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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey,My boyfriend and I lost our virginity about 3 months ago and have sex every day.Before I lost my virginity my boyfriend would finger me. Since I've been having sex my vagina has become somewhat looser (to the point where my bf can fit 4 fingers inside me)... so I have a few questions.1.Is it normal to become this much looser?2.How loose is average?3.How can I become tighter?Thankyou
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reader, CarregCariad +, writes (31 January 2009):
 You loosen up when aroused anyway so it's perfectly normal. But it never really stays like that, some people even after children are lucky enough to have everything spring back. But in agreement with what others have said, Kegels work REALLY well, also after a while when your pelvic muscles are strong enough. Do it while having intercourse and it improves the feeling during intercourse.
The way you do these is just tense the muscles that you would use to stop yourself peeing!
But trust me. It works!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): kegels…you can also buy a little toy thing to do kegels w/ too…but i don't know how necessary that would be
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Everyone reacts differently, there is no real answer to what is normal.If you think about it, the vajayjay is supposed to stretch and will stretch to fit - think about how much it stretches when you pop out a babie...i don't think you should be worrying that your partner can get 4 fingers up there...you can try some pelvic floor excercises to tighten the pelvis flor muscles. you can do these sitting or standing almost anywhere you like and no one will ever know you're doing them. You can feel your pelvic floor muscles when you clench as though you need to hold in a pee. try clenching these muscles a few times then stop, hen do it again a few more times over whenever you feel the need - mothers who have just given birth are given these exersises to do to help strengthen the muscles post-birth so there is no harmin doing these....just don't stress yourself out over it, its not a problem and as nature intended it, boobs will get lower, skin will get wrinklier and vaginas will stretch....just enjoy it while you can :)xx
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reader, diamotsu +, writes (29 January 2009):
1. having sex every day, it's perfectly normal to become loose
2. every woman varies, there's no set average
3. there is a vaginal exercise called "kegels" that you can do... it basically involves flexing the vaginal muscles over and over.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/kegel-exercises/WO00119
that explains it in more detail
hope I helped you
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reader, carriebaby +, writes (29 January 2009):
 1..It is normal to loosen up down thre when you have sex.
2.. Depends what size the male is... Its nothing to be worried about...
I would suggest you not to worry too much about this as that is normal to happen.. It gets stretched because a male goes inside you.
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