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writes:whats the best way to get over a guy that youve dated for a couple of years (3)?advice please!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): well lets see just dont think about him when you are going to sleep or when you are by yourself ...thats what i did and broke up with him also dont have contact whatso ever
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 there are no special ways just try not to think about him e.g all the good times don't hate him or tell ur friends how bad he was just remember u broke up for a reason. have a tub of ice cream and watch a chink flick with some girls and take ur time and don't rush into things till u r good and ready. good luck
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reader, nologo  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Dress in black, lie down and cry.After that come out and have fun.Repeat these 2 activities for a while to achieve the effect.Forsee you asking what is the real meaning behind this story.Here it is: You cry due to him and you can cry without him, you have fun due to him and you can have fun without him...Is there any thing you cannot feel without him? Burn it all.
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reader, kasparschk  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 unfortunatly the only way to heal a broken heart is time. join a club or group. start doing things you've always wanted to do but were unable to b/c of him. i joined the local fire dept (something i would have never in a million years ever seen myself doing) and i have met a lot of great people and they helped me. it takes time. don't try to rush it. accept your feelings (kinda like the first thing to getting over a problem is to accept it) and work w/ them loving yourself in the process.
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reader, darksecretangel +, writes (20 June 2007):
 HeyYou just cope with it the normal way. There isnt any quick way of getting over a relationship that has lasted for that long. Here are some tips:Realize what happened and why. Your relationship ending was not your fault.Accept your pain: cry as much as you want, get it all out. Keep your distance,this means no communication with your ex harsh but its the only way, you will be able to move on.If you two have decided to stay friends then take a break before talking to him agian.Write all your feelings down it helps you get all your feelings out in one goLet go: there isnt any use for you to still be heartbroken and depressed, if it was meant to happen then it was meant to happen.Good luck x =]
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