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writes:Dear cupid,I was looking though our computer last night and came across a site that should not have been on there when my husband asked me what i was looking at i asked him if he knew about this site he said no its a pop up i dont know alot about computers but would a pop up stay in sites that have been visted.I tried to write down the web address but he had deleted it the site was a dating one called my desire any one heard of it.Be glad of your help as i think something is not quite right here. Reply to this Question
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reader, massdestruction3  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 You can check the history folders, not the one on the internet, because it really never gets deleted. And, a lot of those sites are pop ups, sometimes when i'm on a proxy server or, some moderate site Adult Friend finder adds come up and show my hometown, etc. Also, check if you have a pop-up blocker, if you do, then he was on a dating site. The best thing is to talk to him. Good luck hun, XO
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): Many thanks for the replies.
Shaashiie it was nt in the histroy it was in the drop down list that comes up,and he has deleted all sites from there so he would have had to tpye it in sorry not much good on a computer but the site did have girls that were from our home town is this possible?
I've tried typing in but just cant find it i wish i wrote it down before i said anything now i never know, he swears that it was a pop up but he has been acting a bit strange.Thanks again x
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (11 March 2009):
 Sounds dodgy to me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): Well all I can tell you is when I had a boyfriend he used to go to dating sites and also youknowwhat sites, sooo I started checking every day the histroy until I noticed that he was erasing it, THAT is never a good sign!!!!!! warning all over!!! what does he has to hide?!, please be carefull if you can try and be more cautios and as soon as he gets off the computer verify the history, believe me I know the feeling of that,
Take care!
Stephanie!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): Don't know about dating sites just popping up, surely you have to be on some type of sex site first? But then again, lots of things pop up when I using the computer, so you should probably take his explanation seriously.I am suspicious by his behaviour, if he did nothing wrong, why delete it. What is going on in your marriage? How come you feel suspicious of him? Your gut reaction is that something is wrong, and to tell the truth, I agree with you.Ask him if he has registered onto a dating site, and tell him not to lie, because lies destroy relationships. If he admits that he uses them, it may be just curiosity rather than a man straying from home. You and him need to have a serious talk about your marriage, and your suspicions. (Remember a friendly talk, not a shouting arguing match)
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reader, carriebaby +, writes (11 March 2009):
 I suspect he has been on the website, either for curiousity or more. Deleting history is a sure sign he dont want you to know what hes been up to. Its not nice knowing he is using these sites. sit him down and talk to him. But also keep a close eye when he is using the internet.
Good luck
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reader, shaashiie +, writes (11 March 2009):
 Only websites that you yourself type into the browser stay saved on that drop-down menu, if that's what you mean. If it was in the history I still don't think pop-ups stay in there either, but I'm not sure so please don't accuse him just yet! If it was in the temporary internet files and it was a pop-up it WOULD be there. So it depends what exactly you mean by history. And I agree with the other auntie, keep an eye on the history just incase! Get back to me and tell me where specifically you saw it and I can help you more.
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reader, passionatelynumb +, writes (11 March 2009):
 A pop-up wouldn't be held in the history. However I wouldn't be super quick to jump to conclusions. He may have saw a pop up or advertisement and clicked on it out of curiosity.
Briefly looking at a dating site is probably not cause for concern, but signing up for one would definitely be wrong.
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