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My relationship status is that ive bn with my fella for 5 years and recently moved in with him.
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I slept with his sister - should I tell him?
Q. I've had a crush on my boyfriends sister and didn't find out that she was bisexual until I got into a relationship with her brother. She recently slept over at my house while my boyfriend was at work and we ended up getting a little too close. Do ...
A. 19 July 2009: i suggest you have a long think about this.. how do you feel about this girl? and more to the point - how do you feel about her brother...
You need to see what you want.. to be with a girl or a boy... but i do advise you to tell him before y... (read in full...)
How do I help him get over her?
Q. i have been friends with this person from school for 10 months now, but all he does is moan about my other friend not having feelings for him, he thinks its because he's "black, fat and ugly" but I cant help finding him annoying and seeking for ...
A. 19 July 2009: firstly - dont pretend to fancy him if you do not because thats wrong and will end up hurting him more.. hes obviously at the stage where self pity has sunken in. Sit him down and explain that you dont like seeing him upset but he has to face facts ... (read in full...)
Do I tell him that I like him too?
Q. i have a crush on this guy. just that other night, we were talking online. i couldnt hear him very well so i told him to call me. after we talked for a little while,we atated talking about my bff. i asked him why hi cared so much a bout my bff. i...
A. 19 July 2009: Do you like him?? if you do, then of course tell him that you like him also. you are young - go on a few dates with this guy and enjoy yourself..... (read in full...)
I think I might have caught my husband on a dating site?
Q. Dear cupid, I was looking though our computer last night and came across a site that should not have been on there when my husband asked me what i was looking at i asked him if he knew about this site he said no its a pop up i dont know alot abo...
A. 11 March 2009: I suspect he has been on the website, either for curiousity or more. Deleting history is a sure sign he dont want you to know what hes been up to. Its not nice knowing he is using these sites. sit him down and talk to him. But also keep a close eye ... (read in full...)
Are these signs of him wanting to break up?
Q. So my boyfriend always ignores me whenever he sees me, he doesnt call me anymore and when i call him he makes up excuses and says "someone else is calling, ill call you back" and when i say "i love you" he'll say it back but it's more of an "i dont ...
A. 26 February 2009: Hey, i think the guy is trying to cool it off with you but doesnt have the nerve to actually do it. so hes just ignoring you completely in the hope that you will get the hint and move on. If hes treating you like that, then hes not worth it any... (read in full...)
Very light period, could I be pregnant?
Q. hey me and my boyfriend had sex but i think the condom split but i came on my period the next day so i thought i couldnt be pregnant. Im ment to be on my period now but its only very light or nothing at all. Iv took two pregnancy tests lately a...
A. 20 February 2009: No. if you have took 2 tests then the chances are you are not pregnant. Periods can be lighter than usual, mine has been. Its nothing to worry bout.... (read in full...)
I hate myself and my personality, what can I do?
Q. Im 25, I have a good job, lots of friends and Im nice looking. But I hate myself, I hate my personality I feel that people think that Im weird or boring and dont want to hang out with me. Im also quiet when I go out with friends and worry I wont ...
A. 17 February 2009: You need to stop being so hard on yourself. Give yourself a bit of credit, you have a great job with many friends, count yourself lucky. Why do you hate your personality? Whats so wrong about it? I will confess that im the same with the alcoho... (read in full...)
What do you suppose he meant by THAT?
Q. Hi I'm using my aunt's site. I'm 21. Anyway there are these guys at work, they are older than me, and well, one of them, TIM, I think has been hitting on me, like, we were talking and I got passionate over the idea of eating a grilled steak.... ...
A. 12 February 2009: Basically "tim" has been talking about you and obviously told his mates hes into you so back off and stay away from you. He has no right at all to say your his territory not even if you were his girlfriend. ... (read in full...)
He was so nice to me, then he said some horrible things about me to another friend...
Q. Hey, I really liked this guy at my work. We were really flirty with each other and kept in contact out of work. He asked to meet up a couple of weeks ago and I ended up sleeping with him. I know I should have waited, but at the time it felt right ...
A. 30 January 2009: He has obviously said the right things to get you into bed... You have come across as easy to him which in my mind sickens me because when girls sleep with the guy on the first night they are tramps yet guys get praised for doing it on the first ... (read in full...)
I'm in love but I suspect my man is cheating, how can I catch him...?
Q. I'm in love but I suspect my man is cheating, how can I catch him...? I can't go through his phone because no one calls and he tells everyone that does call to call him back because he's with me. What do you suggest???...
A. 30 January 2009: what makes you think he is cheating??? You havent stated clear enough what the story is... how long you been together.. is he acting weird. have you confronted him???There could be a simple explaination but until you give us more details we cant ... (read in full...)
Should I give this man up or continue to be a goofy?
Q. Hello, I'm currently in a relationship but it seems like every time he wants to be free he tells me "I'm not messing with you any more" but then when he wants to come home it's "oh baby I love you". 9 out of 10 I'm pregnant but I don't think I can ...
A. 30 January 2009: Give up.. he is a useless excuse for a man... If you are pregnant and he still hasn't wisened up then he is not worth it. I know it's not nice to admit but I think you should move on and put yourself and your children first. Especially as you have ... (read in full...)
3 questions about sex!
Q. Hey, My boyfriend and I lost our virginity about 3 months ago and have sex every day. Before I lost my virginity my boyfriend would finger me. Since I've been having sex my vagina has become somewhat looser (to the point where my bf can fit 4 fin...
A. 29 January 2009: 1..It is normal to loosen up down thre when you have sex.
2.. Depends what size the male is... Its nothing to be worried about...
I would suggest you not to worry too much about this as that is normal to happen.. It gets stretched because a ma... (read in full...)
My wife's boss wants to get her pregnant then he will promote her!!!!!
Q. Hi my wife's boss wants to impregnate her with his child. My wife also wants it as he will promote her if she does so. Should I let it happen?...
A. 29 January 2009: Ermmm, are you sick or something!!!
NO!!! how dare he even suggest it !!! No promotion is worth that.. For gods sake say something before its too late!
Re - read your question!!!! Come on mate, have a bit of respect for yourself..... (read in full...)
Sex for the first time.... but I've taken my period!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have never had sex before, and this Saturday was going to be our first time. The only problem is today I have started my period (this morning) and we were planning to have sex either late saturday night or the early hours of...
A. 29 January 2009: Personally, i think you should wait until your period is over.. Especially if its both your first time, you want to be able to remember it! 1..It will be messy.. prepare to have it not only over you both but on your sheets too so when your finish... (read in full...)
He says he's a virgin, but I don't think I believe him
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend now for almost six months, and he claims to still be a virgin. I don't know whether I can fully believe him or not because he has told me in the past that he has had sex before, but then one day he tells me that was...
A. 29 January 2009: You have to believe your boyfriend when he tells you this private information. A lot of people pretend to their new gf/bf that they have had sex before because they think its easier to say that than to admit to being a virgin. You should be grateful ... (read in full...)
It's coming up to our 5 year anniversary and I want to do something nice for my boyfriend, any ideas?
Q. It's coming up to our 5 year anniversary and I want to do something nice for my boyfriend... Any ideas??? Male and female answers welcome!!...
A. 29 January 2009: Great, thanks every1!!! ive just went and booked and hotel for the weekend :P:P ... (read in full...)
Dumped? Or he just needs space?
Q. hi was seeing some for couple dates started shifts sayd hes too busy to see me at the minute etc. Does this mean that i've been dumped or does he just need space and time to adjust?...
A. 27 January 2009: I would say that he is dumped you. No matter how busy you are, after cin sum1 for a few dates and if you liked them , then u would make time.. do you not agree..
Dont call him, dont waste your time. Jus take the hint and get on with your life!!
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I'm scared he's going to cheat on me (maybe with a girl?)
Q. I recently foundmy perfect boyfriend, and although it doesn't seem long we are celebrating 3 weeks together tomorrow. However pleased I am (as normally people get sick of me by now) I am sometimes worried as I think he is going to dump me at ...
A. 27 January 2009: If you are stressing about your bf dumping you, he will sense it you know! why you so paranoid hes going to end it with you?? Has he gave you any indications that he wants you??
In the end its going to be your behaviour and attitude that will bre... (read in full...)
My gf played spin-the-bottle and kissed 7 people in a night. Now I am confused....
Q. How would you feel if your girlfriend kissed 7 people in a night ? Well that what my girlfriend did and i feel very bad on that and it was a spinning bottle game and i felt like people who play that just don't pay respect to their selves and righ...
A. 27 January 2009: i think you should end it with this girl. Clearly she doesnt respect or think very much of you if she can kiss 7 guys in 1 night and think its a "laugh"
Get rid and find someone who will treat you right !
good luck, let me no how u get on... (read in full...)
Ever since we got caught having sex we argue about stupid stuff
Q. I feel like i'm losing my boyfriend. We met on holiday and i just fell in love with him and ever since then we spend hours on the phone every night and meet up with each other when we can. The last time i saw him we got caught having sex by his...
A. 27 January 2009: Getting caught by his mum has been a real embarrassment for him and you too of course but because its his mum its worse. Ask him whats wrong? Having sex isnt a crime unless your under 16 of course and im some part of our liives we all get caught in ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but he smokes weed...
Q. I am in a six moneth relationship with my boyfriend and we are very happy, loving and caring and affectionate towards each other, we get on so well and I've never been happier. the only problem is he occasionally smokes weed... its far from all the...
A. 26 January 2009: i can relate with you in this situation but im with my boyfriend for 5 years and he has finally kicked his smoking weed in oct! I am so anti drugs also and know the effects blow can have on your mind. Like you , my boyfriend was smoking it before i ... (read in full...)
I fear that I married too quickly and possibly for the sake of BEING married.
Q. Despite what you will soon read, I'm a LOVE novice. I was married for 19 years and it ended in divorce after she discovered body building and I didn't want to become a body builder myself. I remarried after 20 months and have been married now for ...
A. 26 January 2009: You have to ask yourself do you really love this woman?? sounds to me like your making excuses to end things..
sex does die down after you are married for a long time and have kids but why dont you talk to her about that? she maybe feels the same... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is being so clingy.
Q. My boyfriend is being so clingy and I am so scared of ending things because he says I am the only good thing in his life and he couldnt take it if things ended. I think he can read the signals that I am not happy. He relies on me for lifts here ...
A. 26 January 2009: If you have fallen out of love with your boyfriend than be honest with him. Tell him the reason you are going off him is that his life revolves around yours. HE needs you 24/7 and thats not what you want. Tell him you want a more dependant guy who ... (read in full...)
Girl's advice: Which one am I in love with?
Q. hi okay so i need so advice mainly from girls. okay my girlfriend was suppose to go to the dance but had a prob and had to go with her dad and pick up her mom so i went to the dance cause i was a rep. so my ex gf was a rep that i had to walk with ...
A. 26 January 2009: You have to ask yourself who you like better. Your ex girlfriend is an ex for a reason. Dont play the 2 girls of each other as th at is not nice, but you are very yuong to be worrying about which girl to chose.
I say you stick to your new girl... (read in full...)
Just split with my first and only sexual partner...
Q. Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I recently split, He was my first and only sexual partner. Now that we are not together, I feel depressed and empty...Like I've lost something important to me. I feel like I just want to go out and have sex with ra...
A. 26 January 2009: Its hard to believe it when people say to you that you will feel better after time. But you will!! It is hard when you break up with your first sexual partner as you had all this trust in that person to go through with it. Unfortunately life sucks ... (read in full...)
Can you really take back an ex....?
Q. I broke up with my b/f of 3 yrs approxmately 8 months ago because he didn't seem to voalize his love for me and he seemed to wanna me with his buddies more often then me. We both dated other people during the break and rarely spoke to each other. ...
A. 26 January 2009: Firstly, hes an ex for a reason. MY personal opionion is that never go back to ex's but you gotta go with your heart. chances are he will not have changed, yes im sure he misses you and probably realizes he took you for granted but i can see him ... (read in full...)
Whyy am I still single??
Q. i'm 15,i'm a sophmore in high school and i was wondering.is it normal to never have a boyfriend.i mean i've been on a date,i've been kissed,i've done hook-ups,but i never had a boyfriend and i really wanna know why probably because. i always flirt...
A. 26 January 2009: You are so young to be talking about love but for boyfriends then that will eventually come. You already know guys think your hot but even though you think your ready for a boyfriend. your mind is obviously saying something else. Its not a big deal ... (read in full...)
Do people lie about their age?
Q. do people lie about their age? If so, why?...
A. 23 January 2009: Yup of course they do, for all different reasons. if a girl is 16 and wanted to go clubbing she will lie and say shes 18 or if there is this real cute fella shes into but is a few years older, she will then lie that she too is a few years older so ... (read in full...)
Shes angry because I told a friend I love her
Q. I told my friend that i love her and she became angry with me,what should i do because i dont want to break up with her. ...
A. 23 January 2009: is this girl your friend or girlfriend?? If she is your friend and you have told her you love her and her reaction is anger then im assuming she doesnt feel that way toward you. Tell her your sorry and yuo dont want it to change things between you. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me after 11 years for a younger woman.
Q. My boyfriend left me after 11 years for a woman who has a young boy of about 7-8 years, he 30 this year I'm 47 and she's 31, he's only been with her for 5 weeks. I found out last night she is a big girl size 16 and non atractive (I know there's ...
A. 23 January 2009: Dont let him make an idiot out of you. If he insists your relationship is over then make him take all his stuff and to leave you alone. He is stringing you along incase this new relationship turns sour very quick. If that is the case, he will come ... (read in full...)
Sort of caught in the middle with 2 girls
Q. I got a teansy problem, okay theres this girl i relaly am starting to like, My friend is her best friend so obviousl she knows that i like her, but isnt really interested in me, but i do have a chance, she told me well theres tis other girl i kno...
A. 23 January 2009: You have to decide which of the girls you like best and then you will know what to do. Dont play 2 girls at once because you will end up the loser !!... (read in full...)
His friends say he likes me but he hasn't said so
Q. There are a group of boys in my p.e. class and for the three days they keep on insisting that I should date one of there friends. They say he likes me, the way I voice, and that he likes my eyes. But they say it in front of him and he says that he ...
A. 23 January 2009: He is probably shy to admit that he likes you. i get the feeling he does, maybe next time his friends say he fancies you , you should say cool , i like him too. and see what he says. He is probably embarrassed around his friends etc so maybe try ... (read in full...)
Do you have to be a member of Zoosk in order to contact someone?
Q. Hi I am interested in a guy who I am friends with on Facebook. He has added the "Zoosk" singles application to his profile. I clicked in the 'send a message' box to ask him out for a drink but when I pressed send, my screen just went blank....
A. 23 January 2009: Why dont you simply just register with this site and send the message again. i would think the message didnt send as there is usually a confirmation when sending mgs.
Sign up, message him and all the best!!!... (read in full...)
Should I leave because of her vagina size or tell her it bothers me?
Q. My girlfriend vagina is much looser than any other women i have been in a serious relationship with, what really bothers me is that i dont have a small penis im actually well over average, so i kno its not me, I really like the person that she is, ...
A. 23 January 2009: Dont ever bring that up to her? its not her fault its the way it is. If you are considering ending it with her because of this issue then you dont deserve her.!!!... (read in full...)
Shall I just move on? My gut instinct says that he is avoiding me.
Q. My ex boyfriend contacted me 4 months after breaking up with me and wanted to see me, we met up a few times and ended up sleeping together. I am not over him and he knows that He told me I am beautiful and that he still thinks of me especially ...
A. 22 January 2009: I would say he is a coward. He cannot face telling you that he dont want you so he resorts to ignoring you. You have wasted enough time on this loser. If he tries to contact you again with another bunch of excuses, dont buy into it. He knows u still ... (read in full...)
How can I make him believe that I was a virgin?
Q. hi,after i had sex for the first time, i realised i wasnt a virgin. my boyfriend does'nt belive me when i tell him he was my first since i wasnt a virgin. i think the cause of loosing my virginity is riding bicycles alot since it was one of my ...
A. 22 January 2009: Only having intercourse with someone will make you lose your virginity. if your bf doesnt believe you when you have told him many times that you were a virgin then i say you get rid of him.Who does he think he is? its a sensitive subject and he ... (read in full...)
Was dropping out of uni the biggest mistake of my life?
Q. hi, im 21 and last year in january i dropped out of university. i have a lot of problems at home with my mum. she wants to control everything i do and she drinks a lot. she messes with my head so much. i convinced myself dropping out was the righ...
A. 22 January 2009: What do you want to do. Your a young woman and its your choice what you do. If u really miss college and know this time you wont drop out then go for it. Your mum cant control you anymore, get her to see a doc if you think she has a drink problem. ... (read in full...)
When are my "safe" days???
Q. Hi, I have a boyfriend that I have been dating for 3 years and we started having sex like one and a half years ago. My problem is that I still don't know my safe days so am forced to use emergency pills which I believe are not advisable to use ...
A. 22 January 2009: Go on the pill. Its safe and gives you an idea of when you are due etc. ALways make sure he wears a condom. ... (read in full...)
She broke my heart and all I want is to help her...
Q. So, my most recent girlfriend just broke up with me, she says it's because of the distance, she lives 5 hours away, but the distance has never really bothered me, and now she's very very depressed, she's started cutting herself, I still love her, ...
A. 22 January 2009: If ur girlfriend or ex gf is cutting herself then she needs proper help. FAST!!
Relationships are hard fullstop never mind having a long distance one. 5 hours away is quite a distance to make a relationship work.
you just have to think are yo... (read in full...)
Should I send him a message apologising for my friend?
Q. I was upset with my online man cause he wasn't acting the same then my best friend got really upset and sent him a message saying I was crying for him and that if he cared about me he should talk to me. I told her not to send any messages to him and ...
A. 22 January 2009: I wouldnt send him a mgs back, i would wait for a week or 2 and if you dnt hear anything i would just move on. Dont let this guy upset you.... (read in full...)
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