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I may only be young but have seen a lot in my life.
I have had experience with alcoholics, physical and emotional abuse, bullying & family problems.
My friends always seem to come to me for advise so i thought i would give this a go.
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Are we ready?
Q. okay here goes I'm 18 years old and will be 19 in june. I have been with my partner for over a year, we have been living together for 10 months and we adore each other. We both have stable jobs and have the option to overtime if we wanted. e...
A. 13 February 2010: Looking back to this question I asked nearly 12 months ago makes me so glad I took on board all your advise!
My partner and I are still together (2 years next week!), we have moved to a nicer house in a nicer area, we both have better jobs, I'... (read in full...)
13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare
Q. Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...
A. 7 May 2009: good luck with everything and keep us posted x... (read in full...)
13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare
Q. Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...
A. 2 May 2009: your going to have to tell somebody, if you tell the nurse & they inform social services your parents will find out from them, im sure they would rather hear from you.
it sounds horrible but the longer you leave this (if you want an abortion... (read in full...)
13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare
Q. Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...
A. 28 April 2009: ask your doctor ... (read in full...)
Somehow I got pregnant and I'm just not sure what to do!
Q. I'm 17, and i've just found out i'm pregnant. I really can't understand how, as I was on the pill, and even the doctor said it just doesn't add up. But after not having my bleed after day 21, I knew there must be something wrong, and so took 3 ...
A. 22 April 2009: nobody can make this decision for you, before you make this decision research your options.
a member of my family had an abortion without knowing what she was letting herself in for...she has regretted that decision ever since.
having a baby... (read in full...)
Do all women like the taste of semen or are there women out there like me that don't like the taste of it?
Q. I've been with my partner for 5 years now (he is the only person I have ever been with) but there's one problem... I don't like the taste of his semen!! But watching porn movies women seem to love the taste of their mens semen?! Do all women li...
A. 21 April 2009: i dont like the taste of it either, my partner doesnt mind & doesnt come in my mouth. from the friends i have had this conversation with, none of them like the taste either.
I've never tried but have heard if your partner eats pineapple or orang... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and I want a baby!
Q. i am 16 and i lost a baby with my boyfriend who i have been with for 1 year and a half my mam did not no i was pregnant and now she has just found out i am haveing sex and i really want to try for anouther my mam thinks it will spoil my life but my ...
A. 21 April 2009: if you really want a baby then i think you should go for it....IF
Your willing to give up everything you do to look after a baby.
Your prepared to get up numerous times during the night, without a lie-in in the morning.
You have enough... (read in full...)
Teen pregnancy... written by a teen herself currently expecting twins!
Q. I am expecting twins and I am only 15, was 14 when I found out and I want to be here to discuss my story, help other young mums who are expecting, teens who don't know whether to have a baby or not, relationship advice just someone your age to talk ...
A. 21 April 2009: congratulations! A friend of mine has just had twin girls, their adorable!
My partner & i want a baby but now is just not the right time :-(
Good luck with everything & take care x... (read in full...)
What is an acceptable age to conceive a child??
Q. im just wondering on everyone's opinion, looking at this site you see a lot of young girls with pregnancy problems but what in your own opinion is an acceptable age to conceive a child?? i am 19 and me and my boyfriend want to start a family (...
A. 16 April 2009: my partner & i also want a child, i asked for advise on dc too.
We decided to wait until we have moved into a bigger house, bought a new car, been on holiday & saved up some money, all the things that we would have to put on hold if we were to ... (read in full...)
I regret my last abortion and now I am pregnant again I don't want my boyfriend to pressure me again!
Q. I have discoverd that i am about 4 weeks pregnant. I am happy and scared at the same time. Last time i was pregnant i had a termination because my boyfriend dident want it. I felt under great pressure and i decided that a teremination was the best ...
A. 15 April 2009: dont let your boyfriend pressure you into anything you dont want.
my mum is a single mum & has been for 14 years, yes she struggles but she manages & i think she has done a really good job of raising myself & my younger sister. Im sure there wi... (read in full...)
Somewhere different, something different to do!
Q. its mine and my boyfriends 2 year anniversary coming up in septemper. i know its a while off yet but i really want to do something really special, out of the ordinary and different. my boyfriend is quite cultured, into historic things, educatio...
A. 14 April 2009: i agree with armymedic
check out www.jet2.com, they have cheap flights too paris. If your strapped for cash look into staying in a hostel, or take a tent with you.
hope you have fun whatever you decide
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How can I spend the night with b/f without my parents finding out?
Q. I want to spend the night with my boyfriend. I'm 18, he's 19. His parents won't be there. His parents don't care, and they won't tell my parents. My parents know where he lives or i wouldn't have this problem. I have a friend to cover for me but I ...
A. 14 April 2009: can you not just tell your parents?
if not, why not get the friend who's house your 'staying' at to come & pick you up then drop you at your bf's.
if you leave your car somewhere what are you going to do if your parents drive past & see it?
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Why didn't you give in to temptation?
Q. Has anyone ever been tempted to cheat? If so- how didn't you give into the temptation?...
A. 14 April 2009: i dont know about anybody else but when im in a relationship i dont even look at another man!
if you want to cheat then you cant be happy with your partner & have no respect for him or yourself.
i have been cheated on before and wouldnt wish... (read in full...)
She says she doesn't love me! How can I make her love me?
Q. How can you make someone you girl frnd who is telling you she dont love you love you....
A. 14 April 2009: you cant make somebody love you!
The more you try, the more your going too push her away!
If she doesnt want a relationship with her, leave her alone!... (read in full...)
Can you truly be friends with your ex?
Q. My and my ex's relationship ended on good terms. I was just too shy and he felt we acted like friends. Me and my ex are really close, we're best friends coz we can tell each other everything even if its embarrassing. We even sometimes have a little ...
A. 14 April 2009: one of my best friends is a guy who i was seeing for a few weeks, but i think its because we never had sex & didnt become too emotionally involved in that way.
i have 2 ex's that i cared for a lot and we no longer speak, i used to speak to 1 of ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy..all the symptoms!
Q. Hi, im 17 years old and i have all of the symptoms of pregnancy but when i had taken the home pregnancy test, it told me that i was not pregnant. Ive gotten everything from gaining weight to morning sickness and everything in between. i really d...
A. 14 April 2009: if i were you i would take another pregnancy test, if your still not sure then book an appointment at your doctors.
i had a pregnancy scare a few months ago. I looked up symptoms on the net & found i had 5 of them so i took a test, it was negative... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with me being a virgin at 18?
Q. I'm 18 and still a virgin, but I live in a dorm and people here all just, they pretty much go after me and talk with each other about how I'm scared to have sex just cuz I havent ever done it. Is there something wrong with me being a virgin at 18?...
A. 14 April 2009: i wish i was still a virgin! ignore the people in your dorm, if they are having sex it cant be that good if all they are bothered about is your sex life! please dont do what i did and give into peer pressure, its the biggest regret of my lif... (read in full...)
Curious 14 year old girl ....
Q. hi i'm 14 and have done basically everything sexual. i was just wondering what age people have done different things eg. oral, lost virginity, anal, fantasies etc....
A. 14 April 2009: i was 14 when i lost my virginity & have regretted it ever since, but thats just me!
i used to think that if i had sex with a boy they would love me & respect me. All i got out of it was the name "slag".
i continued to sleep with boys untill... (read in full...)
13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare
Q. Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...
A. 14 April 2009: it might be cool to dress it up & show off to your friends but will it be cool when your getting up loads during the night? Or when your mates are all going to partys without you because you cant get a sitter?
You need to think about whats be... (read in full...)
Am I being that bad to my ex GF?
Q. I posted on here before and came back to get some more advice. I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost weight she is a size 14-16 but good looking i must say, I prefer ...
A. 9 April 2009: is this for real?
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Any suggestions on getting rid of spots on my back?
Q. This question is about my body. I don't get too many spots on my face, however i find i get loaadss on my back, and it looks disgusting. My boyfriend hasn't seen it yet, and im hoping he will not be turned of by it?:/ Even if it doesn't bother him...
A. 7 April 2009: try an exfoliating scrub while in the bath/shower. I found that putting talc on my back after the shower helped.
Also, get out in the sun. I know its rare here in the uk but when you get the chance, go and sit in your garden, even half an hour wil... (read in full...)
What should be used to shave "down there"?
Q. hey how do u shave down there i mean can i use a guys shaving razor??if not how else can i shave down there(pubic hair)please let me know...
A. 7 April 2009: i use normal shaving gel and a mans razor, they seem to be much better than womens!
You can also buy bikini line razors, basically they are smaller so easier to get to the tricky places!
Just be carefull, you dont want any accidents - trus... (read in full...)
Severe period pains...any home remedies?
Q. I came on my period today and I usually get pretty bad pains, but because I take paracetamol they usually take care of it. But today were out of them, and my mum forgot to pick some up, I'm sure many women posters have them bad so if anyone knew of ...
A. 7 April 2009: i used to suffer with my periods too, i found that a hot bath & hot water bottles helped. Also sleeping on my stomach eased the pain.
I would advise you to book an appointment with your doctor, i did. She was really helpfull & understa... (read in full...)
I just found out my husband is an alcoholic. What do I do now? Help me
Q. I have been married for 21 years. I recently realized my husband has a drinking problem. He will drink everyday if given the opportunity. It will be two years in August since the tragic death of our son, his stepson. I miss my son and I know his ...
A. 7 April 2009: i agree with the other aunts, but having had experience with an alcoholic before i dont think aa or the doctors will work untill he admits he is an alcoholic.
we tried absolutely everything, silent treatment, talking to the family, taking him on b... (read in full...)
Caught my preteen sister masturbating with a sex toy.. should I inform my parents?
Q. Well.. recently, actually about 2 hours ago I walked in on my younger sister masturbating. And the thing that got me, it was with sex toy. She didn't see me at first, but then I yelled her name and she quickly covered up. She is only 12 years old,...
A. 7 April 2009: masterbation is completely normal and i wouldnt worry about it.
I would be a little concerned as to how a 12 year old has managed to buy a sex toy though.
I wouldnt tell your parents, its not like she is doing anything illegal and could get in... (read in full...)
What are good exercises to get my flat belly back?
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and I've always been pretty thin, and able to eat what I like, without watching my diet. But recently since leaving school, I feel like I've put on a little weight and am developing a belly.. I'm trying to diet by giving up the things ...
A. 7 April 2009: i know how you feel! I went up a dress size after leaving college & got really fed up (i cant diet either!)
So just recently i have started to go on a mile jog 5 mornings a week, go to the gym twice a week and do 50 sit ups at home every day.
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Are we ready?
Q. okay here goes I'm 18 years old and will be 19 in june. I have been with my partner for over a year, we have been living together for 10 months and we adore each other. We both have stable jobs and have the option to overtime if we wanted. e...
A. 6 April 2009: hey every1, first of all thanks for the advise.
My partner and i read and re-read ur advise, had a long think & even longer chat & made a decision...
We are going to wait, we have made list of things we want to do before having a baby. ... (read in full...)
Is there a good reason for people to find out you've had sex?
Q. is there a good reason that people have to find out u've had sex? because i want to have sex with my bf, he wants to have sex with me, but we r concerned about getting caught and him going to jail since he is 18 and im 15. but i thinks its impossib...
A. 27 March 2009: i lost my virginity at 14, it was the worst thing i ever did.
i have regretted it since it happened.
and if i could go back in time i would have stayed a virgin untill i met my partner im with now
Cx... (read in full...)
His friend Katie is getting to close to him for comfort!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. I love him to pieces. I'm not a jealous girlfriend and I know I can trust him but he has this friend called Katie and she fancies him. She is all over him all the time. She tried to kiss him in front of ...
A. 23 March 2009: sit them both down & tell them how this makes you feel, explain to your boyfriend that you do trust him and your not trying to make them fall out but its making you uncomfortable
Tell this girl to back off! I take it as a compliment when i find o... (read in full...)
I was raped by my brothers best friend
Q. i need help I'm 12 i was raped by my brothers best friend now I'm pregnant please any advice ...
A. 23 March 2009: i agree with everybody else on this, you need to tell somebody you trust, nobody will judge you nothing that has happened is in any way your fault
U cant do this alone & while us cyber aunts can offer advise we cant be there to support u.
Do... (read in full...)
Is it possible I am pregnant? HELP
Q. im on the contriceptive pill and im 16 but on friday two days ago i had unprotected sex, and i have not been taking my pill since wednesday because im due to come on my period and suppose to be taking it again on thursday, but i still haven't come ...
A. 22 March 2009: im also on the pill & had sex without a condom, i was taking antibiotics at the time so the pill didnt work. I wasnt preg. But were all different so if i were you i would get a test.
I also remember what i used to be like when i started the pill... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant and really scared.
Q. Im 14 years old and I did a really stupid idea with my boyfriend that's 16. We had sex in his truck 1 time... 2-3 weeks ago and it was an accident. I found out 3 days ago that I'm pregnant. I don't believe in abortions because its just plain murd...
A. 22 March 2009: you need to think long and hard about what you think is the right thing to do for you and your baby
I completely disagree with abortion too, how awfull would you feel aborting this baby only to find out in years to come that this was your only cha... (read in full...)
I look at and scrutinize everything she has done from then to now
Q. I have a live in girlfriend that I have been with for over a year now and I love her with all that I have. My problem is that 2 months into our relationship we were out having drinks and she drank too much and does not remember the events of that...
A. 22 March 2009: if you werent there it would have done? What does that say about her and your brother!
No matter how drunk a person is, its not a justifiable excuse to cheat/flirt.
If you cant trust her then what kind of relationship have you got.
It doesn... (read in full...)
How can get over my ex girfriend after she dumped me for some other boy?
Q. i am 16 my gf is 14 and it al kicked of on wednesday afternoon me and my gf were sat in my room kissin and stuff and she got my name wrong i was hurt and upset and after a while of her talkin she told me she liked this outher boy who she had been...
A. 22 March 2009: first of all, if she was calling you other names in the bedroom you had a lucky escape
Second of all, how immature to come over & tell you she was with somebody else. She sounds like an attention seeker.
Thirdly, u can do so much better, i k... (read in full...)
I really like him and think about him everyday
Q. well i really like this boy but he is older then me some people may say to old and others say its fine. he has a girl friend and i am friends with her but have known him longer even though she is my friend i get on better with him an i really like...
A. 22 March 2009: he has a girlfriend, he is off limits.
Before you do anything, put yourself in his girlfriends shoes, how would you feel if you knew your so-called friend was thinking like this?
He may like you, but have some respect for yourself and you... (read in full...)
Should I talk to the "other woman"?
Q. my boyfriend has been seeing someone else. i found out yesterday. i'm really sad, but glad that i know the truth. i told him its over, obviously. I think he likes the other girl a lot. But my question is: should i tell the her? It's not to get...
A. 21 March 2009: if i were you i would concentrate on myself right now, pamper yourself, go out with friends, take a break - anything thats gonna help you get over this guy!
even if your intentions are good, your ex isnt going to make them out to be & most pro... (read in full...)
Am I just a one night stand and being played by this guy?
Q. I meet this guy (who is slightly older than me) who gave me his number (whole address in fact). Later that week he and i meet upand got on really well n talk about all sorts of things ended bein up all night and then spent the next 3days with him ...
A. 21 March 2009: it comes across to me that this man wants the physical side of a relationship but not the commitment or responsibilities of one.
i think you should move on & find somebody who appriciates you
By the time he has realised how stupid he has be... (read in full...)
Are we ready?
Q. okay here goes I'm 18 years old and will be 19 in june. I have been with my partner for over a year, we have been living together for 10 months and we adore each other. We both have stable jobs and have the option to overtime if we wanted. e...
A. 21 March 2009: thanks again people
Never been on a site like this before so i guess i was curious & thought why not kill 2 birds with 1 stone!
Nooo, dont ever ever ever want to be anything like my parents, they divorced when i was 5, i hardly saw him untill i... (read in full...)
Are we ready?
Q. okay here goes I'm 18 years old and will be 19 in june. I have been with my partner for over a year, we have been living together for 10 months and we adore each other. We both have stable jobs and have the option to overtime if we wanted. e...
A. 21 March 2009: thanks all, appreciate ur time & opinions
in reply to some questions...
Yes we have spent time apart, 2 6 week stints
Yes we have had money worries but we did the best we could & got ourselves sorted again
Yes i do have a job, as does ... (read in full...)
Hangover advice.
Q. Well, I need some advice... I'm so damn depressed so I have decided to go and get drunk on Monday morning after my first lecture at university, I won't be driving and will be with a sober person, I need to know how to get rid of the hangover by 3pm ...
A. 21 March 2009: okay 1st of all, you wont need a hangover cure, u will still be drunk! The alcohol will be in your system untill way after 3! Drinking when ur upset isnt a good idea, alcohol is a depressant. Think about this before u do it, the result of a ... (read in full...)
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