A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, I really liked this guy at my work. We were really flirty with each other and kept in contact out of work. He asked to meet up a couple of weeks ago and I ended up sleeping with him. I know I should have waited, but at the time it felt right and it was completely 'in the heat of the moment.' After that weekend, he would text me every day and things seemed to be going well. Then today, my other friend at work tells me that he was slying passing comments to her that I was slutty and a bad memory. She wasn't sure if he was joking about and she pretended she didn't know what happened bewteen me and him. I am so confused because he has been so nice to me and then to say something like that has made me feel really hurt. I am also worried that he has heard some rumours that were going around my school recently about me and other guys and he might feel used.I have no idea what to do?? I want to phone him but I am not sure how to get into the conversation as he won't know where it's coming from. It's not like me to just give into a guy on the 1st night but he might think that's the kind of girl I am .I'm scared of making a fool of myself if he dosen't know or heard anything. I really like him, but I don't know where I stand. I think he has the wrong immpression of me. Any ideas on what I should do?
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reader, carriebaby +, writes (30 January 2009):
 He has obviously said the right things to get you into bed... You have come across as easy to him which in my mind sickens me because when girls sleep with the guy on the first night they are tramps yet guys get praised for doing it on the first nite!
Now that he has slept with you, hes being very immature about it by slagging you of to work collegues.
Move on, act like nothing has happened and get on with your life. He obviously doesnt think too much of you if he can talk about your night with work collegues.
Sorry to tell you that but thats what i think
let me no how u get on
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