: eve hun... this was the first time i went to see him, we always meet... but he comes up and makes a 3 and a half hour journey to see me
and britt i do no some things about him... i just dont know loads of things ... (read in full...)
I need someone to listen and give me advice.
Q. Hey I'm going through a really bad time at the moment, I've just finished High School and started at college (UK kind of college, not US) and I properly hate it, I'm missing loads of my lessons because I can't be bothered and whenever I think...
A. 8 November 2007: Hey sorry to hear you are having a bad time, i know how you feel because i used to be like that last year. My advice is just to focus on your work, try to keep your mind of all the bad things because they are going to make you even more depres... (read in full...)
Tips on just how to move on.
Q. i met my ex about 2 months before we started dating. we hardly ever talked, and he was with one of my friends anyways. we hooked up over the summer, and dated for about a month. it was a fantastic relationship, and i thought we were doing really ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hey like KoE616 said its obvious that you have feelings for him, but you should just move on, i know thats its going to be difficult because you have these feelings but think of all the lies he told you. Go out with your mates and have a laugh, y... (read in full...)
I'm in an awful situation - can anyone offer some sensible advice?
Q. hi, im 16 and been dating a 21year old and he slept with my friend before me and she is 13weeks pregnant. Then he got with me and I'm late. I dont no whether or not to stay with him as he has offerd me crack. I'm in a awful situation.. I told him ...
A. 24 October 2007: hey
Baring in mind the safety of yourself and your unborn child i would advise you to leave this guy. Think about it this guy is offering you crack and he slept with your mate, who is now 13 weeks pregnant. If he is offering you crack than he is p... (read in full...)
Should I make a move on halloween?
Q. Theres this girl my best friend since like 2006.... we always hang out together talk on msn. We both have boyfriends (we go threw them very fast) She's very pretty, I've grown so close to her. We always call each other sisters. The point is i ...
A. 24 October 2007: Hey
well i think you should make up your own mind about this, but youve got to think about the consequenses. for instance are you sure that she is flirting with you, intentionally or is she just a flirty type of girl. Also think about how your fri... (read in full...)
How can I make him leave me alone?
Q. i dont know what to do at the minute, i broke up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago, because he was over protective of me, and i didn't like it, but yesterday night i was drinkin with friends and he decided to threaten some guys that i was ...
A. 24 October 2007: Hey anonymous.
You should just go up to him and tell him to leave you alone. Ask him why is he acting like this, and then remind him that he has to move on with his life like you are trying to move on with yours. If he does not take the hint then... (read in full...)
How will I know when I'm ready to have Sex with him?
Q. hiya all i have been with my bf for a month now and we have dun pretty much everything apart from have sex.We are both still virgins, and he seys hes ready to have sex and hes being really good about it and is not pressuring me at all, but how will ...
A. 7 September 2007: Hey
You'll just know, when the time is right, and when youve been in a relationship with him for longer, it all depends on you. You will know when you want to have sex with him and he hasnt pressured you. Basically it depends on your attract... (read in full...)
I need to lose weight. How can I get motivated?
Q. I'm having trouble getting motivated to exercise. I've set myself a target of Christmas to lose about 20lbs. Does everyone think this is acheivable? I eat fairly healthy already, but do little to none exercise, so I'm hoping that doing swimming, ...
A. 1 September 2007: hey
I think that you are capable of losing that weight before christmas, since you eat healthy if you exercise you are bound to lose wieght steadily. If not have you tried to reduce your calorie intake from 2000 to 1500 if your are eating t... (read in full...)
I don't think foundation will cover this spot on my forehead! Any tips?
Q. Above my head i felt a lump so i knew a spot was developing, so i started picking at it! And well made it a lot worse...I woke up this morning with my forehead quite swollen and hard skin where i'd been picking also its very red! I dont' know what ...
A. 31 August 2007: Hey
to conceal it use conceler and foundation which is blended in well. To get rid of it, there are many things that you could use such as tea tree oil, or use toothpaste at night helps reduce the spot, but there is a cream on the market called s... (read in full...)
We met online and now he wants to meet me but I'm not who I said I am and I'm already married!
Q. Theres this guy I met online while selling him a membership to an adult site. Anyway, To make a long story short we ended up talking on MSN and on the phone for about a month already and now he wants to meet me. I have already made up several ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hey you should tell this guy the truth, you will hurt his feelings but unfortunatly thats the only way you can get out of this mess, this guy only knows you as the fictional person you have portrayed to be, your husband knows and loves the real y... (read in full...)
My issue is that I am confused on what might be considered "cheating." I have never physically done anything with anyone else but when I see a guy I find gorgeous I start to lust for him.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and have a very open relationship when it comes to communication. We love each other very much and plan to get married someday when we are both ready. This is my first relationship and he is my first ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hey hot kirby is right, its only natural to have those feelings if you see a hot guy, you arent doing anything wrong by thinking about them, all that matters is that you dont let it ruin your relationship with your boyfriend, who you say you love. ... (read in full...)
Life can be so unfair... the man I fell in love with ditched me and got hitched to younger lady!
Q. I met a man last year and we spent a lot of time together. I fell in love with him but he suddenly changed and wouldn't speak to me.I was also very hurt because he met someone soon after me and married her after just 5 months. She is 14 years ...
A. 23 August 2007: Hey
eyeswideopen is right you have to stay away from this man and dont contact him.You fell in love with him, but he didnt love you. There is no point wasting your happiness on some man who doesnt love you, and soon after you two broke up mar... (read in full...)
I always feel that other people are better than me. Why?!
Q. hey. What i have always felt throughout my life is other people are so much better than me. Why? I have been told i am pretty lots of times yet i still feel like everyone else has something that i don't. Why am i so insecure about what i look like...
A. 23 August 2007: Hey
Firstly you lack self cofidence, you arent happy with yourself, but you have to realise that many people are not better than you. This is a time were your hormones are going to be crazy and it will mak you feel like you are insignif... (read in full...)
Is it weird for a guy to NOT want to have sex?
Q. Okay so I just want to know.. is it weird for a guy to NOT want to have sex? I've been with my boyfriend for a year, we love each other and everything but he just won't do it. But yet he still teases me about it sometimes like provoking me kinda. ...
A. 23 August 2007: Hey
Well maybe he just isnt ready for sex at the moment or he probably wants to wait for a while before you two do it. Why dont you just ask him if he wants to have sex and then ask him why if he doesnt. Respect his decision becuase if you love... (read in full...)
I have really bad acne! What can I do to solve my problem?
Q. hey guys i'm turning 16 in a few months from now... and i have this acne problem... i have acne all over my torso... which is so embarassing... worst case is at my back, then at upper arm... i'm really annoyed and even embarrassed to swim... can ...
A. 7 July 2007: Hey First of all go visit the dermetologist it might cost a bit of money but its worth it, they can give you advice and perscribe you medication that will help get rid of your acne.If you dont want to go visit a dermetologist try buying products ... (read in full...)
YOU CAN HELP: Spread the word about DearCupid!
Q. Hi, I want to ask a really big favour of everyone who uses, likes and has been helped by DearCupid. Help spread the word this weekend, by doing some of these suggestions: * Tell your friends and family about DearCupid * Talk about and ...
A. 3 July 2007: Hey andrew
I told my friends to join and a few of them have i put the link to the site as my msn name and have mentioned the site in my myspace hope this helps!!... (read in full...)
Why am I always attracted to guys much older than myself?
Q. Hi, I've always been attracted and have dated pretty much always older guys, far older than me. Like I'm 18 but the guys I date are around 30 of age. Why is that? Is there a reason why I'm attracted to older guys?...
A. 27 June 2007: Hey
Maybe its because older men are more mature than guys your age. There is also the fact that they are more experianced and they have lived more so they know how to treat a girl right because they have grown out of that phase of their life. Ma... (read in full...)
I hate my thighs and my bottom, any hints on how to tone them up?
Q. Hey, I'm feeling really depressed by my thighs and butt. They are 21 inches, and my hips (incl. butt) are 39 inches. I'd really like to know what i can do to reduce them, and tone them up. Anyone have any nutritional/ fitness advice? Pleas...
A. 27 June 2007: Hey
You sound ok but if you want to tone up, i suggest you do cetain exercises targeted for the specific area of your body. For your thighs i suggest you do leg lifts and lunges. There is also a exercise called dumbell squats that is good for... (read in full...)
My fiance and i have been together for a little over 2 years now and him and i fight often.
Q. ??? My fiance and i have been together for a little over 2 years now and him and i fight often. I have 3 children from a previous marrige and things are getting really complicated, i'm so unhappy because he verbally abuses me. I can't stand the tone ...
A. 21 June 2007: Hey Sit him down and talk to him about why he is acting like this towards you. Maybe he has some issues or maybe he is just mean. Tell him that although you love him you cannot keep going through the accusations and the bullying. Its not good for... (read in full...)
I like an older guy who has a girlfriend--what do I do?
Q. i am 16 and i met this guy who is about 22 or 23, he is perfect in every single way but he has a girlfriend his age. what shall i do, i cant stop thinking about him and when we see each other, we always have a good chat. what shall i do??...
A. 20 June 2007: Hey
Like yoummy mummy said you should just be a close friend towards him, if you tried to break him and his girlfriend up, it would be unfair and also if the man you liked found out what you did, your relationship with him could be damaged.... (read in full...)
My friends are treating me badly and it makes me snap. What should I do?
Q. I am sick of everyone my friends mostly they are all leaving me out and its making me snap at anyone and leaving me with less and less friends. I am starting to get called names and i stand up to them and they just laugh but i wont tell no one (only ...
A. 20 June 2007: Hey
Well get yourself a set of new friends who have more in comman with you. Just because you are their friend, it doesnt mean that they have the right to bully you and make you angry. Ask them why they are doing this and if you dont get a g... (read in full...)
I have such ugly teeth I dont want to smile
Q. I have really ugly teeth. People call me elephant girl bc they look like tusks. it really hurts me inside. and i really like this guy derrick but he makes fun of me too even though he has like the hairiest legs ever so he shouldnt be talking. should ...
A. 20 June 2007: Hey Sorry about your problem. If you want to sort it out you should visit your orthadontist and try and get braces. People can be so cruel sometimes. I know how you feel sweety since im getting braces in august as well and my teeth are messed... (read in full...)
I want to make a boy notice me
Q. i want a boy to relieze im alive! HOW DO I ACCOMPLISH THAT? show some girl her love and respond!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 20 June 2007: Hey Listen to what the others have said but dont forget hygiene and a good clean appereance are a must to avoid turning a guy off. Try and at least take an interest in a few of his hobbies. Be brave and stand up for who you are, and what you bel... (read in full...)
Gay pride..what are your views?
Q. do you believe in gay pride? jw...
A. 20 June 2007: Yeh i do belive in gay pride. Its great that there are so many people who are gay and are proud to be gay, im bisexual and im proud to be bisexual, and there is nothing anyone should try to change the sexual oriantation of another human being. ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to get over a 2 year relationship?
Q. whats the best way to get over a guy that youve dated for a couple of years (3)? advice please!!!...
A. 20 June 2007: Hey You just cope with it the normal way. There isnt any quick way of getting over a relationship that has lasted for that long. Here are some tips: Realize what happened and why. Your relationship ending was not your fault. Accept your p... (read in full...)
We had a fling and now everyone knows about it and is being nasty! What should I do?
Q. i had a fling with a guy i knew through work, it was supposed to be descrete, now i find he has told people things we did and its got back to some relatives and people at work who are being unpleasant, i said its lies but they're being really nasty ...
A. 19 June 2007: Hey
i agree with what eyes wide open has said. Just tell them to mind their own business and for them to be going on about you and your life just shows how pitiful their own lives are. Ignore the comments they are just trying to force you to r... (read in full...)
Got asked out while at the library and said "no" even though I wanted to say yes... !
Q. A guy introduced himself at the library and asked me out. He asked me in front of the librarian and I turned him down out of sheer embarrassment. Now that I think the encounter over, I want to see him again just to talk to him. Is it possible ...
A. 19 June 2007: Hey
Well why dont you ask the librarian if he comes there very often, if the librarian says yes then you will be able to meet up with him, when he returns. Then you can tell him that you were not expecting him to ask you out and now that you have... (read in full...)
About to give birth but have no worries. Shouldnt I be freaked?
Q. Heya :) This sounds a little silly but shouldn't I be worried about going in to labour for the first time, or any worries at all..... I'm 21 weeks pregnant and feel a little odd as I'm not panicking as much as other pregnant women I know and ...
A. 19 June 2007: Hey,
First of all let me say congrats, you shouldnt be freaked out you are different to other woman and so you will probably deal with pregnancy differently to other expectant mothers.
About keeping cool, you should invest in a leg gel ... (read in full...)
I'm scard of being hurt again but I'm finding myself feeling deeply for a guy at church. What can I do?
Q. I'm going to be 21 this year. I have a problem is that I'm scared of loving again. I was hurt deeply once and that I'm still trying to overcome it. Everytime I thought I have gotton over it, it got worse. I'm now feeling miserable and depressed an...
A. 19 June 2007: Hey I agree with what DOJHA has said, you have got to stop being misrable, depressed and confused. You have been hurt but so have many others and if they can recover so can you =] Take it slowly, you tell us that when he comes on msn you lo... (read in full...)
There are so many obstacles in our way but I feel there is still a chance for us; should I tell him?
Q. A few days ago my long distance b/f and I decided that our relationanship was not going to work. Everything is against us being together: distance, money, culture. But we still love each other. I was going to go and visit him but we both decided it ...
A. 19 June 2007: Hey If you really do love him i think you should write him a letter, if you dont you will just regret not knowing what could have happened between you two. Hun the worst thing he could do is reply saying he doesnt feel the same way. I think y... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't open up to me, should I leave him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks and all we do is physical things, everytime I ask him about his life we end up arguing. all I know is he doesn't have a good relationship with either of his parents and is in counsuling, I don't know what to ...
A. 19 June 2007: Hey Well this is a hard question. Its good to know that he is getting consulling for his problems, this tells you that at least he wants to work through his parential relationship problems. Hun i think you should sit down with him and d... (read in full...)
My wife and I can't communicate our feelings
Q. my wife loves me and i love her but we always wait for eachothr to show that, always hiding our feeling to eachother. what should i do to fix this problem?...
A. 19 June 2007: Hey Well, what you should do instead of waiting for her to say it all the time, you should just say you love her and express your feelings more. Start by little gestures to show your love, for example chocolates, flowers to big gestures.... (read in full...)
is it wrong for me to want to feel desired and irresistable to my fiance?
Q. is it wrong for me to want to feel desired and irresistable to my fiance?...
A. 19 June 2007: No. It isnt wrong, every body wants to feel desired, loved and irresistable, you wouldnt be human if you didnt want to feel like this. Take care =] ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex even though I am only 14?
Q. me and one of my really good guy friends have been talking about having sex..because we feel there is something between us...but i am only 14..should i consider having sex w/ him?...
A. 19 June 2007: Hey No i dont think you should. Your still very young and even if you want to do it, you might regret it when you are older and you meet someone who is special and you cant lose your virginity to them since you already did. Just because you fe... (read in full...)
She said not to get my hopes up b/c she just recently split w/ someone - how should I take this?
Q. Hi. I recently met this girl in a club, she was all over me. This is the time I only ever ask girls for their numbers. Anyway I asked her for her number, and she said you're messing. I did want her number so after convincing her I wasn't lying I...
A. 18 June 2007: Hey Since she has just come out of a relationship, she is going to be on the rebound a bit. Maybe she just doesnt want you to think that this meeting is going to change anything between you two. If things dont go well tommorow at least you have b... (read in full...)
I haven't had my period in 3-5 months and I haven't been sexually active! What could be wrong?
Q. Hi plz can u help me i am really scared my period hasn't started 4 nearly 3-5 months now and i haven't done anythin if u know wot i mean,and is this normal plz plz can u help me out thanx ...
A. 18 June 2007: Heya Hun dont worry your periods take a couple of years to regulate into the 28 day cycle, and obviously you are young as well so that will contribute to your timing in periods. Also your diet and stress levels could be playing a factor in y... (read in full...)
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